I am a policeman, and I only consider personal issues when I am thirty-seven years old. I found a female doctor. In order to show that I was manly, I deliberately took her to a graveyard on one date. The whole mountain was full of graves. Then when I got here, I hid. I wanted to see if she was scared, and I wanted to laugh when I thought of her shivering. However, what disappointed me was that she didn't feel anything at all, and walked out of the grave very calmly.
Only then did I realize that these medical students were different. They were all people who had dissected corpses and were used to seeing people living and dead. The dead were nothing to them.
After my girlfriend graduated with a Ph.D., she worked in the internal medicine department of a tertiary hospital. Because of her excellent medical skills and excellent reputation, she was quickly promoted to chief physician. Her work is very busy. The inpatient department is always noisy and full of people. She has to work in the outpatient department. Every time she eats, she has to eat two mouthfuls. She doesn't know how to eat well. She doesn't have time. It's common to work overtime at night. Being a family member of a doctor means you have to make a lot of sacrifices.
In 2019, she gave birth to twin sons. But she was so busy at work that she started working right after her maternity leave. She has no time to take care of the children at all. She is one of those workaholics, so I can only invite my parents from the countryside to take care of the children.
But what I didn’t expect was that when my parents came to this home, our home became a battlefield and everything became chaotic. The doctor was a mysophobic, and my parents were from the countryside and were not so particular. There were many Local concepts are different, and conflicts often arise. My wife always complains about all kinds of bad things about my parents, and my parents can't stand this daughter-in-law. It's just the problem of leftovers. My parents must save them for the second time. My wife will throw away everything because of this matter. They will quarrel and say, Dad is okay, but my mother has a big fight with him. She doesn’t care about anything at home, just work, and I am caught in the middle. I suffered a lot. I work at the police station and am very busy. It's impossible. The teacher stays at home. Sometimes it may take more than half a month to come back from a business trip. After getting along, I felt very tired, and I only had two sides to persuade me. But the effect is not very good. My parents are becoming more and more dissatisfied with my daughter-in-law. My mother said that this kind of daughter-in-law is a prodigal woman, and she will be punished for such waste. I have to do their work, and I feel very tired. My wife is that kind of person. No matter how busy she is during holidays, she always goes out to travel, relax and see the scenery. Later, because she couldn't get along with my parents, she simply stayed in the work dormitory and never came back. He didn't even care about the twins. Not long after, a hairdresser sent me a message, and I found out that my wife had cheated on her.
received the text message that day, and in the evening I followed my wife on her way to get off work. Later, I saw her entering a restaurant and having dinner alone with a man. The two were talking and laughing. I left, pretending not to see it. Later, when I found a suitable opportunity, I had a conversation with her. I hope she doesn't do those things for the sake of the twins and returns to her family.
She told me that if I wanted her to come back, my parents would need to rent another house to live in instead of living with us. He said that he really couldn't live with my parents under the same roof. I agreed.
So, we rented an 80-square-meter house for my parents in the community next door, which is across the road from ours, and then I hired a nanny to take care of the children.
turned out to be fine. I know that my wife has been spoiled and spoiled since she was a child, and my parents have been used to suffering since she was a child. It is to be expected that they will not get along. Since then, my little family has been safe and sound.
I realize that marriage should be honest and sincere, respect each other, affirm each other, and achieve each other's achievements. It's not sweet to force things. If she can't get along with her parents, we can't let them be forcibly tied together and leave some space. , don’t be discouraged when conflicts occur, find ways to resolve them, and you must firmly believe that as long as you have strong courage to face them bravely, even the most difficult housework can be resolved smoothly, and flowers will bloom.
Cheating is not terrible. What is terrible is that the road has gone dark. If she can change, she is a good comrade. Nowadays, society is becoming more and more open, and there are many warblers and swallows outside. Who can guarantee that walking by the river will not get your shoes wet? After all, no one is a saint, and others must be allowed to make mistakes.
My wife and I are very much in love now, and I don’t regret my choice at all!
Cheating is not terrible. What is terrible is that the road has gone dark. If she can change, she is a good comrade. Nowadays, society is becoming more and more open, and there are many warblers and swallows outside. Who can guarantee that walking by the river will not get your shoes wet? After all, no one is a saint, and others must be allowed to make mistakes.
My wife and I are very much in love now, and I don’t regret my choice at all!
