"Are you crazy? You want to marry a 58-year-old man who has just been released from prison! You are simply going to ruin your future!"
Faced with the angry accusations from relatives and friends, Zhang Xianghua sat aside calmly, Unmoved by words.
"You just met, and you were coaxed by this old man's kind words. No one knows who Bo Yang is. His academic qualifications are fake. He has been caught several times and still doesn't feel guilty at all. . Seeing a woman who is very carefree!
Bo Yangās wedding photos
"Have you ever heard of how many wives he had before? Itās his fifth wife! You are very skilled and have no sense of shame at all. You are confused when you marry such a person!"
Zhang Xianghua curled her lips and smiled disdainfully. She didn't believe these "alarmist" words at all. As soon as Bo Yang proposed, they couldn't wait. Come here to stop them, why did Bo Yang offend them? Why should he be slandered like this?
Thinking of this, he felt a fire in his heart. Zhang Xianghua pushed away the people who were trying to persuade him, and declared firmly:
"No matter what you say, I am committed to this marriage! I just want to marry this old, ugly, Bo Yang, a man who was poor and had no future, had just been released from prison. "
Her relatives and friends were "shocked" by her remarks. They all looked displeased, lowered their heads and curled their lips: "Just be stubborn. There are consequences behind going your own way. When you cry, don't make trouble for us! You deserve it!"
Zhang Xianghua picked up the bag and left here without looking back. Even his back looked stubborn and stubborn.
baiyang
Hey! It is true that "one family does not belong to the same family". Zhang Xianghua and Bo Yang are really similar. They are both unwilling to listen to advice and insist on doing whatever they want. A group of people are looking at each other in the room, waiting for them to break up in a few years and make trouble again. She was so upset...
At that time, Zhang Xianghua was still immersed in the beautiful imagination of her future marriage. She stubbornly felt that the words of her relatives and friends were deliberately exaggerated and fabricated to dissuade her from getting married. Little did she know that all of this was actually true!
Zhang Xianghua: Going his own way, the letters on the table reveal the absurd truth
In 1977, after 57-year-old Bo Yang was released from prison, his friends held a blind date party for him.
But he was so down and out, penniless and impoverished that he could only rent it in the underground garage of a friend's house. In order to give him a place to sleep, they turned the old car into a "bedroom" for resting. Even eating, drinking, and diarrhea were shamelessly settled at a friend's house.
Marry a man, marry a man, wear clothes and eat. At that time, Bo Yang could not provide any material foundation, how could any woman be willing to follow him?
My friends also know this, but they can't just watch him live alone, so they still worry about him.
But what is surprising is that this blind date actually brought Bo Yang a charming woman with whom he would spend the rest of his life.
She is Zhang Xianghua, a slightly famous female poet.
Bo Yang and Zhang Xianghua
Love without material things is like a piece of loose sand, but for Ms. Zhang Xianghua, soul compatibility and spiritual height are the first elements she examines in a man.
Although Bo Yang is poor and poor, he is a scholar with a high spiritual level. He has profound knowledge and half a century of experience. Let him put on a suit and sit at the table. He still has a sense of perseverance and perseverance after having read thousands of sails. Pull out the charm.
Before coming to the blind date party, Zhang Xianghua was a little resistant. She always thought that Bo Yang was a cynical old man. But when we met at the banquet, it felt like meeting old friends again a thousand times.
Bo Yang was generous and gentle. He just sat there quietly, with a sense of strength that was accumulated and ready to be unleashed. is like an ancient sword covered by wind and frost. It only needs time to be polished and it will exude an unparalleled edge.
It was not love at first sight. After all, Ms. Zhang Xianghua was 38 years old at the time and had long lost the passion for young men and women to have sex. She just believed in her own vision and chose the right person.
However, an interesting thing happened in the middle. When Zhang Xianghua was hesitating, she told one of her students: "His articles are so spicy and choking. If we quarrel after marriage and are so sharp-tongued, I can't speak to him..."
The student twitched the corner of his mouth and said with a smile: "It's just a meeting, and I don't have to marry him. Besides, he may not like you!" Zhang Xianghua made no further move because she was still hesitating.
But on the other side, Bo Yang was ready to launch his pursuit. The next morning, Zhang Xianghua walked into the office and saw a letter without stamps.
shook off the letter paper and Zhang Xianghua was shocked. This turned out to be written by Bo Yang: "Thank God for giving us the opportunity to meet..."
Such affectionate words made Zhang Xianghua stunned. This was actually a love letter. The eldest is not young enough to still receive a love letter expressing his love. Zhang Xianghua's face suddenly turned red with embarrassment. She raised her eyes and looked around the office, and was relieved when she saw that no one was looking here.
As the saying goes, a brave woman is afraid of a man chasing her . Bo Yang obviously takes this relationship seriously. Not only does he stand guard at the school gate every day, waiting for Zhang Xianghua to get off work, but he also always invites her to dinner and coffee.
At the beginning, Zhang Xianghua had a bit of a grudge. After all, they had only known each other for a long time, and they were pursuing fiercely like this. Wasn't this man a little hasty emotionally?
But Bo Yang said: I am just a straight man, I donāt have so many twists and turns, I will pursue you if I like you.
Bo Yang and his wife Zhang Xianghua
As time passed, Zhang Xianghua, who had been single for many years, slowly relaxed his psychological defense and began to seriously look at the man in front of him.
During a date for dinner, Zhang Xianghua said tentatively: "Actually, I may not be suitable for you. You have just come out of prison. If we don't get along well and something happens and something happens to you, you won't be able to think about it." "Ah!"
Bo Yang patiently listened to her words and answered the question solemnly: "Don't worry, I have never been afraid of a blow in my life."
Thinking of Bo Yang! Combined with his life experience and these powerful words, Zhang Xianghua couldn't help but respect him solemnly. At that moment, she was tempted and was willing to entrust her life to this man, Bai Yang.
There are not so many hurdles in adult marriage. Once the probation period is over, you can directly enter into marriage. It was a calm and ordinary afternoon. Bo Yang was chatting harmoniously with Zhang Xianghua in the cafe, and the warm sunshine shone on the table through the window.
Bai Yang took Zhang Xianghua's hand, his eyes were fiery and serious, and he just asked gently: "How about we start a family?"
Many years later, Zhang Xianghua still clearly remembers that day, that winter afternoon, The afterglow in the cafe, and the amount of caramel in the coffee, everything is so romantic and beautiful...
Bo Yang and his wife
Before their marriage, Bo Yang said: "I have been married twice, and you are mine. His third wife was also his last wife. "
But as things change, impermanence will happen. Many years after the marriage, Bo Yang deliberately placed several letters on the table, mocking Zhang Xianghua's gullibility and stupidity.
When she opened the letter, she suddenly realized that she was really the fifth wife. It turned out that what her relatives and friends said back then were not all alarmist.
She looked back at Bo Yang, who was nestled on the sofa, and felt a little confused and confused. What kind of man was this husband, who lived with her day and night and shared a pot of rice...
Bo Yang: He was much younger once. Romance, reading a thousand sails is not
When Bai Yang was young, he was really pitiful. Every relationship he had was bleak and ended with him hurting women. The formation of this "scumbag" physique has something to do with his native family. Great relationship.
Historian Tang Degang once described Bo Yang this way: "From the day he was born, he was a little orphan abused by the 'night mother'."
His biological mother passed away not long after he was born. His father's cold attitude towards him and his stepmother's harsh abuse were the first lessons he learned in this world.
When I was young, Bai Yang
Perhaps we should not complain that some men and women are emotionally promiscuous and unkind in their treatment of their children. Because when they were very young, they never enjoyed normal fatherly and motherly love in this world.
Later, Bo Yang failed to be a good husband, let alone a good father.
He was very smart when he was young, but he used it for evil purposes. He did not have a decent diploma, but he faked his academic qualifications several times in his later life. Later, after being exposed, he was punished with "permanent expulsion from school."
But he wanted to be enterprising, and later relied on his literary talent to occupy a place in Taiwan's literary world. How many people like to hear such a counterattack story? But his life was spent in countless stormy waves.
Putting aside those controversial past, letās talk about his emotional relationship with Meng Lang. Maybe male literati always dream of living a kind of life: Crossing the bridge as soon as possible, wearing a crooked hat but being romantic, making many red sleeves in front of the building jealous.
Bo Yang was creating
In 1939, when Bo Yang was not yet 20 years old, he married a woman named Ai.
But four years later, the love between the couple was gone, and he fell in love with a woman named Cui Xiuying , and even lived together openly without caring about outside opinions.
These two marriages did not make him bound by the responsibilities of husband and father. He was like a prodigal swordsman, walking among the flowers with a pot of wine, and he would lightly twist it when he felt like it. Sniff one at the tip of your nose, fold another flower and sleep.
A woman with tears in her eyes cannot keep his heart, and children who are waiting for food cannot keep his body.
In 1949, he followed his mentor and left the mainland. A winding strait created the homesickness of many prodigal sons dreaming back at midnight.
From then on, he concealed his past marriage history and pretended to be a mature and charming single man.
Bo Yang hugs the cat
His friends enthusiastically introduced him to young women who could be good wives and mothers. Qi Yongpei was pushed to the table by fate. The light conversation and laughter at the blind date party were always filled with a kind of pink ambiguity.
How could Qi Yongpei, who was putting on a white wedding dress, wearing a diamond proposal ring, and smiling sweetly in front of the camera, think that this marriage of material and love could not bind the heart of a wanderer.
Even if she gave birth to children for him, took care of the housework, and washed her hands and made soup, she could not compare to the graceful and graceful figure at a banquet where cups and glasses were mixed.
Ni Minghua, who was born in a Kochi family, is surrounded by layers of crazy bees and butterflies. She has always had no shortage of suitors, and a single look back can accomplish many literary works.
A glimpse is really better than countless others in the world.
Bo Yang felt as if his soul had been taken away. From then on, he stopped thinking about food and drinks and thought about it all in his heart.
Sure enough, no matter how beautiful and fragrant the peonies are when picked in the house, they are no match for the delicate roses in the corner outside the window.
Ni Minghua
He is not afraid at all of becoming what many people call a heartless person. After all, there are only a few people who can enjoy the happiness of having a beautiful woman return home. It is difficult for a man who is good at betrayal in love to learn to be loyal in marriage.
But God knows, he is really relieved this time! After reading Qianfan, he definitely believed that Ni Minghua was the last wife in his life.
Shortly after their marriage, they gave birth to a daughter. Bo Yang was very happy. He held the soft and glutinous little dumpling and coaxed him in his arms: "Jiajia, my baby girl..."
That At that time, with his lovely wife and daughter by his side, he also became famous in the literary world. It really cannot be said that to be successful in life, you must have all the fun.
When people reach middle age, facing the uncertainties of the world, even when they are in power and glory, they must maintain a calm and humble mentality. After all, no one knows what day the sea will be shaken by stormy waves...
Words in the article written by Bo Yang Sharp, pungent and humorous, it accidentally violates taboos. Because he cherished his talent and reputation in the literary world, Bo Yang was only asked to talk to him at first.
Bo Yang
But Bo Yang doesn't care at all. My pen writes my mouth, and I speak my heart. What's wrong with that?
Jiang Jingguo was so angry that he threw the article on the table, pointed at Bo Yang and yelled: "Write it, just write it, and you will bear the consequences yourself!"
At that time, Bo Yang still stuck his neck, proud and rebellious. Little did he know that fate had set a big trap for him in his future.
This time he fell and injured his muscles and bones, which is almost difficult to heal.
At that time, his wife Ni Minghua was translating a comic work. Bo Yang had nothing to do, so he translated it for his wife on a whim. He still went his own way, using spicy and humorous words.
But this translation actually landed Bo Yang in jail.
What made him even more resentful was that, in order to clear up the relationship with him, his wife openly had an affair with another man and even took away his precious daughter Jiajia...
Good! After reading thousands of sails, the rose I picked from the bush turned out to be a flower with prickly thorns. Bo Yang, who has always had the leading role in betrayal in love, was betrayed by a woman for the first time. The humiliation of being a cuckold made him really unwilling.
Bo Yang's study
He was still in prison at the time, so he used the sharpest words in his life to ridicule and insult Ni Minghua. Not long after
scolded him, Ni Minghua came to see him, but he looked impatient and threw a stack of paper over. Bo Yang took it and opened it, and immediately became furious: Okay! It turned out to be divorce agreement !
Bo Yang is angry. How could he let you sleep and fly with your lover? I protest! I want to go on a hunger strike!
Then, the news that Bo Yang went on a hunger strike in prison to save his wife was spread...
Ni Minghua: In the past, it was difficult to talk about right and wrong, but Xu Jun refused to let me go out of his mind?
It was winter that year. On an ordinary afternoon, Ni Minghua and her husband went out to enjoy the snow scenery.
The atmosphere was harmonious and beautiful, but as soon as he arrived at the door of his home, Bo Yang was arrested and taken away.
This series of events frightened Ni Minghua, who stood aside holding her daughter in her arms.
After understanding the cause and effect of the matter, Ni Minghua made a bold decision: "For the sake of her daughter Jiajia, she wants to divorce Bo Yang."
Ni Minghua couldn't help sobbing to her relatives and friends and cried: "I told him that I would divorce him." Keep a low profile and don't always write articles that offend people. He won't listen. Now it's better. The matter has reached this point and there is no way to end it. "
"Now that he is in jail, how can we live together? "Huh?"
She sent the divorce agreement to the prison, and her husband pointed at her face and yelled. But later, when he saw that she had made up her mind, he begged her not to leave with a downcast face, and even started a hunger strike in the prison.
Ni Minghua knew that he would not harm her life easily. After all, they had been husband and wife for several years, and she knew him very well. was like a coquettish child who would act up and cry when she didn't get what she wanted.
Ni Minghua left him alone and made up his mind to get a divorce. The farce of Bo Yang's hunger strike also ended in embarrassment and booing.
Bo Yang signed his name on the paper angrily. Ni Minghua got the agreement and left without looking back...
Then came the insults one after another, each one more unpleasant than the other. It's really ridiculous that the couple who once had a deep love for each other ended up in such a ferocious state.
In his later letters home, Bo Yang always harbored resentment towards Ni Minghua, and even wrote to his daughter Jiajia to repeatedly instill this idea. Concept: Your mother is sinful. Her remarriage is a betrayal of me and she will be punished. And I am your forever dad.
Bo Yangtuo's face photo
Ni Minghua has also seen those family letters. She had always scorned her. She was the one who gave birth to her daughter, so her heart naturally turned to her. Could it be that a few words of provocation made the child unable to see the truth clearly.
Besides, isnāt he a habitual betrayer in marriage and love? Why is he only allowed to be a heartless person, while others are not allowed to be heartless?
Ni Minghua turned around and ran towards his new life, rarely asking about Bo Yang's affairs.
I heard that he had a very bad life in prison. I also heard that he was no longer as frivolous as before and had calmed down.
I heard that he was working in the prison library and was determined to write three history books.
Later, some news came intermittently. Bo Yang was released from prison, fell in love again, and married a woman 19 years younger.
Ni Minghua shook his head and smiled, looked at his daughter Jiajia, and sighed leisurely. When Bai Yang was released from prison and stubbornly came to find her, she was worried that her daughter would be taken away.
But Jiajia didn't want to see him at all. I heard that he lived alone on the cold streets of Taipei, and later found a place to stay with the help of his friends.
Bo Yang returns to his hometown
Thatās it, everyone is fine. She, Ni Minghua, was just a sailboat that sailed away from Bo Yang. Like his three previous wives, the work was divided, but the difference was that she, Ni Minghua, was definitely not an abandoned wife.
I just didnāt expect that Baiyang, who was half a century old, would be so beautiful and blessed that he could spend his old age hand in hand with a female poet who is 19 years younger in the literary world. Does this count as lifeās compensation for what he suffered?
Zhang Xianghua: If there is an afterlife, I still want to be with you
On the wedding night, Zhang Xiang Huawei Bai Yang wrote a poem called "One-way Ticket"
"If you can make a reservation for the next life, please pre-order two A one-way ticket, take me across the three rivers and five lakes, across the seven seas, to the heights of the blue sky, to the netherworld of the underworld, please don't miss me."
There seems to be more sympathy between the two of them than ordinary couples. Feelings. Zhang Xianghua treats Bai Yang very well. She is serious about being Bai Yang's wife. She even prepares the color of the socks that Bai Yang wears every day when he goes out.
When people reach their old age, they behave like children and are cute. In Zhang Xianghua's eyes, apart from his literary creative talents, his husband is just like a child in life. Sometimes he even misremembered his family name. Even when he wanted to sign a contract for royalties, he didn't even look at it and just wrote down his name with a big stroke of his pen.
Bo Yang and Zhang Xianghua in their later years
This made Zhang Xianghua on the side stunned. How can anyone sign a contract without looking at the amount!
"He needs a helper." Zhang Xianghua told herself clearly, but Bo Yang never bothered Zhang Xiang because of her own affairs, asking her to give up her job to serve him.
Obviously, in his later years, Bo Yang cherished this marriage and love. He was both tolerant and doting on his wife, who was 19 years his junior. On a whim, he would cook for her and make a pot of coffee. When his wife is tired, he will also take the initiative to massage her neck and shoulders.
He seems to have changed a lot...
The once self-centered prodigal son seems to have finally learned how to take care of the family flower and be a qualified husband.
Nine years of prison life made him temper his sharp edge and become gentle. He really likes Zhang Xianghua. When two people get together, they can always understand and tolerate each other. Perhaps this is what a love marriage should be like.
Zhang Xianghua gave up his job and career and became his agent, becoming his solid backing. She, who was previously unsociable, began to learn how to communicate. Bargain with publishers with ease.
Bo Yang was able to later write the popular "Vernacular Edition of Zizhi Tongjian", part of which was attributed to Zhang Xianghua!
Bo Yang and Zhang Xianghua
But Bo Yang has a grudge in his heart after all. He once deceived Zhang Xianghua.
In fact, he has been married four times. The reason why he hid it at the beginning was because he was worried that he would scare away his lover. Now that the two want to work together without any barriers, they should be honest and trust each other.
That afternoon, he deliberately placed a few letters on the table. Pretending not to care, he sat on the sofa and secretly looked at Zhang Xianghua's expression and reaction.
It was also at that time that Zhang Xianghua learned that Bo Yang had two wives and two daughters in mainland China.
Those letters were written by the wife and daughter he once abandoned: "Dear Dad, hello, Father..."
Surprisingly, Zhang Xianghua was not angry, and looked at Bo Yang with a hint of anger. Heartbroken, she knew that he was cautiously testing her.
As Bo Yangās wife, she nodded to him with a smile and said to him: I accept all your unbearable past and face it with you!
Bo Yang
In 1987, Bo Yang finally reunited with his two daughters for a short time in Hong Kong. When they parted, he leaned on the railing beside the boat and held the hand of his wife Zhang Xianghua. The gray-haired old man looked at the endless sea. Hai Hai, waving goodbye to her daughter, finally couldn't help but burst into tears.
Zhang Xianghua patted his back gently with his hand and comforted him softly.
They spend the rest of their lives together feeling the beautiful morning air and admiring the colorful clouds and red clouds falling in the evening. When his legs and feet were inconvenient, he sat on the recliner while she read the newspaper word by word beside him.
In his later years, what Bo Yang felt was the tranquility and tranquility of the sunset.
On April 29, 2008, 89-year-old Bo Yang closed his eyes forever on the hospital bed and stayed in this world for the last second. He looked at Zhang Xianghua with nostalgia.
He may want to tell her that I will go to the next life first and buy two one-way tickets for us, and we will still be together in the next life...
Although Bo Yang has left, the situation of his wives is completely different.
Bo Yang's son
The first wife named Ai, after he wandered around the world, was forced to remarry with her daughter who was waiting for food.Due to emotional injury, she died in depression.
The second wife, Cui Xiuying, never remarried after Bo Yang disappeared and ended up alone. She struggled to raise her eldest daughter alone. Amidst the ridicule from the neighbors, always dreamed that one day, he would come back...
The third wife, Qi Yongpei, helped her two sons start their own business. She was a strong woman after the divorce. With hard work, she passed the exam at Stanford University in the United States and became a female professor . And under her careful guidance, both sons became social elites.
The fourth wife, Ni Minghua, took her daughter Jiajia to remarry a man she could trust for life. pursued new happiness and lived a stable and beautiful life.
And the last wife, Zhang Xianghua, shortly after he passed away, was sent to the hospital for rescue by a friend because of excessive consumption of sleeping pills .
Zhang Xianghua
Fortunately, he arrived in time. After Zhang Xianghua woke up, he remained silent and did not say a word. How many years does
have left to live? I guard our lovesickness and memories and live day by day...
āāEndāā
However, an interesting thing happened in the middle. When Zhang Xianghua was hesitating, she told one of her students: "His articles are so spicy and choking. If we quarrel after marriage and are so sharp-tongued, I can't speak to him..."
The student twitched the corner of his mouth and said with a smile: "It's just a meeting, and I don't have to marry him. Besides, he may not like you!" Zhang Xianghua made no further move because she was still hesitating.
But on the other side, Bo Yang was ready to launch his pursuit. The next morning, Zhang Xianghua walked into the office and saw a letter without stamps.
shook off the letter paper and Zhang Xianghua was shocked. This turned out to be written by Bo Yang: "Thank God for giving us the opportunity to meet..."
Such affectionate words made Zhang Xianghua stunned. This was actually a love letter. The eldest is not young enough to still receive a love letter expressing his love. Zhang Xianghua's face suddenly turned red with embarrassment. She raised her eyes and looked around the office, and was relieved when she saw that no one was looking here.
As the saying goes, a brave woman is afraid of a man chasing her . Bo Yang obviously takes this relationship seriously. Not only does he stand guard at the school gate every day, waiting for Zhang Xianghua to get off work, but he also always invites her to dinner and coffee.
At the beginning, Zhang Xianghua had a bit of a grudge. After all, they had only known each other for a long time, and they were pursuing fiercely like this. Wasn't this man a little hasty emotionally?
But Bo Yang said: I am just a straight man, I donāt have so many twists and turns, I will pursue you if I like you.
Bo Yang and his wife Zhang Xianghua
As time passed, Zhang Xianghua, who had been single for many years, slowly relaxed his psychological defense and began to seriously look at the man in front of him.
During a date for dinner, Zhang Xianghua said tentatively: "Actually, I may not be suitable for you. You have just come out of prison. If we don't get along well and something happens and something happens to you, you won't be able to think about it." "Ah!"
Bo Yang patiently listened to her words and answered the question solemnly: "Don't worry, I have never been afraid of a blow in my life."
Thinking of Bo Yang! Combined with his life experience and these powerful words, Zhang Xianghua couldn't help but respect him solemnly. At that moment, she was tempted and was willing to entrust her life to this man, Bai Yang.
There are not so many hurdles in adult marriage. Once the probation period is over, you can directly enter into marriage. It was a calm and ordinary afternoon. Bo Yang was chatting harmoniously with Zhang Xianghua in the cafe, and the warm sunshine shone on the table through the window.
Bai Yang took Zhang Xianghua's hand, his eyes were fiery and serious, and he just asked gently: "How about we start a family?"
Many years later, Zhang Xianghua still clearly remembers that day, that winter afternoon, The afterglow in the cafe, and the amount of caramel in the coffee, everything is so romantic and beautiful...
Bo Yang and his wife
Before their marriage, Bo Yang said: "I have been married twice, and you are mine. His third wife was also his last wife. "
But as things change, impermanence will happen. Many years after the marriage, Bo Yang deliberately placed several letters on the table, mocking Zhang Xianghua's gullibility and stupidity.
When she opened the letter, she suddenly realized that she was really the fifth wife. It turned out that what her relatives and friends said back then were not all alarmist.
She looked back at Bo Yang, who was nestled on the sofa, and felt a little confused and confused. What kind of man was this husband, who lived with her day and night and shared a pot of rice...
Bo Yang: He was much younger once. Romance, reading a thousand sails is not
When Bai Yang was young, he was really pitiful. Every relationship he had was bleak and ended with him hurting women. The formation of this "scumbag" physique has something to do with his native family. Great relationship.
Historian Tang Degang once described Bo Yang this way: "From the day he was born, he was a little orphan abused by the 'night mother'."
His biological mother passed away not long after he was born. His father's cold attitude towards him and his stepmother's harsh abuse were the first lessons he learned in this world.
When I was young, Bai Yang
Perhaps we should not complain that some men and women are emotionally promiscuous and unkind in their treatment of their children. Because when they were very young, they never enjoyed normal fatherly and motherly love in this world.
Later, Bo Yang failed to be a good husband, let alone a good father.
He was very smart when he was young, but he used it for evil purposes. He did not have a decent diploma, but he faked his academic qualifications several times in his later life. Later, after being exposed, he was punished with "permanent expulsion from school."
But he wanted to be enterprising, and later relied on his literary talent to occupy a place in Taiwan's literary world. How many people like to hear such a counterattack story? But his life was spent in countless stormy waves.
Putting aside those controversial past, letās talk about his emotional relationship with Meng Lang. Maybe male literati always dream of living a kind of life: Crossing the bridge as soon as possible, wearing a crooked hat but being romantic, making many red sleeves in front of the building jealous.
Bo Yang was creating
In 1939, when Bo Yang was not yet 20 years old, he married a woman named Ai.
But four years later, the love between the couple was gone, and he fell in love with a woman named Cui Xiuying , and even lived together openly without caring about outside opinions.
These two marriages did not make him bound by the responsibilities of husband and father. He was like a prodigal swordsman, walking among the flowers with a pot of wine, and he would lightly twist it when he felt like it. Sniff one at the tip of your nose, fold another flower and sleep.
A woman with tears in her eyes cannot keep his heart, and children who are waiting for food cannot keep his body.
In 1949, he followed his mentor and left the mainland. A winding strait created the homesickness of many prodigal sons dreaming back at midnight.
From then on, he concealed his past marriage history and pretended to be a mature and charming single man.
Bo Yang hugs the cat
His friends enthusiastically introduced him to young women who could be good wives and mothers. Qi Yongpei was pushed to the table by fate. The light conversation and laughter at the blind date party were always filled with a kind of pink ambiguity.
How could Qi Yongpei, who was putting on a white wedding dress, wearing a diamond proposal ring, and smiling sweetly in front of the camera, think that this marriage of material and love could not bind the heart of a wanderer.
Even if she gave birth to children for him, took care of the housework, and washed her hands and made soup, she could not compare to the graceful and graceful figure at a banquet where cups and glasses were mixed.
Ni Minghua, who was born in a Kochi family, is surrounded by layers of crazy bees and butterflies. She has always had no shortage of suitors, and a single look back can accomplish many literary works.
A glimpse is really better than countless others in the world.
Bo Yang felt as if his soul had been taken away. From then on, he stopped thinking about food and drinks and thought about it all in his heart.
Sure enough, no matter how beautiful and fragrant the peonies are when picked in the house, they are no match for the delicate roses in the corner outside the window.
Ni Minghua
He is not afraid at all of becoming what many people call a heartless person. After all, there are only a few people who can enjoy the happiness of having a beautiful woman return home. It is difficult for a man who is good at betrayal in love to learn to be loyal in marriage.
But God knows, he is really relieved this time! After reading Qianfan, he definitely believed that Ni Minghua was the last wife in his life.
Shortly after their marriage, they gave birth to a daughter. Bo Yang was very happy. He held the soft and glutinous little dumpling and coaxed him in his arms: "Jiajia, my baby girl..."
That At that time, with his lovely wife and daughter by his side, he also became famous in the literary world. It really cannot be said that to be successful in life, you must have all the fun.
When people reach middle age, facing the uncertainties of the world, even when they are in power and glory, they must maintain a calm and humble mentality. After all, no one knows what day the sea will be shaken by stormy waves...
Words in the article written by Bo Yang Sharp, pungent and humorous, it accidentally violates taboos. Because he cherished his talent and reputation in the literary world, Bo Yang was only asked to talk to him at first.
Bo Yang
But Bo Yang doesn't care at all. My pen writes my mouth, and I speak my heart. What's wrong with that?
Jiang Jingguo was so angry that he threw the article on the table, pointed at Bo Yang and yelled: "Write it, just write it, and you will bear the consequences yourself!"
At that time, Bo Yang still stuck his neck, proud and rebellious. Little did he know that fate had set a big trap for him in his future.
This time he fell and injured his muscles and bones, which is almost difficult to heal.
At that time, his wife Ni Minghua was translating a comic work. Bo Yang had nothing to do, so he translated it for his wife on a whim. He still went his own way, using spicy and humorous words.
But this translation actually landed Bo Yang in jail.
What made him even more resentful was that, in order to clear up the relationship with him, his wife openly had an affair with another man and even took away his precious daughter Jiajia...
Good! After reading thousands of sails, the rose I picked from the bush turned out to be a flower with prickly thorns. Bo Yang, who has always had the leading role in betrayal in love, was betrayed by a woman for the first time. The humiliation of being a cuckold made him really unwilling.
Bo Yang's study
He was still in prison at the time, so he used the sharpest words in his life to ridicule and insult Ni Minghua. Not long after
scolded him, Ni Minghua came to see him, but he looked impatient and threw a stack of paper over. Bo Yang took it and opened it, and immediately became furious: Okay! It turned out to be divorce agreement !
Bo Yang is angry. How could he let you sleep and fly with your lover? I protest! I want to go on a hunger strike!
Then, the news that Bo Yang went on a hunger strike in prison to save his wife was spread...
Ni Minghua: In the past, it was difficult to talk about right and wrong, but Xu Jun refused to let me go out of his mind?
It was winter that year. On an ordinary afternoon, Ni Minghua and her husband went out to enjoy the snow scenery.
The atmosphere was harmonious and beautiful, but as soon as he arrived at the door of his home, Bo Yang was arrested and taken away.
This series of events frightened Ni Minghua, who stood aside holding her daughter in her arms.
After understanding the cause and effect of the matter, Ni Minghua made a bold decision: "For the sake of her daughter Jiajia, she wants to divorce Bo Yang."
Ni Minghua couldn't help sobbing to her relatives and friends and cried: "I told him that I would divorce him." Keep a low profile and don't always write articles that offend people. He won't listen. Now it's better. The matter has reached this point and there is no way to end it. "
"Now that he is in jail, how can we live together? "Huh?"
She sent the divorce agreement to the prison, and her husband pointed at her face and yelled. But later, when he saw that she had made up her mind, he begged her not to leave with a downcast face, and even started a hunger strike in the prison.
Ni Minghua knew that he would not harm her life easily. After all, they had been husband and wife for several years, and she knew him very well. was like a coquettish child who would act up and cry when she didn't get what she wanted.
Ni Minghua left him alone and made up his mind to get a divorce. The farce of Bo Yang's hunger strike also ended in embarrassment and booing.
Bo Yang signed his name on the paper angrily. Ni Minghua got the agreement and left without looking back...
Then came the insults one after another, each one more unpleasant than the other. It's really ridiculous that the couple who once had a deep love for each other ended up in such a ferocious state.
In his later letters home, Bo Yang always harbored resentment towards Ni Minghua, and even wrote to his daughter Jiajia to repeatedly instill this idea. Concept: Your mother is sinful. Her remarriage is a betrayal of me and she will be punished. And I am your forever dad.
Bo Yangtuo's face photo
Ni Minghua has also seen those family letters. She had always scorned her. She was the one who gave birth to her daughter, so her heart naturally turned to her. Could it be that a few words of provocation made the child unable to see the truth clearly.
Besides, isnāt he a habitual betrayer in marriage and love? Why is he only allowed to be a heartless person, while others are not allowed to be heartless?
Ni Minghua turned around and ran towards his new life, rarely asking about Bo Yang's affairs.
I heard that he had a very bad life in prison. I also heard that he was no longer as frivolous as before and had calmed down.
I heard that he was working in the prison library and was determined to write three history books.
Later, some news came intermittently. Bo Yang was released from prison, fell in love again, and married a woman 19 years younger.
Ni Minghua shook his head and smiled, looked at his daughter Jiajia, and sighed leisurely. When Bai Yang was released from prison and stubbornly came to find her, she was worried that her daughter would be taken away.
But Jiajia didn't want to see him at all. I heard that he lived alone on the cold streets of Taipei, and later found a place to stay with the help of his friends.
Bo Yang returns to his hometown
Thatās it, everyone is fine. She, Ni Minghua, was just a sailboat that sailed away from Bo Yang. Like his three previous wives, the work was divided, but the difference was that she, Ni Minghua, was definitely not an abandoned wife.
I just didnāt expect that Baiyang, who was half a century old, would be so beautiful and blessed that he could spend his old age hand in hand with a female poet who is 19 years younger in the literary world. Does this count as lifeās compensation for what he suffered?
Zhang Xianghua: If there is an afterlife, I still want to be with you
On the wedding night, Zhang Xiang Huawei Bai Yang wrote a poem called "One-way Ticket"
"If you can make a reservation for the next life, please pre-order two A one-way ticket, take me across the three rivers and five lakes, across the seven seas, to the heights of the blue sky, to the netherworld of the underworld, please don't miss me."
There seems to be more sympathy between the two of them than ordinary couples. Feelings. Zhang Xianghua treats Bai Yang very well. She is serious about being Bai Yang's wife. She even prepares the color of the socks that Bai Yang wears every day when he goes out.
When people reach their old age, they behave like children and are cute. In Zhang Xianghua's eyes, apart from his literary creative talents, his husband is just like a child in life. Sometimes he even misremembered his family name. Even when he wanted to sign a contract for royalties, he didn't even look at it and just wrote down his name with a big stroke of his pen.
Bo Yang and Zhang Xianghua in their later years
This made Zhang Xianghua on the side stunned. How can anyone sign a contract without looking at the amount!
"He needs a helper." Zhang Xianghua told herself clearly, but Bo Yang never bothered Zhang Xiang because of her own affairs, asking her to give up her job to serve him.
Obviously, in his later years, Bo Yang cherished this marriage and love. He was both tolerant and doting on his wife, who was 19 years his junior. On a whim, he would cook for her and make a pot of coffee. When his wife is tired, he will also take the initiative to massage her neck and shoulders.
He seems to have changed a lot...
The once self-centered prodigal son seems to have finally learned how to take care of the family flower and be a qualified husband.
Nine years of prison life made him temper his sharp edge and become gentle. He really likes Zhang Xianghua. When two people get together, they can always understand and tolerate each other. Perhaps this is what a love marriage should be like.
Zhang Xianghua gave up his job and career and became his agent, becoming his solid backing. She, who was previously unsociable, began to learn how to communicate. Bargain with publishers with ease.
Bo Yang was able to later write the popular "Vernacular Edition of Zizhi Tongjian", part of which was attributed to Zhang Xianghua!
Bo Yang and Zhang Xianghua
But Bo Yang has a grudge in his heart after all. He once deceived Zhang Xianghua.
In fact, he has been married four times. The reason why he hid it at the beginning was because he was worried that he would scare away his lover. Now that the two want to work together without any barriers, they should be honest and trust each other.
That afternoon, he deliberately placed a few letters on the table. Pretending not to care, he sat on the sofa and secretly looked at Zhang Xianghua's expression and reaction.
It was also at that time that Zhang Xianghua learned that Bo Yang had two wives and two daughters in mainland China.
Those letters were written by the wife and daughter he once abandoned: "Dear Dad, hello, Father..."
Surprisingly, Zhang Xianghua was not angry, and looked at Bo Yang with a hint of anger. Heartbroken, she knew that he was cautiously testing her.
As Bo Yangās wife, she nodded to him with a smile and said to him: I accept all your unbearable past and face it with you!
Bo Yang
In 1987, Bo Yang finally reunited with his two daughters for a short time in Hong Kong. When they parted, he leaned on the railing beside the boat and held the hand of his wife Zhang Xianghua. The gray-haired old man looked at the endless sea. Hai Hai, waving goodbye to her daughter, finally couldn't help but burst into tears.
Zhang Xianghua patted his back gently with his hand and comforted him softly.
They spend the rest of their lives together feeling the beautiful morning air and admiring the colorful clouds and red clouds falling in the evening. When his legs and feet were inconvenient, he sat on the recliner while she read the newspaper word by word beside him.
In his later years, what Bo Yang felt was the tranquility and tranquility of the sunset.
On April 29, 2008, 89-year-old Bo Yang closed his eyes forever on the hospital bed and stayed in this world for the last second. He looked at Zhang Xianghua with nostalgia.
He may want to tell her that I will go to the next life first and buy two one-way tickets for us, and we will still be together in the next life...
Although Bo Yang has left, the situation of his wives is completely different.
Bo Yang's son
The first wife named Ai, after he wandered around the world, was forced to remarry with her daughter who was waiting for food.Due to emotional injury, she died in depression.
The second wife, Cui Xiuying, never remarried after Bo Yang disappeared and ended up alone. She struggled to raise her eldest daughter alone. Amidst the ridicule from the neighbors, always dreamed that one day, he would come back...
The third wife, Qi Yongpei, helped her two sons start their own business. She was a strong woman after the divorce. With hard work, she passed the exam at Stanford University in the United States and became a female professor . And under her careful guidance, both sons became social elites.
The fourth wife, Ni Minghua, took her daughter Jiajia to remarry a man she could trust for life. pursued new happiness and lived a stable and beautiful life.
And the last wife, Zhang Xianghua, shortly after he passed away, was sent to the hospital for rescue by a friend because of excessive consumption of sleeping pills .
Zhang Xianghua
Fortunately, he arrived in time. After Zhang Xianghua woke up, he remained silent and did not say a word. How many years does
have left to live? I guard our lovesickness and memories and live day by day...
āāEndāā
