I am 62 years old and have an adopted daughter. I am seriously ill and it costs 300,000 yuan to cure it. The adoptive daughter's method makes me cry
I am Haibo, an authentic farmer, no pension. My father left when I was 10 years old and my mother raised me up alone.
Because my family is poor, I went home to help my mother farm before I finished elementary school.
When I was 23 years old, I got up early and drove the cattle, wanting to plow the fields, and planned to plant some peanuts.
When I was halfway, I heard the legend of the child crying in the grass by the roadside. I quickly followed the crying sounds, and there was indeed a lie in the grass, wrapping the child in old clothes.
I picked up the child and opened the package. It was a girl. She kept crying, so I had to tie the cow and let it eat grass there first. I took the child home.
My mother saw me early in the morning and brought back a crying child. She quickly filled a bowl of porridge and fed her a drink. After the child finished drinking, she stopped crying.
At this time, my mother asked me where the child came from? I said I picked it up in the grass by the roadside.
Mother said, please send this child away soon. You are a big man who can't marry a wife at first. If you have another child, it will be even more difficult to get a wife.
I said to my mother, "You see, this is a girl, it must be something others don't want. Where can I send it? Don't worry, if I can't marry a wife in this life, this child is a gift from God.
No matter if I don't marry a wife in the future, I will respect you and give you a care. Don't worry."
Seeing that I have a firm attitude, she herself is a kind person, so she agreed to keep the child and name it Xiaoting.
Xiaoting's arrival has added a lot of joy to our family and a lot of expenses. It is really not easy to raise children.
In order to give Xiaoting a good life, I work day and night. I am not busy with farming, so I go to burn kilns for others to earn some money.
When Xiaoting was at school, the expenses were even greater. In addition to helping people burn kilns, I also went to mow grass and chop wood to sell.
Although I read less, I know that knowledge changes destiny. No matter how hard or tired I have, I have to make money to support Xiaoting's study so that she can live a better future and not be like me.
Xiaoting is very sensible, well-behaved, and smart. She has always had good grades and is also very considerate to me, her father and grandma.
When I come back from school, I will rush to help do what I can, which makes my mother and I feel very pleased.
When Xiaoting was in her second year of high school, my mother left us forever. Xiaoting cried so hard that she also said that she didn't want to go to school and wanted to go out to work to earn money. She didn't want me to work too hard.
Of course I disagree. I tried to persuade her, but she still refused to go back to school. I had to put down my harsh words and said that if she didn't go to school, I would cut off the father-daughter relationship with her, and she then returned to school.
Two years later, Xiaoting was admitted to a university in Guangzhou and became the only college student in our village. I was very happy and worked hard to make money, and I was more motivated to work.
The day before Xiaoting went to Guangzhou to go to school, I told her everything about her life experience, and told her to go if she wanted to find her biological parents.
After listening, she had tears in her eyes, but she said to me with a smile: "Dad, you will always be my father. I have known for a long time that I am not your biological child. You have never married for me for the sake of me. I will never leave you. In my life, you are the only father. Whether you are a biological child or not, it doesn't matter. You are my biological father..."
Xiaoting's words touched me very much, and I feel that the hard work of this life is worth it.
After Xiaoting graduated from university, she stayed in Guangzhou to work and sent me living expenses every month. Later, she married into a good family in Guangzhou.
sson-in-law is a local from Guangzhou, with an only child, and both parents work in the unit. They don’t mind our family’s poor background, and treat Xiaoting like a daughter, which makes me very grateful.
Spring goes and autumn comes. Before I knew it, Xiaoting has been married for 12 years, and her children are 11 years old. Time flies so fast.
Over the years, Xiaoting and her son-in-law often take their children back to see me and take me to Guangzhou for retirement. I was unwilling to go and I didn’t want to disturb my daughter’s life.
html At the beginning of 2 years, I got sick and was sent to the hospital by my neighbor. It was quite serious and I had to undergo surgery. It would cost about 300,000 yuan to cure it.
I didn’t tell my daughter that she is not my biological child. I shouldn’t bother her or add burden to her. I just hope she is happy.
However, just when I was about to die of treatment, when I was discharged from the hospital, my daughter and son-in-law appeared in front of me, saying that the neighbor called her and said that I did not cooperate with the doctor, so she immediately asked for leave and rushed back.
I said this disease is too expensive and I will not be cured. Anyway, people have to return to the country, so don’t waste money.
My daughter held my hand and said in a crying voice: "Dad, what are you talking about? You cooperate with the doctor to treat the disease. We will solve the problem of money. I will make money now.
You raised me since childhood. For me, you never married. I will never finish this kindness in my life. If you don't cooperate with the doctor and treat the disease well, how can you make me worthy of my grandma?
says to raise children to prevent old age. Just listen to me, ANYANG I am treating the disease here with my heart. I can't do without you. You are only over 60 years old. No matter what, I have to live to 100 years old and let me repay your kindness.
Didn't you say that you want to go to Beijing to climb the Great Wall and watch the flag-raising? I haven't taken you yet. When your illness is cured and the epidemic is improved, we will take you there... "
son-in-law is also advising me to treat the disease well, saying that their family is rich, so that I don't have to worry about money, and said that after my illness is cured, I will take me to their house and enjoy my old age.
When I heard this, I burst into tears. Are these two children really better than their own children? I didn't want to disappoint them, so I had to cooperate with the doctor.
After my illness was cured, I wanted to go back to the village to live alone, but later I couldn't resist my daughter, so I came to Guangzhou.
Now, I am also used to life in Guangzhou. My two in-laws often come to chat with me. We, together with us, live a harmonious and happy life.
@Muziyan Story : Haibo’s daughter is so nice, filial, grateful, and rewarding. If there is a woman like this, what else can my husband ask for? And he is not his biological child.
I hope there is more people in the world. Young people like Xiaoting will not have to worry about their old age, but they can have a place to rely on and enjoy their old age.
Friends, do you envy Haibo? What is your relationship with your children or parents? Welcome to leave a message to share.
