My husband was on a business trip for five days, and I missed my daughter very much. I took my daughter to pick him up at the airport, but I didn’t tell him in advance in order to surprise him. The plane arrived at 1 o'clock in the middle of the night, and my daughter fell asleep on my back. My four-year-old daughter weighs 40 pounds. I stood like this for an hour with her on my back. Finally, when he came out with his female subordinate, he didn't tell me.
After a while, the husbands of the female subordinates also arrived and they went home. On the way home, I asked him why he didn't say anything. He said he didn't think much about it and was too busy to think about it.
It is entirely up to him to arrange who he travels with at work. He had mentioned this female subordinate before and said she was very capable. In the past, when he went on business trips with his male colleagues, he would always mention it. However, this was the first time he went on a business trip with his female colleagues and he didn't mention it at all.
I think that when traveling with a female colleague on a business trip, whether she is single or married, telling her wife is the most basic obligation of a married man.
Maybe he usually packages himself too perfectly, and will explain the reasons in detail later in the evening when socializing. I have never asked him to do this. To be honest, I am taking care of my children and working at the same time, so I don’t have much thought to pay attention to him. He did it consciously, and I always thought this was his habit, and it was out of respect for me.
Because the contrast this time is too great, the key is that I think it is necessary to inform. I don’t seem to understand this person anymore. I haven’t spoken to him for a few days. I feel like I don’t understand this man more and more, and I have less confidence. what do I do?
The above is a netizen’s self-report. Gu Feng’s advice: Whoever your husband goes on a business trip with is arranged by the company’s business needs. There is no need to tell you this. Didn’t that woman’s husband also go to pick her up? What can happen? It's really nothing to do. Is it normal for a project team to have both men and women traveling together?
This is just a relationship between colleagues, not friends. You are overthinking this. Your suspicion will make the other person feel like they are in jail, and your "questioning" tone will really make the other person feel uncomfortable.
In fact, this is a normal relationship. If you think too much and don’t respect your husband’s feelings, can you really bind your husband? On the contrary, it may push him away. What man doesn't like his wife to be gentle and lovely?
Without trust, couples will drift apart, and sooner or later the family will be torn apart if this continues.
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