Her name is Lin Qiaoling. During her college years, she knew and fell in love with educated youth Luo Zhiping, and finally entered the palace of marriage. She is also a very beautiful woman. However, since ancient times, Luo Zhiping died of illness at the age of 43, leaving behind three underage children. Friends and relatives all think that Lin Qiaoling is too beautiful and young, and will definitely remarry others and set up a new branch, but her approach has subverted everyone's perception. For her husband's last wish, she went to the countryside to find his first love. When Lin Qiaoling learned that she had a difficult life and had raised Luo Zhiping's son, she made another decision that ordinary people could not understand...
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Luo Zhiping is a Shanghai educated youth. In March 1969, 17 years old, he and more than 100 junior high school classmates came to Lijia Village, Wafang Brigade, Bianxi County, Anhui Province to settle down. As soon as the car got off, Luo Zhiping and eight male and female educated youth walked to Lijia Village. At this time, the sun was shining brightly and the fields were endless green wheat fields. A female educated young man in Shanghai said excitedly when he saw the green wheat seedlings: Now we have leeks to eat. The captain quickly corrected and said: This is not leek, but wheat seedlings. This incident was later rumored as a joke by the fellow villagers for a long time.
Luo Zhiping once imagined that the tiled house brigade should have a tiled house with a high wall courtyard, but when he arrived at the production team, he saw that what was presented to him was a dilapidated village. Some houses have fallen halfway down, supported by branches, and poverty covers the entire village. Children are naked, the elderly and men are shirtless, and some women are even like men, without wearing tops, and the girls are all wearing clothes that can't be seen after repairing and not being able to see the color. The houses are covered with mud walls and thatched on the roof. There were no windows and the room was dark. People went in and sat for a while before they could tell the direction. A square hole was opened in the wall, which was blocked with wheat straw in winter and ventilated in summer.
The staple food that the members eat all year round is sweet potato noodles. The steamed buns made into brown color and taste sweet. At that time, there was a rumor circulating in the countryside: red taro noodles and red taro buns, and they cannot survive without red taro. White noodles can only be eaten during the Chinese New Year. Each family has more than one acre of private land. After the soybeans grown in private land are harvested, they can receive 100 to 200 kilograms every year. They are ground into flour and mixed with some red taro noodles. The rolled noodles taste very fragrant.
Shanghai educated youth are all student children. They are taken care of by their parents at home and have never cooked food. The captain arranged for his wife and accountant daughter Li Chunhua to cook for the students and teach them by the way. There are no vegetables this season. The captain's wife made a big pot of mixed noodles and made a large bowl of beans . The captain's wife felt very distressed. This big bowl of beans was enough for their family to eat for half a month. The meal was about to start. Each educated youth served a large bowl of noodles and tasted it. A few chopped green onions floated in the bowl, which was considered as vegetables. Everyone was hungry, but as they ate, they felt that the noodles were chewed and sucked. This was because the red taro noodles were ground into red taro slices. The red taro slices are sprinkled directly on the ground and dried, with soil stuck on them. If they are not washed clean, they will become scattered and they will become scattered.
Li Chunhua was 16 years old at the time, and she had a younger brother who was only 13 years old. Li Chunhua is very beautiful, and Luo Zhiping secretly looked at her and felt a feeling of emotion. Two days later, the captain organized members to transport manure into the field, which was to transport farm fertilizer. This fertilizer contains a large amount of trace elements such as phosphorus, potassium, calcium, etc., which is necessary for crop growth. A single flower of crops depends entirely on the head of the family. There was no fertilizer at that time, only this fertilizer. If there is not even such fertilizer, the crop harvest will be pitifully small. Everyone’s task is to transport the farm fertilizer to the ground and spread it.
Women are responsible for loading the car, and men are responsible for transporting it. The members did it very easily, but the educated youth had never done any work. They were so tired that their backs were sore after a day. It is a match between men and women, and it is not tiring to work. The captain came up with a good idea. He asked Luo Zhiping and Li Chunhua to pull a car, and the same was true for the others. In this way, the two of them developed a good impression on each other during their labor. Luo Zhiping started from admiring her to loving her. A 17-year-old rural girl, whether she helps educated youth cook or participates in production labor, works well, and is too far from urban girls of the same age. At a young age, she seemed to have endless energy.
In a blink of an eye, it is the wheat harvest season. The members rush to harvest wheat day and night, and adults and children go into battle. This is a busy season, a season of harvest, and a season of joy. The women bent down to harvest, and the golden wheat fell down behind them. The men pulled up the cart and transported wheat to their homes.
All educated youths participated in the team to harvest wheat. Luo Zhiping had harvested wheat, which was a particularly tiring job. He bent down to harvest wheat, and his waist was about to break after one day, and the pain was so unbearable. Chunhua also harvests wheat. She can drive Luo Chunping far away in one breath, and it won’t be possible if she doesn’t accept it.
One day the captain asked Luo Zhiping to stomp the car. He might think Luo Zhiping is more flexible, right? Luo Zhiping stood in the car, and the people below threw the wheat up. He was responsible for placing the wheat neatly. Bales of wheat were neatly placed under his feet, and he could only get off after unloading the wheat at the store. At this time, he looked into the distance, and the golden wheat fields extended to the horizon in the distance, and there were scenes of members bent down to harvest wheat everywhere. The village is hidden in the golden wheat waves, and smoke rises up. Occasionally, a few barkings of dogs are heard, which is a beautiful picture of the village harvesting wheat.
Luo Zhiping was immersed in this beautiful atmosphere. Suddenly, the car was at a turn, and a wheel was trapped in a deep ditch on the side of the road, and a truck of wheat fell into the deep ditch. The sudden disaster scared Luo Zhiping. When he reacted, he felt that his left leg was hurting badly. The captain found that Luo Zhiping was injured, so he quickly ran to the commune hospital with him on his back.
When he arrived at the hospital, the doctor pressed his painful area with his hands, Luo Zhiping couldn't bear the pain. The doctor said it might be a fracture, so hurry up and go to County Hospital ! After going to the county hospital for an examination, Luo Zhiping's left leg was broken and he needed to be hospitalized for treatment. Luo Zhiping needed someone to take care of him during his hospitalization, so the captain was preparing to send a female educated youth to take care of him. But Luo Zhiping called for Chunhua to come, and the captain agreed. The captain understood that Luo Zhiping must have fallen in love with Chunhua, otherwise why would he call her to come by calling her?
Luo Zhiping stayed in the hospital for three months, and was served by Chunhua. He had a thick cast on his legs. You have to rely on spring flowers to feed you when you eat. Chunhua helped him in the toilet. The patient said to him: Your wife is so virtuous. Chunhua heard it and blushed. After half a month, Luo Zhiping asked to go home to rest. It was inconvenient to live in the hospital and the expenses were also high, so the doctor agreed.
Chunhua pulled Luo Zhiping back with a cart. It was more than 30 miles from the hospital to home. The spring flowers took a day and took a break when they were tired. In the evening, they finally arrived at the educated youth site. Chunhua was afraid that people would disturb him from rest, so she pulled him to her home. In order to increase nutrition to Luo Zhiping, he advised his mother to kill the hen at home and stew the soup for him. Chunhua's mother was very happy to know that her daughter fell in love with Luo Zhiping. She took out all the delicious food and delicious food at home to entertain him. Luo Zhiping was very moved. Three months later, Luo Zhiping went to the hospital for examination and his legs were completely recovered.
From then on, Luo Zhiping and Li Chunhua's relationship gradually became firm, and this relationship naturally rose to love. The two are in love. The way for farmers to fall in love is very special. During the day, the two of them work together, but at night they dare to date secretly. They chat together. The most thing is to hold hands and hug them, and never dare to step beyond the line.
In August 1973, two places were recommended to go to college in the village. The branch secretary was preparing to let Luo Zhiping and a female educated youth named Cui Suping go. This was a good opportunity to leave the countryside. Luo Zhiping hesitated for a long time, wondering whether he should go? When Li Chunhua found out, she advised him that she had a bright future after going to college! Luo Zhiping was still hesitating, and Li Chunhua said: Don’t worry about me, don’t worry about going to school! I can't take responsibility for delaying your future.
On the night of parting, the two were hard to part with each other! Luo Zhiping has left, and it may be difficult to meet again in the future. Luo Zhiping said: Thank you for your care for me over the years. Li Chunhua cried, she really couldn't bear to leave him. The two hugged each other tightly. Li Chunhua was particularly excited: Brother Luo, you must remember me, we have been going through four years. Neither of them controlled the excitement.
2)
During her college days, Luo Zhiping sent three letters to Chunhua, and she also replied. She wrote at the end of the letter: I will definitely wait for you to come back. But later, Luo Chunping replied less and less.
People change with the changes in the environment, and this sentence came true in him. There is a female classmate named Lin Qiaoling in this class who is very beautiful and she is also a Shanghai educated youth. He had noticed her long ago. The two of them are fellow villagers and educated youth. They have common topics and can often chat with each other. Gradually, they have a good impression of each other. Finally, Lin Qiaoling fell into his arms. Lin Qiaoling grew up in Shanghai and has a lively and cheerful personality. She dares to kiss Luo Zhiping in front of the whole class.
After graduation, the two were assigned to work at the Yangzhuang Mining Union of Huaibei Mining Bureau. After working for a year, the two entered the marriage hall together.
After marriage, Lin Qiaoling gave birth to two daughters for Luo Zhiping. My mother-in-law was unhappy and thought that this woman looked glamorous and beautiful but not useful. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was once very tense. Their second daughter is Luo Xiaoyan. Lin Qiaoling doesn't like this daughter and often beat and scolds Luo Xiaoyan. Luo Zhiping protected his daughter. Luo Xiaoyan doesn't like her mother either. Later, Lin Qiaoling risked being fired and gave birth to a son, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law improved.
There may be unexpected situations in the world. Luo Zhiping was found to have advanced liver cancer during a routine physical examination at his unit. This news was like a bolt from the blue. Lin Qiaoling was shocked. It was so unexpected that Luo Zhiping was also very sad. After half a year of treatment, Luo Zhiping still failed to stop this sudden disaster. On July 13, 1995, Luo Zhiping died at the age of 43.
Before his death, Luo Zhiping held Lin Qiaoling's hand tightly and refused to let go. All his relatives had seen it, but he refused to close his eyes. Lin Qiaoling said: Don’t worry, leave! I must raise three children to adulthood. Luo Chunping still refused to close his eyes. Lin Qiaoling thought for a while and said: I understand. I will definitely go back to the countryside to see her for you when I have time. Because Luo Zhiping told her many times that the woman he owes the most to Li Chunhua in his life. With this promise, Luo Zhiping was willing to leave with his eyes closed.
At the funeral, 15-year-old second daughter Lin Xiaoyan cried very sadly! She cried and said: Dad, you are leaving, what should I do if my mom beats me? You can't leave. Lin Qiaoling cried and said: Good daughter, stop crying, mom promises not to hit you. All the relatives and friends present were moved! They are all worried about this family. The eldest daughter is only 17 years old, the youngest daughter is 15 years old, the youngest son is just 13 years old, and two elderly parents. How should I live this family in the future? Many relatives and friends are worried that Lin Qiaoling will remarry if she can’t stand the hardship. Did Lin Qiaoling remarry?
It’s not easy to support three children if you have a salary! She thought of a solution, which was to use her spare time to do small businesses and make money to subsidize her family income. When doing business, you must let go of your dignity and face. She has sold vegetables, sold breakfast, needles, bedding, etc. Everyone else got off work, but she rode her tricycle around the streets and sold goods. Sometimes she would pick up a plastic bottle casually. A plastic bottle could be sold for five cents, and she would save it from five cents. The clothes she wore had been wearing for more than ten years and had long since faded. Her clothes gave people a feeling of poverty. Many colleagues look down on such a woman. How can they have any dignity when they are poor?
Her story was spread in the unit. The unit leader considered that it was not easy for a woman to pull three children, so he specially placed a child to replace Luo Chunping's vacancy. After repeated consideration, Lin Qiaoling asked her 13-year-old son to replace his father. Because his son is not of working age, the unit leader will go out and complete the entry procedures for the child first. When he reaches 18 years old and is at the age of 18, he can officially start the job.
Son Luo Xiaoqiang knew that his mother was difficult, so he went to work as a small worker on the construction site. After working for half a year, he couldn't stand the hardships of the construction site. He called his mother and said he wanted to go to school. Lin Qiaoling ran to the construction site and saw her son carrying bricks under the scorching sun. Her face was thinner. Lin Qiaoling cried while holding her son. Since then, my son has gone to school.Luo Xiaoqiang studied very hard. When he was 18 years old, he was admitted to an undergraduate college with excellent grades and returned to work in his unit after graduation. However, he had become a construction worker and would never move bricks under the scorching sun again.
The second daughter Luo Xiaoyan went to school and Lin Qiaoling never asked. Later, through her own efforts, she was admitted to an undergraduate college in one fell swoop. After graduation, she worked as a Chinese teacher in a middle school. Although the eldest daughter did not get into college, she learned to do business with her mother. Since childhood, I finally opened a clothing store.
On May 18, 2006, 28-year-old Luo Xiaoqiang got married with a female colleague in the unit. After the wedding, Lin Qiaoling took her son, daughter-in-law, daughter, son-in-law, and a family of nine to Luo Zhiping's grave to worship. Lin Qiaoling said: The child’s father, you can rest assured. Daughter and son are married and married, you can be happy!
In May 2012, Lin Qiaoling retired from her unit. She still gets up early and goes to late. The children advised her not to do business and she could take a break. She said she was used to doing business, and she couldn't stop suddenly.
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In October 2013, Lin Qiaoling and eight sent-down educated youth made an appointment to return to the place where Luo Zhiping went to the countryside to go and see it, but when he came, he left a wish before his death.
and his group came to the village that was handed over that year. The original educated youth spot is no longer there, and it is replaced by a row of neat and beautiful tiled houses.
The old captain was still there, he was 83 years old and his health was still strong. Everyone introduced themselves one by one, and the old captain brought everyone together one by one. But he said to Lin Xiaoling: I look so handsome like this lesbian, who are you? A female educated youth introduced that she is Luo Zhiping’s wife. Luo Zhiping, do you still remember it? The old captain thought for a while and said: I remembered that Luo Luo, he and Li Changshun's daughter Li Chunhua got together. Later, he went to college and the two broke off contact.
Lin Qiaoling said: Uncle, Luo Zhiping died of illness more than ten years ago. I am here to look at Li Chunhua on behalf of him. Is she doing well now?
The old captain said: After he left, Li Chunhua gave birth to a son. Fearing that he would affect his daughter's future marriage, Li Changshun panicked and said that he picked up the child. Later, Li Chunhua couldn't wait for Luo Zhiping's news and married her with her children at the age of 30. She married a bachelor in her 40s in her neighboring village and gave birth to a son and a daughter for him. His name is Zhao Laoxing. He is lazy by nature and their lives are not good. Later, their daughter got married, but the two sons failed to talk about their daughter-in-law.
Everyone followed the old captain to find Li Chunhua in the village and knocked on her door. Li Chunhua was sitting in the yard chopping pig vegetables. The old captain said: Chunhua, the educated youth who were sent to the past are here to see you. Li Chunhua was stunned when she saw everyone. She quickly invited everyone into the house. Lin Qiaoling kept watching Li Chunhua's every move. She found that Li Chunhua looked very old-fashioned - her hair was gray and her face was very wrinkles. She is only in her early 60s, but she looks like she is in her 70s.
As soon as everyone sat down, the old captain asked her: Can you still remember Luo Zhiping, who was sent to the rescue back then? His wife Lin Qiaoling is here to see you. When Luo Zhiping and Li Chunhua's eyes became moist when they mentioned it. She said: How could I not remember him? He made me suffer so much! As she talked, she cried even more sadly. She suddenly remembered something and took out a photo from the drawer. It was a young man. She said: Look at who this child looks like. Lin Qiaoling took it and took a closer look. The young man in the photo looked very similar to Luo Zhiping when he was young. Could it be...?
Li Chunhua said: I secretly gave birth to a son shortly after he left. My father was afraid that others would not get married in the future, so he told the public that he picked it up. Later I married Zhao Laoxing with my children. He heard the rumors and once he drank too much and almost beat me to death, saying that I was an inappropriate woman.
Why don’t you go to him and return the child to him? The old captain asked. Why should I look for him? He is a city native and a college student. Can he look at me as a rural woman? I plan to never look for him for the rest of my life. Speaking of this, Li Chunhua suddenly remembered and said: Why didn’t he see Luo Zhiping? Why didn’t he come? Lin Qiaoling said: Luo Zhiping died of illness for more than ten years. When Li Chunhua heard this news, she opened her eyes wide in surprise.Finally, she started crying again: I didn’t expect him to live so short!
Lin Qiaoling said: He confessed before his death that you owe the most in your life. If I have the chance, I will definitely come back to see you. After hearing Lin Qiaoling say this, Li Chunhua cried even more sadly.
Lin Qiaoling asked: Where is your son? Li Chunhua said: I went out to work with his father. I feel guilty and have not been able to make a family for my son yet.
Lin Qiaoling felt very sad. She remembered Luo Zhiping's premature death and thought of her hard work to raise her three children. She felt that this was a poor woman in front of her. Thinking of this, she hugged Li Chunhua and started crying. The educated youth present were all infected by the crying of these two women, and felt so sad.
After a while, Lin Qiaoling said: Sister, stop crying, maybe this is the fate of our women, right? After saying that, she took out two thousand yuan from her bag and handed it to Li Chunhua. Sister, you can take this money! I'm better than you now. This is my little intention.
Li Chunhua said she was unwilling to ask for anything, and the old captain said: Just take it! This is her intention. If you don’t take it, she will feel uneasy.
The next day, the group left Lijia Village. Lin Qiaoling felt very sad when she walked on the road. She knew that Luo Zhiping had a relationship when he went to the countryside, but she didn't expect that Li Chunhua actually gave birth to a son for him. Poor Luo Zhiping didn't know that he had a son in the countryside until he died.
Conclusion
Back then, Luo Zhiping abandoned Li Chunhua and chose to return to work. He gave up love for the sake of his future. He did not expect that his promise would hurt her so much. He only woke up when he left.
Lin Qiaoling visited Li Chunhua and helped Luo Zhiping fulfill his wish. But when she saw Li Chunhua's current situation, she felt more sad and sad!
She thought that in her lifetime, she would do her best to help Li Chunhua and her son. That was the debt left by Luo Zhiping and an inescapable knot. She wanted to repay it for him, in order to make herself feel at ease.
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