Hello, Teacher Xia, I am 22 years old this year. I have just graduated from college. I have found a job and am currently in the internship period. The salary is not high, but I have never asked my parents for money again. Because it was not easy for my parents, who have devoted a

Teacher Xia, hello, I am 22 years old this year. I have just graduated from college. I have found a job and am currently in the internship period. The salary is not high, but I have never asked my parents for money again. Because it was not easy for my parents, who have devoted a lot of effort to me throughout their lives.

I have lived in a rural area since I was a child, but my parents are very good to me. When I was in junior high school, my family was very poor. Because it was a long way to school, my mother would get up at five o'clock every morning to make breakfast for me and bring me lunch. After breakfast, my father would take me to school by bicycle. school, and took me back home in the evening.

Sometimes, it suddenly rained on the way back. It was winter, and my dad was afraid that I would catch a cold, so he took off his cotton-padded jacket and wrapped it up for me. He didn't say he was cold, no matter how windy the road was, he would ensure my safety and health. I have good academic performance and like to enroll in study classes. They never say a word "no" to me. I only found out later that they always asked others to borrow money so that I could enroll in cram schools and go to school.

My mother is in poor health and takes medicine all year round. My father has to work in the fields during the day, and at night he goes out to fish or catch eels to improve his life. After the work at home is done, he will go to the factory to do some work. He was always like this, wherever there was money to be made, he would go there. In this way, I was successfully admitted to the No. 1 Middle School in the county, successfully passed the No. 2 Secondary School, and graduated from college.

Originally, I planned to work hard and try my best to make my parents happy. However, my mother suddenly became pregnant. You must know that she is 43 years old and is an advanced maternal age. I am firmly opposed to my mother giving birth to the child. Firstly, my mother is not in good health and I am worried that she will not be able to bear it. Secondly, because I feel that if they give me another brother or sister, it will undoubtedly increase my burden, and I do not want to Pay for their selfishness.

When I strongly objected to my mother giving birth to the child at home, my father got angry and scolded me for being ignorant. I also lost my temper and threw the bowls and chopsticks on the table, and then locked myself in the house out of anger.

I didn’t eat for two days just to let my parents know the seriousness of the situation. I didn’t welcome the arrival of the child. My parents gave birth to the child without considering my feelings at all. They thought about my future pressure and Will the burden be heavy? Have they ever thought about how my friends and classmates would laugh at me?

Dad finally broke open my door. He pointed at me and said: Do you know that you are not my biological child? If your mother hadn't picked you up by the river, you would probably no longer be in this world now. Your mother has always had difficulty getting pregnant, and now she is finally pregnant. What did she do wrong to ask you to hurt her heart like this?

It turned out that I didn’t eat for two days, and my mother finally decided to go to the hospital to have the baby removed. Hearing this, I was really stunned and asked my dad, where is my mom? He said that she would rest in the room and prepare to go to the hospital in the afternoon. Hey, why did I raise such a white-eyed wolf like you...

Dad's disappointed eyes really pierced me like a thorn. I really didn't expect that I wasn't my biological child, and I couldn't believe it was true. Because, for so many years, my parents have been really good to me. Whatever I want, they will satisfy me. When I failed, they always encouraged me, rarely hit me or scolded me, and pampered me like a treasure.

I ran to ask my mother, and she suddenly cried, hugged my head, and said: I don’t want to have children anymore. Mom, you are enough. You are enough. As she spoke, she stroked my head. I saw her crying sadly. I suddenly knelt down in front of my mother, slapped myself twice and said, "Mom, you said you picked me up." ?

I really didn’t expect that she would say: Although I picked you up, you have always been my son and everything to me. Mom knew that she was selfish and did not consider your feelings. Mom knew that she was wrong. After saying that, she suddenly hit herself twice in the stomach and said: It's all my fault, it's all my fault...

I grabbed my mother's hands and hugged her tightly.Mom, whether I was picked up by you or your biological child, you are my only mother in this world, and my father is also my only father. It’s you who gave me a family, and it’s you who gave me a perfect life.

That day, I stopped my mother from going to the hospital, and I couldn't kneel in front of my parents until dinner. After my mother made dinner, she asked me to eat. When I didn't eat, she brought the food in front of me. And, he said: Son, please get up. Mom feels sad. No matter what you decide, mom will listen to you...

Now, I am very confused. Should I let my mother give birth to the child? In fact, it's not that I don't want to raise that child, but I'm also afraid that my mother's body won't be able to bear it? I really want to tell them that you are all my closest relatives and loved ones, and I will be filial to you and repay you throughout my life. Everyone said, should I accept this younger brother or younger sister?

Family love is priceless. In this world, the people who can be your parents are the ones who are destined to you. No matter if they are your biological parents or your adoptive parents.

Your parents are actually very kind. Although they picked you up, they did not send you away again or ignore you. They warmed your life with their kindness and their love. They worked hard to earn money to raise you and provide for you to study. They poured their youth and all their enthusiasm into you.

In addition to loving you, they also love you because you are their hope and their spiritual sustenance. Therefore, when you went on a hunger strike to object to their having a child, they resolutely chose to compromise. It can be seen that you have a very high status in their minds. They love you more than themselves.

Your parents are not selfish, they just really want to have a child of their own. Although they love you, your mother has not truly experienced the pain of motherhood and the joy of the birth of a child.

So, if you love your mother, respect their choice. The arrival of their children is also their fate. What's more, your parents are so understanding and kind, and they will definitely work hard to shoulder the burden and responsibility brought by that child. You don't have to be so hesitant. In this world, family love is priceless, so don't hurt the relationship between you.

Leave the matter to your parents to decide. You only need to respect them, which is the best way to repay them.