text/Yu Shengshou
Xiaotong went back to her parents' home to see her parents' parents' parents' home, and by the way, she saw how her parents' younger brother went on a blind date. On the way, she met her village neighbor, Brother Liu, and then exchanged a few words. Unexpectedly, Brother Liu said to Xiaotong: "Look for your brother to find a wife. Don't look like your sister-in-law Cheng Mei. It's useless to look like your sister-in-law Cheng Mei. The key is to have a good character."
01
Speaking of her sister-in-law Cheng Mei, she was spoiled and spoiled at her parents' home, and she tolerated her sister-in-law. Fortunately, within two years, she married Desheng, the village village, and gave birth to a son. Life was prosperous. Not long ago, she built a new house. The obvious words of the village neighbors said...
Early that morning, Desheng quarreled with his wife Cheng Mei. Desheng scolded Cheng Mei: "Don't do things too much. People live a life of one's face. Let's walk in front. The village party is behind the back. I want to get into the cracks. Don't make me angry. I'm not afraid of you. I'm a good man and won't fight with women!"
Unexpectedly, Cheng Mei has a bigger temper and fights back with a blunt face: "Don't be arrogant. Your mother is not a seventy-eighty-year-old and cannot take care of herself. How good is she living by herself? Why are you doing to get the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law together for the sake of face? Everyone is not at ease."
Seeing this, everyone may understand that this is another family conflict in which a man is caught between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and is angry.
At this time, a knock sounded outside the door, and then the mother-in-law shouted: "Desheng, your uncle is here to see your new house, open the door quickly."
The mother's uncle was old, not to mention that he built his own house, the old mother gave all her money and coffin capital, not only did she take out her pension money and the capital of the coffin, but the gap was still the one he spoke with the uncle in the city. He heard that his nephew had no money to build a house, but his uncle didn't say anything and gave him a gift to help. Now, he heard that his nephew moved to his new house and retired, and he came to visit him with gifts. He wanted to stay for a few days and feel the beautiful mountains and rivers in the countryside. Desheng was grateful to his uncle, and of course he wanted to invite him into the new house for a few drinks.
Desheng was about to open the door, but Cheng Mei stopped him and told him not to speak out and pretend that there was no one in the house.
The son who was doing homework on the side said to Cheng Mei, "Mom, you are lying and lying. The teacher said, be honest and kind."
Cheng Mei scolded her son for what she knew. She quickly did her homework. She said to Desheng, "Your uncle is fine for a few days. It's over. Sooner or later, he has to go back to the city. What if your mother lives comfortably and doesn't leave?"
Desheng said blushingly, "The house is so big and there are many rooms. What can I do if my mother lives there?"
Cheng Mei said, "Your mother is lame, what should I do if she falls up and downstairs?"
Desheng knows his wife better than anyone else, and seems to be considering her mother-in-law. It sounds very filial, but in fact she just dislikes her mother-in-law.
One should open the door, and the other should not let it go, and the couple couldn't argue.
Outside the door, the mother-in-law who couldn't knock on the door turned around and looked at her mother's brothers, carrying things in big bags, and stood there awkwardly. She felt sorry and was a little anxious. She shouted to the door: "Desheng, you build a house, your uncle has helped you a lot. He came to see your new house, but you didn't even open the door. Do you still have a conscience?"
Uncle said that the children might not be at home, so it wouldn't work for you to come again another day.
At this time, grandson Xiaobao poked his head out from the second floor and said to grandma, "Grandma, my mom won't let my dad open the door for you."
Hearing his grandson's words, the old mother burst into tears. When the brother saw him, he quickly advised the old sister that his nephew's wife would not let the door open. There might be any inconvenience. Anyway, he retired, and there was time to come again in the future. He pulled the crying sister away while saying that the siblings hadn't seen each other for a long time, and it was noon, and he invited her to dinner.On the way to
, I found out after asking that my sister didn’t live in her new house and was driven to the abandoned pig farm at home by her daughter-in-law. My uncle came to the pig farm and saw that this was where people lived? He felt sad. His nephew was a child who grew up, a kind and filial child whom he had watched since childhood. How could he become so rebellious?
He suppressed his anger and advised his sister: "Sister, please be more open-minded, don't go to your heart. Every family has difficult sutras. If you want to cry, cry, don't hold it in your heart. If you get sick, you live in a pig farm, no one knows."
Hearing his brother's words, the sister exclaimed sorrow, and all the grievances turned into As turbid tears, her wife passed away early. She worked hard to pull her son up, hoping that he would grow up, have a promising future, get married and have children, he became a man, and he also got older. He built a house for his son, gave all his own money, and spent all his pension money. In the end, she had a lot of problems, but she had no support in her old age, and had no support in her old age. It doesn't matter if she didn't let herself live in a new house, and she could still live in a pig farm. As long as she watched her son's family be happy and safe from a distance, she would be satisfied.
But she was still very sad. When others asked, she didn't dare to say that she lived in a pig farm and pretended that her son and daughter-in-law were very filial. She usually had no one to talk to her, so she could only be in front of her brother without any obstacles. She begged her brother not to blame her son Desheng. He is a filial child, but he can't be a family or a wife.
02
Here, when my sister-in-law Xiaotong returned home and told her father-in-law about her sister-in-law Cheng Mei when she went back to her parents' home, she heard gossip about her sister-in-law Cheng Mei, saying that she had emptied her mother-in-law's life savings and built a new house, but drove her into the pig farm, making her feel ashamed.
Cheng Mei's father, Old Man Wang, was surprised and his face darkened.
Old Man Wang felt guilty about his daughter. Back then, his wife passed away early. In order to make a living, he took his son out to work and left his daughter at home, which made her suffer a lot of grievances. After his life was better, he tried his best to make up for his debts to his daughter, responded to her requests, and was spoiled. He didn't expect to raise his daughter so selfishly.
, my uncle called Desheng out with a phone call and kicked him hard. He taught his nephew a lesson with a harsh voice: "Your mother worked hard all her life, saving money to raise you, and she still picked up rags from the trash can when she borrowed money from my house. When you borrowed money, you said to be filial to your mother. I miss you a great filial son and spared no effort to help you, but what did you do? You live in a new house and drive your mother to a pig farm. Is this a matter of human beings? You marry your daughter-in-law. The woman forgot my mother. When you were young, your mother had a delicious food and drink, and she was reluctant to let her go, so she gave it to you. One year, in order to collect tuition for you, your mother went up the mountain to pick wild vegetables and sold them. She fell from the mountain, leaving her injuries. If you have a little conscience, you can't do anything to drive my mother to the pig farm! "
The uncle became more and more angry as he spoke, and kicked and beat her nephew. Desheng was ashamed, and he knelt down to his uncle with a "thump", and cried bitterly.
03
Hearing that his daughter had done such a rebellious thing to her mother-in-law, Old Man Wang blamed himself for being incompetent in teaching his daughter. He found his daughter and was so angry that he swung the broom and beat her daughter. While beating, he asked her daughter: "Do you know why I hit you?"
Cheng Mei saw that her sister-in-law returned to her parents' home a few days ago. It must be that my sister-in-law was talking badly to her father. Old Man Wang said, "Your sister-in-law didn't tell me anything, but you still need your sister-in-law to say it? The two villages are so close that good things don't go out, and bad things spread thousands of miles."
Cheng Mei was anxious and told her to ignore her own affairs. She should be wronged. Back then, her father asked herself to marry Desheng, this elm-mouthed lump. He couldn't do anything and couldn't make a big money. She felt that she had lost marriage.
Old man Wang felt that Cheng Mei had a bad temper. Only the honest and honest Desheng could tolerate her bad temper. He was afraid that his daughter would be wronged, so he chose Desheng, who was responsible and reliable, as his son-in-law, but his daughter did not understand her good intentions.
Cheng Mei said bluntly that if she hadn't seen Desheng have a house, she wouldn't have married her. Now she lets her lame mother live with her. She wouldn't agree if she watched Desheng's house every day.
The old man Wang was furious and beat his chest and stamped his feet. He had a clear conscience in his life. Unexpectedly, he lost his reputation in his life. He made the village party scold himself for "the fault of a daughter who is not a godfather" behind his back. He raised an unfilial daughter, which was really a loss of face.
The couple were taught a lesson each other. That night, Desheng stayed up all night. When he thought of his uncle's words, his heart was cut off. He told Cheng Mei that he would take his mother from the pig farm tomorrow to live. Cheng Mei refused to give in and told him that if she brought her mother, she would divorce.
Also unable to sleep or eat, Old Man Wang looked at his daughter-in-law and brought him soup and food filially. When he thought about his daughter, he actually drove his mother-in-law to the pig farm. He was so ashamed that he wanted to get into the cracks in the ground.
The old saying goes, "A hero dies in the hands of his children." This is true. If it doesn't work, he has to think of a way to treat his daughter well and make her repentant.
04
Seeing that Cheng Mei returned to her parents' home, Desheng took action first and then reported, and took her mother back to her new house. He also told her that Cheng Mei asked him to take her back. He gave her mother two hundred yuan and told her to buy whatever she wanted and not pick up rags.
The mother was so happy when she saw her son's change, saying that it was okay for her to live anywhere. As long as her son and daughter-in-law live a good life, the couple will be harmonious and not quarrel or make a fuss, she will be satisfied. In the future, if relatives and friends come to her daughter-in-law, she will hide and limp, trying not to embarrass her daughter-in-law.
At this time, Cheng Mei didn't know that Desheng had taken her mother-in-law home. She was called home by Old Man Wang and found that Old Man Wang was cooking on a honeycomb coal stove. The coal smoke choked him and kept coughing and tears flowed.
Cheng Mei asked her father: "Where is sister-in-law? Why doesn't she cook?"
Old Man Wang said helplessly that his daughter-in-law went to play mahjong and was addicted. He didn't do food and did housework. He couldn't bear the pain in his back. He asked his daughter-in-law to buy a plaster, but she pretended that she didn't hear it and left.
Cheng Mei heard this and started to get angry and scolded her sister-in-law for being dissatisfied. The sister-in-law who came back heard it was right and directly retorted: "Who do you say is dissatisfied? Sister-in-law, I figured it out now. I won't be stupid anymore. I only know how to work and don't enjoy life. Playing mahjong is much more fun than washing and cooking. There are three missing one over there. I'll play mahjong and come back to get my phone. You're here. Help dad cook. After dinner, wash the clothes in the basin. "
cheng was so beautiful that his face was red and his ears were trembling. Seeing that she was not moving, his sister-in-law was anxious: "What are you doing when you are stupid? Don't go back to your parents' home to eat or work, go and wash clothes quickly."
Then, the daughter-in-law told Lao Han Wang to politely: "Make some pork and green onion dumplings for me tonight. I want to eat dumplings, I'll play mahjong." After that, he turned around and left.
On the other hand, the mother-in-law never saw the shadow of her daughter-in-law, so she asked her grandson: "Where is your mother?" The grandson said to her grandmother, and told her that her mother would not let her grandmother live in a new house and would divorce her father. The two quarreled and she went back to her grandfather's house.
When the mother-in-law heard this, don’t make her son and daughter-in-law feel rifted because of this. She quickly packed up her simple luggage and secretly wiped her tears.
Cheng Mei, who lives in her parents' home, couldn't sleep due to the sound of mahjong. Her sister-in-law actually put the mahjong table at home and called her friends to play. Not only that, she also shouted at Old Man Wang, asking him to make tea for everyone, and asked him to wash fruits. She also cursed and said, "I still have no wink at all when I get old, but I know that I'm eating for nothing."
Mahjong couldn't stand it anymore and said, "How could she talk to her father-in-law like this? My sister-in-law said, "I am all aesthetic with his daughter. I have much more conscience than her. I haven't chased my father-in-law to the pig farm yet. Don't make me angry, otherwise I will follow the same thing and drive him out."
My sister-in-law's words made Cheng Mei, who was lying on the bed, feel overwhelmed and unable to sleep.
Unexpectedly, the next morning, the daughter-in-law told her father-in-law in front of Cheng Mei that her mother would come to live for a few days and that her family could not be opened, so she asked her father-in-law to move to a broken cave.
Cheng Mei was furious when she heard this: "Sister-in-law, the cave is so broken, can people still live?"
The sister-in-law retorted: "Why can't you live in a person? Isn't it better than the pigpen you let your mother-in-law live? If you don't want to live with your mother-in-law, am I willing to live with my father-in-law? Every day, I'm either coughing or spitting and being nauseous, I won't serve you."
After saying that, the sister-in-law left. When the old man Wang saw it, he quickly struck while the iron was hot. He cried. He cried and said to Cheng Mei, "Go and get me a bottle of pesticides. I'll drink it. Don't get annoyed. Your sister-in-law has learned from you, so no matter how unfilial she is, I can't even say a tough word. My daughter-in-law is unfilial, and my daughter is shamed. What do you mean when I live?"
was in a believable voice, and she cried and admitted that she was wrong. She immediately went home to apologize to her mother-in-law and Desheng, and then took her mother-in-law home. In a few days, she would take Old Man Wang over and be cowardly from her sister-in-law.
Old Man Wang held his mouth and laughed secretly.
When she got home, Cheng Mei took her mother-in-law home from the pig farm. A few days later, Desheng drove the car and took her mother and wife to pick up her father-in-law, but was stopped by her sister-in-law and said that she was unwilling to bear the infatuation of being unfilial. Cheng Mei then realized that her sister-in-law and her father joined forces to act in a scene. In order to make her realize, she lowered her head in shame and promised to be filial to her mother-in-law and live a stable life with her husband...
at the end:
The mother-in-law gave her all and helped her son build a new house, but she didn't have half a bed of her own. She was driven to the pig farm by her daughter-in-law, but she was killed by her son, but she was still alive. The son was afraid of his wife, so he could only let his wife do whatever he wanted, and he dared not speak out.
Here, I want to say to all the elderly: In my late years, you must hold on to your old capital and never give it up easily. Otherwise, if you encounter your children are unfilial and you don’t even have a way out, you will encounter the same experience as your mother-in-law in this article. You are old, empty, poor and sick, and have nowhere to settle down. Your old capital is your confidence and dignity, and it is also the guarantee for you to enjoy your old age.
Fortunately, Old Man Wang is a sensible person. When he saw his daughter failing to get into the air, he made clever tricks with his daughter to wake up in time, and everyone was very happy in the end.
Filial piety is the first priority. This is virtue and the duty of children. You raise me and I support you in old age. This is the inheritance of love and the continuation of responsibility, and it is also an example for your children. Your words and deeds are a mirror for your children. They work as a result of their parents. Everything you do to your parents, whether it is good or bad, will be followed and given back to you in the future.
I like the song "Chinese Filial Piety". The lyrics are very well written. I will share with you:
The ancestors left a sentence saying filial piety
How much love is given to the sons and grandchildren
It flows along the bloodline
hot and innocent heart,
The branches and leaves are lush for five thousand years, the most true
filial piety is the first
filial piety is the fundamental
Heaven and earth are the kindness of the kindness
Take root in the heart
blood flows continuously
Mountains and rivers year after year new
Chinese filial piety is the virtue
pass to later generations…
