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I am Aunt Wang, 53 years old this year.
50 years old, I liked to retire. I have planned to go out with my good sisters to enjoy the mountains and rivers after retirement and learn my favorite Chinese painting and Guzheng .
Just waited for me to finish the retirement procedures, and after two days of a happy life, something happened to my mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage, and the person was saved, but the left half of the body hemiplegia .
The mother-in-law has two sons and one daughter. My elder sister-in-law is the eldest, my husband is the third, and my uncle is the second.
When my mother-in-law got into trouble, my elder sister-in-law helped take care of my grandson at her daughter's house, and her younger grandson was less than 3 months old. My elder sister-in-law wants to take care of her mother-in-law, but she is unable to do anything. Because her daughter's mother-in-law died very early, she could only count on her mother's mother, and her brother-in-law has not retired yet.
The eldest uncle and sister-in-law are both working in Fujian and calling them, they said that the factory is very busy and it is difficult to take leave. Then, my sister-in-law sent me 500 yuan on WeChat and said she wanted to buy some delicious food for her mother-in-law.
But she didn't know that lying in the hospital, 500 yuan was just a drop in the bucket.
money, I confiscated it in the end. Because I am afraid that my sister-in-law will be honest. Otherwise, with her temperament, I will definitely say, "Didn't I give you 500 yuan?" We haven't paid any money."
I know my sister-in-law so much that she cares about money. I remember one year when my mother-in-law celebrated her birthday, she bought her a wool sweater worth more than 100 yuan. She also said that she had bought it for many years and said that she had spent a lot of money, so it would be up to her to be filial.
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My mother-in-law was lying in the hospital. My husband meant that I went over to take a look during the day and gave my mother-in-law some food. Ask a nurse. When I am not here at night, let the nurse look at her mother-in-law. On the weekend, my aunt and sister went to pick up my shift and asked me to take a two-day rest.
My husband is a teacher in a middle school and has not retired yet, so he is very busy. After he discussed with his elder sister-in-law, his elder sister-in-law also agreed to hire a nursing staff, and the cost was agreed that our three families would be equal.
The eldest sister-in-law took the initiative to call the eldest brother and sister-in-law, but unexpectedly, when she heard that she wanted to divide the difference, the eldest sister-in-law was unhappy. What she means is that our two families have better conditions than hers and they have to pay more.
The eldest sister-in-law said at the time: We are three families, and you are the ones who are most partial to me. She helped you bring your son to elementary school to graduate. Will you take us for a day? If you have any delicious food and drinks in your daily life, Mom is also concerned about you. You must have a conscience in life.
The eldest sister-in-law stopped talking.
Although I take care of my mother-in-law, I can’t describe it to her in my heart. Just like my elder sister-in-law said, my mother-in-law is too partial. I gave birth to a daughter back then, but my mother-in-law went to take a look with her father-in-law and brought some eggs and vegetables. Then she hurried back, saying that she had to pick up her eldest grandson from school in the afternoon.
My confinement period was taken care of by my mother, and my mother helped me take care of my daughter before she was 3 years old. When my daughter went to kindergarten, I found a way to pick her up and drop her off.
At that time, I also resented my mother-in-law and thought that when she gets old, I don’t care about her.
However, I still have to consider my husband's feelings. He has several classes of teaching tasks, and he is already very tired when he stands while teaching during the day, so he even asks him to take care of his mother-in-law, which is unrealistic. So, all I did was to share the burden for him.
Fortunately, my aunt and sister understand me very much. She said, my mother has been partial to her for so long, and she probably knows who is better when she gets old.
Later, I realized that my aunt said this too early.
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My mother-in-law has lived in the hospital for nearly a month, and most of the medical expenses can be reimbursed, and the nursing care expenses need to be distributed equally by our three families. My elder sister-in-law sent the bill to my elder sister-in-law. She quickly called and cried, saying that the factory was not doing well. She and my elder brother had been paid half of their salary for several months. My son was still studying for a master's degree and had to spend money.
Later, my aunt and sister-in-law simply said harshly, "If you don't give it to me, I will come to your factory and I will also take back the money." What's more, my mother was a cow and horse for you back then and helped you raise your children. None of us had ever enjoyed this treatment. Why didn't you pay?
In the end, my sister-in-law reluctantly transferred the money.
It’s just that after being discharged from the hospital, my mother-in-law has to be surrounded by people.We hired a nanny for her, but my mother-in-law was very picky. After she was angry that she could no longer find a suitable person.
My husband and sister-in-law were both worried, and in the end they discussed with me, otherwise I would help take care of my mother-in-law. Then, my sister-in-law gave me 2,000 yuan a month, and asked my sister-in-law and the others to give me 2,000 yuan a month. When my sister-in-law heard that she wanted to steal money, she wouldn't give it to her anyway.
In the end, my aunt felt sorry for her and gave me 3,000 a month.
My husband also begged me, saying that he really had no choice. He retired in a few years, so he would take care of his mother-in-law.
At the beginning, my mother-in-law was also making a fuss. I said, if you don’t cooperate with me like this, I will send you back to your old house and you will die by yourself. Besides, I am your daughter-in-law. You didn’t serve me during confinement or help me take care of my children. I took care of you because of your son, otherwise I wouldn’t bother with you.
The mother-in-law finally listened to it and stopped making trouble. However, her recovery has not been very effective, and her left half is in a state of hemiplegia.
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I took care of my mother-in-law for 3 years, and my husband was about to retire. My aunt's grandson went to kindergarten. She sent the child to kindergarten in the morning and then came to my house.
My sister-in-law said that in the past three years, I have been busy with work, thank you for your hard work, and now she has time, so she also gives me some rest. So every day, my elder sister-in-law comes, she cooks lunch, she washes her mother-in-law's clothes, and even helps her take a shower early in the afternoon.
The eldest sister-in-law and his wife couldn't even see each other during festivals. Sometimes, the eldest brother didn't make a phone call for several months.
But I didn’t expect that my mother-in-law’s heart would not be warm. On the National Day holiday, her eldest grandson worked and finally had time to come back to see her once.
The mother-in-law was so happy that when the child left, the mother-in-law gestured with her aunt and husband in ambiguous language to discuss with her elder sister-in-law and husband that she would sell her old house. Anyway, she doesn't stay now. All the money for selling the house is given to her eldest grandson.
Her eldest grandson said she wanted to buy a house in Hangzhou. She was under great pressure and she had to help him, otherwise she would die with her eyes open.
When I heard my mother-in-law's words, I was so angry. My daughter came back to see her on holidays, bought her clothes and delicious food, and helped her take care of her. She didn't even think about my daughter's good.
She was sick for 3 years. When her grandson came to see her for the first time, she wanted to give him the house. This is too double standard, and it is simply out of place.
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The eldest sister-in-law seemed to know my thoughts. She opposed without hesitation: Mom, Xiaomei and my brother have taken care of you for 3 years. How many times have my elder brother called you in the past 3 years? When you were hospitalized, you asked them to share the nursing care fee equally, which was only 2,000 yuan, and you were still picky. Behind
, they seemed to have disappeared, no one was seen, let alone pay. Do you say that if you give the house to your grandson, just give it to your grandson? Isn’t Xiaomei’s daughter your granddaughter? If you want to sell
, it is also a bowl of water to serve, and we all have a share. If you don’t agree, then you can go to the nursing home by yourself. We have worked hard for the past three years to take care of you, and you don’t think about how hard we work. You are so heartbroken!
Fortunately, my mother-in-law listened to it, and finally the house was sold, with a total of 600,000 yuan. When my elder brother and sister-in-law heard that they had sold the house, they had money and came back at the speed of light this time.
Just heard that the house sales fee was equal to three families. My sister-in-law was very upset. She said why, her son is the only grandson of her mother-in-law.
The eldest sister-in-law said: Anyway, the family is 200,000 yuan, do you want it? Besides, have you ever come back to see your mother in the past three years? Have you taken care of her for a day? Do you know how hard it is to take care of people with hemiplegia? Three years ago, Xiaomei and I look several years older. Sister-in-law, where are you?
It was agreed that our family would give Xiaomei 2,000 a month. You didn’t give it to me, and I wouldn’t deduct more of your rehabilitation costs. I wouldn’t deduct more of yours, but I would deduct 50,000. Otherwise, let's calculate the money clearly. Anyway, no matter where you go, we are all right!
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My sister-in-law started crying again when she heard this, and none of us paid attention to her this time.
After a while, my aunt couldn't listen anymore. She said to my sister-in-law fiercely: If you cry, we will send my mother to a nursing home, and save all of this for her to take care of her.
The eldest sister-in-law quickly pulled the eldest brother, took 150,000 yuan, and immediately bought a ticket and left.
And the eldest sister-in-law only costs 100,000 yuan. She said that she has always seen me taking care of my mother-in-law in recent years. I took more than she did, and she and her brother-in-law discussed it and could only make up for me in terms of money.
I couldn't help but finally accepted the money. My husband also asked me to accept it and said I deserve it.
Fortunately, I met a good aunt.
If you are all like your sister-in-law, it will be troublesome.
If it were you, would you accept the 100,000 yuan from your elder sister-in-law? What would you do to such a biased mother-in-law?
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Fish Say:
Brothers settle accounts clearly.
In reality, because of the partiality of parents, many brothers and sisters are confused, but they are also disagreeable.
Fortunately, my sister-in-law is more reasonable and I like her like this.
She takes into account her sister-in-law's feelings very much, and she does not escape her efforts. She also actively helps her sister-in-law to get what she deserves.
Yes, we must be as principled as our elder sister-in-law. If we blindly tolerate it, it will only make others feel that you are easy to bully.
If you are your elder sister-in-law, would you give your sister-in-law 100,000 yuan?
If you are your sister-in-law, would you accept this 100,000 yuan?
We hired a nanny for her, but my mother-in-law was very picky. After she was angry that she could no longer find a suitable person.My husband and sister-in-law were both worried, and in the end they discussed with me, otherwise I would help take care of my mother-in-law. Then, my sister-in-law gave me 2,000 yuan a month, and asked my sister-in-law and the others to give me 2,000 yuan a month. When my sister-in-law heard that she wanted to steal money, she wouldn't give it to her anyway.
In the end, my aunt felt sorry for her and gave me 3,000 a month.
My husband also begged me, saying that he really had no choice. He retired in a few years, so he would take care of his mother-in-law.
At the beginning, my mother-in-law was also making a fuss. I said, if you don’t cooperate with me like this, I will send you back to your old house and you will die by yourself. Besides, I am your daughter-in-law. You didn’t serve me during confinement or help me take care of my children. I took care of you because of your son, otherwise I wouldn’t bother with you.
The mother-in-law finally listened to it and stopped making trouble. However, her recovery has not been very effective, and her left half is in a state of hemiplegia.
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I took care of my mother-in-law for 3 years, and my husband was about to retire. My aunt's grandson went to kindergarten. She sent the child to kindergarten in the morning and then came to my house.
My sister-in-law said that in the past three years, I have been busy with work, thank you for your hard work, and now she has time, so she also gives me some rest. So every day, my elder sister-in-law comes, she cooks lunch, she washes her mother-in-law's clothes, and even helps her take a shower early in the afternoon.
The eldest sister-in-law and his wife couldn't even see each other during festivals. Sometimes, the eldest brother didn't make a phone call for several months.
But I didn’t expect that my mother-in-law’s heart would not be warm. On the National Day holiday, her eldest grandson worked and finally had time to come back to see her once.
The mother-in-law was so happy that when the child left, the mother-in-law gestured with her aunt and husband in ambiguous language to discuss with her elder sister-in-law and husband that she would sell her old house. Anyway, she doesn't stay now. All the money for selling the house is given to her eldest grandson.
Her eldest grandson said she wanted to buy a house in Hangzhou. She was under great pressure and she had to help him, otherwise she would die with her eyes open.
When I heard my mother-in-law's words, I was so angry. My daughter came back to see her on holidays, bought her clothes and delicious food, and helped her take care of her. She didn't even think about my daughter's good.
She was sick for 3 years. When her grandson came to see her for the first time, she wanted to give him the house. This is too double standard, and it is simply out of place.
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The eldest sister-in-law seemed to know my thoughts. She opposed without hesitation: Mom, Xiaomei and my brother have taken care of you for 3 years. How many times have my elder brother called you in the past 3 years? When you were hospitalized, you asked them to share the nursing care fee equally, which was only 2,000 yuan, and you were still picky. Behind
, they seemed to have disappeared, no one was seen, let alone pay. Do you say that if you give the house to your grandson, just give it to your grandson? Isn’t Xiaomei’s daughter your granddaughter? If you want to sell
, it is also a bowl of water to serve, and we all have a share. If you don’t agree, then you can go to the nursing home by yourself. We have worked hard for the past three years to take care of you, and you don’t think about how hard we work. You are so heartbroken!
Fortunately, my mother-in-law listened to it, and finally the house was sold, with a total of 600,000 yuan. When my elder brother and sister-in-law heard that they had sold the house, they had money and came back at the speed of light this time.
Just heard that the house sales fee was equal to three families. My sister-in-law was very upset. She said why, her son is the only grandson of her mother-in-law.
The eldest sister-in-law said: Anyway, the family is 200,000 yuan, do you want it? Besides, have you ever come back to see your mother in the past three years? Have you taken care of her for a day? Do you know how hard it is to take care of people with hemiplegia? Three years ago, Xiaomei and I look several years older. Sister-in-law, where are you?
It was agreed that our family would give Xiaomei 2,000 a month. You didn’t give it to me, and I wouldn’t deduct more of your rehabilitation costs. I wouldn’t deduct more of yours, but I would deduct 50,000. Otherwise, let's calculate the money clearly. Anyway, no matter where you go, we are all right!
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My sister-in-law started crying again when she heard this, and none of us paid attention to her this time.
After a while, my aunt couldn't listen anymore. She said to my sister-in-law fiercely: If you cry, we will send my mother to a nursing home, and save all of this for her to take care of her.
The eldest sister-in-law quickly pulled the eldest brother, took 150,000 yuan, and immediately bought a ticket and left.
And the eldest sister-in-law only costs 100,000 yuan. She said that she has always seen me taking care of my mother-in-law in recent years. I took more than she did, and she and her brother-in-law discussed it and could only make up for me in terms of money.
I couldn't help but finally accepted the money. My husband also asked me to accept it and said I deserve it.
Fortunately, I met a good aunt.
If you are all like your sister-in-law, it will be troublesome.
If it were you, would you accept the 100,000 yuan from your elder sister-in-law? What would you do to such a biased mother-in-law?
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Fish Say:
Brothers settle accounts clearly.
In reality, because of the partiality of parents, many brothers and sisters are confused, but they are also disagreeable.
Fortunately, my sister-in-law is more reasonable and I like her like this.
She takes into account her sister-in-law's feelings very much, and she does not escape her efforts. She also actively helps her sister-in-law to get what she deserves.
Yes, we must be as principled as our elder sister-in-law. If we blindly tolerate it, it will only make others feel that you are easy to bully.
If you are your elder sister-in-law, would you give your sister-in-law 100,000 yuan?
If you are your sister-in-law, would you accept this 100,000 yuan?
