Our comrades all know that Lao Xu’s wife died of illness two years ago, and his wife’s cemetery is near Sandaoguan in our small city. It was said that Lao Xu moved the grave of a deceased woman during Qingming Festival this year, which triggered many of our comrades to "whisper" in private.
Lao Xu’s fathers were workers in the railway overhaul team, and Lao Xu has lived in the railway family area since he was a child. There were several yellow bungalows, each with a front and back yard. Vegetables were grown in the back yard in the summer, and each house had a coal shed in the front yard. Later, because the eldest brother of the family wanted to get married and have children, there were no commercial houses in those days, so every family wanted to marry a wife and have children. We built a house with bricks and tiles in the front yard. We called it Pianxiazi and used it for our son's wedding to continue the family lineage.
The neighbor on the left side of Lao Xu’s house is Xiaoqin’s house. Xiaoqin is Lao Xu’s bare-chested doll. Lao Xu has known Xiaoqin since he can remember, and Xiaoqin has known Lao Xu since he can remember. They were just 3 or 4 years old at that time. . There are six girls in Xiaoqin's family, Xiaoqin is the fourth child; there are six boys in Lao Xu's family, and Lao Xu is also the fourth child at home.
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Xiaoqin has been a child with pretty features since she was a child, and is the kind of child that everyone loves. She also sang very well. She said that at that time, the neighbors had to sing and dance the "Zhongzi Dance" every morning. At that time, Xiaoqin was only 7 years old, and she became the lead singer of the "Zhongzi Dance" for the adults in the neighborhood. Old Xu and Xiao Qin were one year old. Children from other families slept at home in the morning. Old Xu got up earlier than Xiao Qin. Before the adults arrived, Old Xu sat under the portrait of Chairman Mao. According to older neighbors later, Lao Xu fell in love with Xiaoqin at the age of 8. If he fell in love with the opposite sex at the age of 8, whether it was considered love is a rather profound subject. But if Lao Xu and his father's overhaul team shared some apples and peaches, Lao Xu would rather not eat them himself, but put them in his pocket and wait for Xiao Qin at the door of Xiao Qin's house. When he saw Xiao Qin come out, he said, "Here." Throw an apple or peach over and run away. Sometimes Xiaoqin was not alone, but with a few little girls. Those little girls would shout at Lao Xu: "Diudiu diu" and make gestures on their faces with their little hands.
Lao Xu's parents and Xiao Qin's parents also get along very harmoniously. If Lao Xu's family makes dumplings, Lao Xu's mother will say: "Go and send a bowl to your Aunt Liu's house." Aunt Liu is Xiao Qin's mother. 8-year-old Lao Xu took a bowl to go. In those days, a bowl and a bowl of dumplings were very "precious". Lao Xu's mother was worried about Lao Xu and dropped the bowl. Let the second and third sons deliver it. While talking about this, Lao Xu burst into tears beside him.
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It is said that one day when I was in the third year of junior high school, Xiaoqin had diarrhea at school, which made her swaying when she walked. He couldn't go home anymore. It was Lao Xu who was carrying Xiaoqin on his back from Jinggangshan Primary School . On the way, he passed by the woods where they often played when they were children. Xiaoqin liked butterflies, so Lao Xu put Xiaoqin on the ridge and went there. I caught several beautiful butterflies in the woods. Seeing the butterflies, Xiaoqin's illness was half cured. This incident soon made Lao Xu "famous in the countryside". The old men and women in his neighborhood all said that Xu Laosi would definitely treat his wife well in the future.
Lao Xu’s parents and Xiao Qin’s parents also have the idea of matching up and becoming relatives. Although they can match up to 6 pairs according to age, is a strange combination of circumstances , and only Lao Xu and Xiaoqin can match up. Xiaoqin. Lao Xu graduated from junior high school and stayed at home for two years to serve as a soldier. It is said that a year before joining the army, Xiaoqin had already betrothed herself to Lao Xu. The extent of the betrothal is unknown. With a radius of several square kilometers, everyone who knows Xiaoqin says that Xiaoqin is so beautiful. Those who don’t know Xiaoqin’s name also say, who will the little girl from the family of the overhaul team marry in the future?
said that his neighbor Zhang Dashin also had a crush on Xiaoqin, and it was not just Zhang Dasniu himself who had a crush on Xiaoqin. He said that there were a total of 67 boys in the railway overhaul team's family, around the age of Mr. Xu, and 68 of them had a crush on Xiaoqin. Number 68 is a tomboy.
said that one day, Zhang Dasnot saw Lao Xu kissing Xiaoqin in the woods. Zhang Dasnot went home and lay on his fire bed for several days without getting up. He almost died from a fire. The power of love is infinite. Our comrades all know that Lao Xu’s wife died of illness two years ago, and his wife’s cemetery is near Sandaoguan in our small city. It was said that Lao Xu moved the grave of a deceased woman during Qingming Festival this year, which triggered many of our comrades to "whisper" in private. Lao Xu’s fathers were workers in the railway overhaul team, and Lao Xu has lived in the railway family area since he was a child. There were several yellow bungalows, each with a front and back yard. Vegetables were grown in the back yard in the summer, and each house had a coal shed in the front yard. Later, because the eldest brother of the family wanted to get married and have children, there were no commercial houses in those days, so every family wanted to marry a wife and have children. We built a house with bricks and tiles in the front yard. We called it Pianxiazi and used it for our son's wedding to continue the family lineage. The neighbor on the left side of Lao Xu’s house is Xiaoqin’s house. Xiaoqin is Lao Xu’s bare-chested doll. Lao Xu has known Xiaoqin since he can remember, and Xiaoqin has known Lao Xu since he can remember. They were just 3 or 4 years old at that time. . There are six girls in Xiaoqin's family, Xiaoqin is the fourth child; there are six boys in Lao Xu's family, and Lao Xu is also the fourth child at home. Pictures come from the Internet
Xiaoqin has been a child with pretty features since she was a child, and is the kind of child that everyone loves. She also sang very well. She said that at that time, the neighbors had to sing and dance the "Zhongzi Dance" every morning. At that time, Xiaoqin was only 7 years old, and she became the lead singer of the "Zhongzi Dance" for the adults in the neighborhood. Old Xu and Xiao Qin were one year old. Children from other families slept at home in the morning. Old Xu got up earlier than Xiao Qin. Before the adults arrived, Old Xu sat under the portrait of Chairman Mao. According to older neighbors later, Lao Xu fell in love with Xiaoqin at the age of 8. If he fell in love with the opposite sex at the age of 8, whether it was considered love is a rather profound subject. But if Lao Xu and his father's overhaul team shared some apples and peaches, Lao Xu would rather not eat them himself, but put them in his pocket and wait for Xiao Qin at the door of Xiao Qin's house. When he saw Xiao Qin come out, he said, "Here." Throw an apple or peach over and run away. Sometimes Xiaoqin was not alone, but with a few little girls. Those little girls would shout at Lao Xu: "Diudiu diu" and make gestures on their faces with their little hands.
Lao Xu's parents and Xiao Qin's parents also get along very harmoniously. If Lao Xu's family makes dumplings, Lao Xu's mother will say: "Go and send a bowl to your Aunt Liu's house." Aunt Liu is Xiao Qin's mother. 8-year-old Lao Xu took a bowl to go. In those days, a bowl and a bowl of dumplings were very "precious". Lao Xu's mother was worried about Lao Xu and dropped the bowl. Let the second and third sons deliver it. While talking about this, Lao Xu burst into tears beside him.
Pictures come from the Internet
It is said that one day when I was in the third year of junior high school, Xiaoqin had diarrhea at school, which made her swaying when she walked. He couldn't go home anymore. It was Lao Xu who was carrying Xiaoqin on his back from Jinggangshan Primary School . On the way, he passed by the woods where they often played when they were children. Xiaoqin liked butterflies, so Lao Xu put Xiaoqin on the ridge and went there. I caught several beautiful butterflies in the woods. Seeing the butterflies, Xiaoqin's illness was half cured. This incident soon made Lao Xu "famous in the countryside". The old men and women in his neighborhood all said that Xu Laosi would definitely treat his wife well in the future.
Lao Xu’s parents and Xiao Qin’s parents also have the idea of matching up and becoming relatives. Although they can match up to 6 pairs according to age, is a strange combination of circumstances , and only Lao Xu and Xiaoqin can match up. Xiaoqin. Lao Xu graduated from junior high school and stayed at home for two years to serve as a soldier. It is said that a year before joining the army, Xiaoqin had already betrothed herself to Lao Xu. The extent of the betrothal is unknown. With a radius of several square kilometers, everyone who knows Xiaoqin says that Xiaoqin is so beautiful. Those who don’t know Xiaoqin’s name also say, who will the little girl from the family of the overhaul team marry in the future?
said that his neighbor Zhang Dashin also had a crush on Xiaoqin, and it was not just Zhang Dasniu himself who had a crush on Xiaoqin. He said that there were a total of 67 boys in the railway overhaul team's family, around the age of Mr. Xu, and 68 of them had a crush on Xiaoqin. Number 68 is a tomboy.
said that one day, Zhang Dasnot saw Lao Xu kissing Xiaoqin in the woods. Zhang Dasnot went home and lay on his fire bed for several days without getting up. He almost died from a fire. The power of love is infinite.
The day before Lao Xu left to join the army, he said that Lao Xu and Xiaoqin had been together for a long time. Only Lao Xu knew what they did back then. But there is one thing that our comrades know. When they broke up, Xiaoqin threw herself into Lao Xu's arms and wiped her tears with her own handkerchief, then handed the handkerchief to Lao Xu: "Don't wash it, just smell it if you miss her. "At that time, technology was backward and there were no tissues. If there were, there would be no story about handkerchiefs.
said that Lao Xu kept Xiaoqin’s handkerchief until now. Lao Xu changed jobs and moved many times, traveling around. I have lost and eliminated many things in my life, but I have never lost this handkerchief.
When Lao Xu was in the army, he and Xiaoqin often sent letters to each other. They were love letters, I guess. But none of these letters were left behind.因为老徐的老伴叫大奎子，人高马大，对老徐一辈子不错，但是就揍过一次老徐，就是因为发现了这批情书，这是老徐跟大奎子过了20多年以后的一天That night, Lao Xu suffered domestic violence.被大奎子骑在身上一顿揍不说，一把夺过这一打子情书全扔进了炉子里，烧得老徐撕心裂肺。 In fact, Da Kui Zi is also a woman. He can't beat Lao Xu. Lao Xu told all of us: "We can't fight with women."
Da Kui Zi is 168cm tall. Wearing a pair of shoes with heels, he looks taller than Lao Xu. Although Da Kuizi wears women's clothing, he has never worn women's shoes in his life. Da Kuizi has fat feet and has worn men's shoes his whole life.
Da Kuizi's father was the city's tax bureau at that time. Da Kuizi dared to be rough with Lao Xu. One was his physical advantage, he was tall and strong, and the other was his father's sense of superiority.
Even if a man is drunk, he will not be able to have primitive impulses when seeing Da Kuizi. Da Kuizi not only has thick eyelids, but also thin lips. Because Da Kui Zi was disliked when he was born, Da Kui Zi's mother once wanted to give Da Kui Zi to an old errand boy in Shandong. Da Kui Zi's uncle was the biological brother of Da Kui Zi's father. Da Kui Zi's father came back from the army to visit his family. He held Da Kui Zi in his arms and said to Da Kui Zi's mother: "This child cannot be given away."
Even Lao Xu was chosen by Da Kui Zi's father. Da Kui Zi will never forget her father in her life.
After being beaten, Lao Xu got seriously ill. After recovering from the illness, Lao Xu developed ringworm on his head. His wife, Da Kuizi, took Lao Xu to the provincial capital by train and went to a Daowai called "Zhao Yongjiang Skin Clinic" "The old Chinese doctor said that Lao Xu had psoriasis.
Lao Xu’s comrade-in-arms Lao Yan is a military doctor. When Lao Xu came back from seeing a doctor in the provincial capital, his comrades helped him. Lao Yan: "Your ringworm is mainly caused by mental stimulation and mental overload."
Lao Xu never dreamed that decades later, not only would he be beaten because of Xiaoqin, but he would also get psoriasis. No matter how honest a person is, he is not easy to mess with when he is anxious. Lao Xu ruined the TV series at home and said to his middle-aged daughter-in-law Da Kuizi: "I will divorce you if I don't live with you." This incident caused a sensation in our country at that time. One-third of the town. People who are good at catching rumors made the story of Lao Xu’s divorce look like a TV series.
Our old company commander came all the way from Henan after hearing about it. When he arrived at Lao Xu's house, he slapped Lao Xu in the face. It turned out that it was Da Kuizi who called the old company commander of Henan. Da Kuizi knew that Lao Xu had been afraid of two people in his life; one was her, but now he is not afraid; the other was afraid It's his company commander. The old company commander stayed at Lao Xu's house for three days. The work was done well. On the night when we sent the old company commander back to Henan, our comrades had a gathering. Da Kuizi said at the wine table: "I was wrong, Lao Xu. I shouldn't have burned those letters." Kuizi cried again and said: "I also know that you, Lao Xu, have never loved me in this life." Comrade Jiang Laosan said: "Sister-in-law, you are wrong to say this. If I don't love you, can I have a little girl with you?" Binzi is the son of Lao Xu and Da Kuizi. Guess what Da Kuizi said to Jiang Laosan: "He was having an attack of animal nature." This made everyone at the table burst into laughter.
Old Xu and his comrades
Although there is no love letter left, Xiaoqin's handkerchief is still intact. It was said that during Lao Xu's second year in the army, Xiaoqin went to the countryside to join the army.It was the year of the earthquake relief work in Tangshan. When Lao Xu and his troops were doing the earthquake relief work in Tangshan , Lao Xu received a letter from his elder brother. The letter made Lao Xu cry in the rubble. His elder brother told him that Xiaoqin had passed away. At that special time, not to mention his fiancée, even if his parents died of illness, he would not be able to go back. Lao Xu desperately tried to pick up people in the rubble and turned grief into strength. Lao Xu achieved third-class merit . Lao Xu not only performed third-class merit, but also served as a frontline leader and became our fourth platoon leader. This incident caused a sensation in our small town. The reason why Lao Xu can be promoted is that Lao Xu really showed his strength, and the other is the promotion of our old company commander. The old company commander is Lao Xu's benefactor. It is said that Lao Xu Tiqian mailed 15 yuan to Xiaoqin's parents every month from then on until he changed his job 12 years later.
She in Lao Xu’s heart
Lao Xu changed his job and was assigned to the tax bureau of our small city. The director is the father of his daughter-in-law Dakuizi. The director was also retired from the army and was very optimistic about this young cadre who had just transferred to the army, so he asked the deputy director to find Lao Xu as a matchmaker. If Da Kui Zi's father hadn't been the director, it's hard to say whether Da Kui Zi would have been able to get married in this life. Da Kuizi is 3 years older than Lao Xu. The matchmaker will say to Lao Xu: "The female junior is holding a gold brick." When Lao Xu married Da Kuizi, some said that it was Da Kuizi's father that Lao Xu was quarreling over. It’s hard to talk about things. Although Lao Xu didn’t embrace gold bricks in his later days, the couple were the first among our comrades to live in a high-rise and the first to buy a private car. The car is Jetta .
How Xiaoqin died, Lao Xu couldn’t tell. Talking about returning from work, Lao Xu went to Muling County the next day, where Xiaoqin went to the countryside, and Xiaoqin was buried on the bank of the Muling River. Lao Xu lived in this small town for three days. During the day, he sat in front of Xiaoqin's grave for a whole day. Lao Xu changed his job and came back with some resettlement money, saying that half of it would be given to Xiaoqin's parents. It is said that Lao Xu took care of Xiaoqin's parents until their death in the late 1990s. The two elders also regarded Lao Xu as their son-in-law.
My wife Da Kuizi passed away two years ago and suffered from cerebral hemorrhage. Da Kuizi had a bad temper, but he never had any physical violence with Lao Xu since he threw the TV.
said that Da Kuizi and Lao Xu lived a life where Da Kuizi did all the rough and fine work. In those years, coal was burned, and the coal truck would weigh three tons when it arrived. Da Kuizi would go to the coal shed alone. Da Kuizi served Lao Xu all his life. He said that Da Kuizi held on to Lao Xu's hand when he was dying. Lao Xu lowered his head and cried. Da Kuizi loved Lao Xu until his death, and Lao Xu loved the dead Xiaoqin from beginning to end.
The long-dead Xiaoqin not only tormented Lao Xu all her life, but also made Da Kuizi die without receiving the love from the heart of the man she had cared for her whole life, Lao Xu.
Da Kuizi lay unconscious in the hospital for 10 days. Lao Xu left Da Kuizi for more than three hours on the 10th day. Lao Xu went to a shoe factory with the size of Da Kui Zi's feet and spent a lot of money to make a pair of high-heeled red leather shoes for Da Kui Zi. These were the only pair of women's shoes that Da Kuizi wore in his life. Before Da Kuizi died, Lao Xu put them on for Da Kuizi. It can be regarded as wearing women's shoes while alive.
said that just before Qingming Festival, Lao Xu gathered several comrades who drank together every three days. Lao Xu made a decision and asked his comrades Jiang Laosan and Hou Mazi to go with him to Muling to dig up the grave. Lao Xu decided to visit Sandaoguan Cemetery before leaving the grave. In front of Da Kui Zi's monument, he muttered a few words to his wife Da Kui Zi, but he did not dare to mention Xiao Qin's name. As a kind of psychological comfort, Lao Xu stood up and bowed six times to Da Kui Zi, the last three of which were to ask for Da Kui Zi's forgiveness. After all, he was going to meet Xiaoqin, the woman who had "tormented" Da Kuizi all his life.
Lao Xu has already bought a cemetery for Xiaoqin. After buying the cemetery, Lao Xu spent a lot of time choosing the site. Comrade Jiang Laosan said: "Isn't it okay to share the same cemetery with my sister-in-law? It's convenient for you to go and see it."
"That's not possible. Xiaoqin is nothing. She doesn't know your sister-in-law at all, but your sister-in-law can't let it go."
Dakuizi's cemetery is in Sandaoguan, and Xiaoqin's cemetery was chosen in Tieling River. One is to the north of our small town and the other is to the south.Comrade Daliangzi said: "It's just right, Lao Xu, you sleep with your head facing south and your feet facing north."
The three of them came back from moving the grave and buried Xiaoqin. Lao Xu was like a huge stone falling to the ground. The comrades saw that Lao Xu I also put a handkerchief into the urn.
Lao Xu set up a table at the Baiyuan Garden Hotel that night and invited us comrades. After drinking too much, Lao Xu said: "Hey, in my whole life, I will serve as a soldier without any regrets. The rest will be in pieces." Lao Xu fell asleep on the wine table.
Recently, our comrades have been talking a lot, saying, if Lao Xu dies, who can he be buried with? Da Kui Zi or Xiao Qin, because of this, the comrades even made bets. The old company commander in Henan found out about this, and everyone scolded them, "Old Xu is alive and well, can you bet on something good? If you bet, someone will die." ”
It was the year of the earthquake relief work in Tangshan. When Lao Xu and his troops were doing the earthquake relief work in Tangshan , Lao Xu received a letter from his elder brother. The letter made Lao Xu cry in the rubble. His elder brother told him that Xiaoqin had passed away. At that special time, not to mention his fiancée, even if his parents died of illness, he would not be able to go back. Lao Xu desperately tried to pick up people in the rubble and turned grief into strength. Lao Xu achieved third-class merit . Lao Xu not only performed third-class merit, but also served as a frontline leader and became our fourth platoon leader. This incident caused a sensation in our small town. The reason why Lao Xu can be promoted is that Lao Xu really showed his strength, and the other is the promotion of our old company commander. The old company commander is Lao Xu's benefactor. It is said that Lao Xu Tiqian mailed 15 yuan to Xiaoqin's parents every month from then on until he changed his job 12 years later.
She in Lao Xu’s heart
Lao Xu changed his job and was assigned to the tax bureau of our small city. The director is the father of his daughter-in-law Dakuizi. The director was also a veteran of the army, and he was very optimistic about this young cadre who had just retired, so he asked the deputy director to find Lao Xu as a matchmaker. If Da Kui Zi's father hadn't been the director, it's hard to say whether Da Kui Zi would have been able to get married in this life. Da Kuizi is 3 years older than Lao Xu. The matchmaker would say to Lao Xu: "The female junior is holding a gold brick." When Lao Xu married Da Kuizi, some said that it was Da Kuizi's father that Lao Xu was quarreling over. It’s hard to talk about things. Although Lao Xu didn’t embrace gold bricks in his later days, the couple were the first among our comrades to live in a high-rise and the first to buy a private car. The car is Jetta .
How Xiaoqin died, Lao Xu couldn’t tell. Talking about returning from work, Lao Xu went to Muling County the next day, where Xiaoqin went to the countryside, and Xiaoqin was buried on the bank of the Muling River. Lao Xu lived in this small town for three days. During the day, he sat in front of Xiaoqin's grave for a whole day. Lao Xu changed his job and came back with some resettlement money, saying that half of it would be given to Xiaoqin's parents. It is said that Lao Xu took care of Xiaoqin's parents until their death in the late 1990s. The two elders also regarded Lao Xu as their son-in-law.
My wife Da Kuizi passed away two years ago and suffered from cerebral hemorrhage. Da Kuizi had a bad temper, but he never had any physical violence with Lao Xu since he threw the TV.
said that Da Kuizi and Lao Xu lived a life where Da Kuizi did all the rough and fine work. In those years, coal was burned, and the coal truck would weigh three tons when it arrived. Da Kuizi would go to the coal shed alone. Da Kuizi served Lao Xu all his life. He said that Da Kuizi held on to Lao Xu's hand when he was dying. Lao Xu lowered his head and cried. Da Kuizi loved Lao Xu until his death, and Lao Xu loved the dead Xiaoqin from beginning to end.
The long-dead Xiaoqin not only tormented Lao Xu all her life, but also made Da Kuizi die without receiving the love from the heart of the man she had cared for her whole life, Lao Xu.
Da Kuizi lay unconscious in the hospital for 10 days. Lao Xu left Da Kuizi for more than three hours on the 10th day. Lao Xu went to a shoe factory with the size of Da Kui Zi's feet and spent a lot of money to make a pair of high-heeled red leather shoes for Da Kui Zi. These were the only pair of women's shoes that Da Kuizi wore in his life. Before Da Kuizi died, Lao Xu put them on for Da Kuizi. It can be regarded as wearing women's shoes while alive.
said that just before Qingming Festival, Lao Xu gathered several comrades who drank together every three days. Lao Xu made a decision and asked his comrades Jiang Laosan and Hou Mazi to go with him to Muling to dig up the grave. Lao Xu decided to visit Sandaoguan Cemetery before leaving the grave. In front of Da Kui Zi's monument, he muttered a few words to his wife Da Kui Zi, but he did not dare to mention Xiao Qin's name. As a kind of psychological comfort, Lao Xu stood up and bowed six times to Da Kui Zi, the last three of which were to ask for Da Kui Zi's forgiveness. After all, he was going to meet Xiaoqin, the woman who had "tormented" Da Kuizi all his life.
Lao Xu has already bought a cemetery for Xiaoqin. After buying the cemetery, Lao Xu spent a lot of time choosing the site. Comrade Jiang Laosan said: "Isn't it okay to share the same cemetery with my sister-in-law? It's convenient for you to go and see it."
"That's not possible. Xiaoqin is nothing. She doesn't know your sister-in-law at all, but your sister-in-law can't let it go."
Dakuizi's cemetery is in Sandaoguan, and Xiaoqin's cemetery was chosen in Tieling River. One is to the north of our small town and the other is to the south.Comrade Daliangzi said: "It's just right, Lao Xu, you sleep with your head facing south and your feet facing north."
The three of them came back from moving the grave and buried Xiaoqin. Lao Xu was like a huge stone falling to the ground. The comrades saw that Lao Xu I also put a handkerchief into the urn.
Lao Xu set up a table at the Baiyuan Garden Hotel that night and invited us comrades. After drinking too much, Lao Xu said: "Hey, in my whole life, I will serve as a soldier without any regrets. The rest will be in pieces." Lao Xu fell asleep on the wine table.
Recently, our comrades have been talking a lot, saying, if Lao Xu dies, who can he be buried with? Da Kui Zi or Xiao Qin, because of this, the comrades even made bets. The old company commander in Henan found out about this, and everyone scolded them, "Old Xu is alive and well, can you bet on something good? If you bet, someone will die." ”
