As the saying goes, it is disrespectful to come and go without reciprocating. The reason why relatives are connected is because they move around each other. For example, although parents, children, and brothers and sisters move around each other, they still have different strengt

As the saying goes, it is rude to come and not go back. The reason why relatives are connected is because they move around each other. For example, although parents, children, and brothers and sisters move around each other, they still have different strengths and weaknesses in giving gifts, which will also affect the family relationship.

On this day, Xiaoyu called her parents and said that her son had been admitted to college and decided to hold a college entrance banquet. His father Dahai said happily: Congratulations to your grandson for getting admitted to college. Your mother and I, as well as your brother and sister-in-law will all go to support you when the time comes! After hearing what her father said, Xiaoyu was happy from the bottom of her heart.

On the day Xiaoyu held a banquet for her son to enter college, many guests came and a band was invited. It was as lively as a wedding. Father said to Xiaoyu: Your mother and I, as well as your brother and sister-in-law, will give you a thousand yuan as a gift, right? Xiaoyu took the money and said: A lot, a lot!

Not long after, Xiaoyu’s father Dahai called Xiaoyu and said: Your nephew has also been admitted to college and decided to hold a college entrance banquet! Xiaoyu said: My nephew has been admitted to college and you didn’t inform me. If my aunt knew about it, she should go! Dahai said: Your nephew is an aunt like you. We will watch your show on the day of the college entrance banquet. You have to pay at least 10,000 yuan in gift money! After hearing what her father said, Xiaoyu was shocked. She was stunned for a while and said: Okay, okay!

After answering her father's call, Xiaoyu felt panicked and wronged. Thinking of the past, she shed sad tears.

Xiaoyu has two siblings. When she got married, her father asked her to ask her husband's family for a bride price of 50,000 yuan, which she did. When she gave birth to a full-moon party, her parents gave her a gift of five hundred yuan. When her child celebrated her twelfth birthday, her parents gave her a gift of one thousand yuan. However, when her younger brother got married, her parents asked her to give her a gift of 10,000 yuan. When her sister-in-law gave birth to a baby and held a full-moon banquet, her parents asked her to give her a gift of 5,000 yuan. When her nephew celebrated his twelfth birthday, her parents gave her a gift of 10,000 yuan. Asking her to give her a gift of 10,000 yuan... Thinking of this, Xiaoyu felt uncomfortable and aggrieved! When dealing with her parents, if her parents pay twice as much, she will pay ten times as much. However, she must not violate her parents' words, otherwise she will not be welcomed back to her parents' home and her reputation will not be good. People will say that they don’t know how to mix, and they won’t even recognize their parents!

Looking back on the past, Xiaoyu started to cry aggrievedly. After her husband asked her why she was crying, he said: What is there to cry about? As the saying goes, a married girl throws away the water. Who said you are a girl? A married girl should suffer a little loss in front of her natal family. If your natal parents work hard to raise you and then get married, you will suffer a little loss too. Consider it a reward for the nurturing grace of your parents! Isn't your nephew's college entrance banquet just for us to give him a gift of 10,000 yuan? It's not a big deal, and our whole family will go there to support him!

After hearing what her husband said, Xiaoyu felt much better. She nodded!

In life, there are many cases like Xiaoyu's. When a married girl holds a wedding, her parents' family gives them less money as a gift. However, when her mother's family holds a wedding, they give more money to the married girl. Do you think this is reasonable?