Many women always feel that since they are married, they should be favored, should be fairies all their lives, and everyone else is there to serve them... The old man takes care of the children for her, and she makes fun of her mother-in-law, and even basic manners are not enough. No, is like what my mother-in-law owes her.
Some women see neither love for their children, nor consideration for their husbands, nor respect for their elders, nor even gratitude to those who help them. They are extremely selfish... …
The key is that she doesn’t feel that she is at all wrong, as if the child was given to others, she just wanted to complete the task...
Today, let’s take a look at the story of Li Qianqian, Li Qianqian, a nurse in Harbin, her mother-in-law takes care of her children, and she lives in Jiangbei.
My mother-in-law was angry with me
I feel that my mother-in-law is helping my husband by raising the children, not me!
Because after I gave birth to a child, I stopped working and took care of the child all day long. After the child could go to kindergarten, I worked and my mother-in-law came to help.
My mother-in-law doesn’t care when I come back from get off work.
I am in charge of the children’s washing, eating, drinking, and cleaning, while my husband has very little control. I am responsible for at least half of the children's affairs.
Later, I hoped that my mother-in-law would go back and I would take care of the children by myself, with only the occasional help from my husband.
It’s only one day a week, so he only needs to pick it up.
But he still wanted his mother to help because he didn't have time any day.
So, I think that at least in my family, my mother-in-law helps my husband.
The key thing is that my mother-in-law always buys it in front of me and says that she will help you two take care of the children. The land in my house is all wasted... It makes me tired to hear it.
I was anxious and upset that day, and I retorted directly to her: You are not helping me take care of the child, you are taking care of your son!
My mother-in-law was so angry with me that she went back to her hometown and never came again.
My mother-in-law always suppresses me
I am not someone who takes the initiative to create conflicts. My relatives always persuade me that my mother-in-law has helped me a lot, but I don’t refute. Because I don’t think it’s necessary, and they do take care of the children, even though we don’t have a good relationship.
In family matters, one cannot say one is one and the other is two. The most important thing is that everyone can live in harmony.
However, my mother-in-law is always nosy in my house. That day, my mother-in-law said that I was a little fat, and I directly said, "Have you eaten your rice?"
Moreover, my mother-in-law looked very arrogant and seemed to be babysitting my children. I have to be grateful.
I might as well hire a nanny.
However, after my mother-in-law left, my family is now in complete chaos. I can’t afford a nanny, which costs 8,000 a month...
The daughter-in-law can’t speak
The heroine of this story is typically only responsible for giving birth to children, and the elderly take care of the rest.
Even if you take good care of her, you may not be able to look good on your mother-in-law.
It’s better this time. I am taking care of my baby full-time. I have enough time to think about who I am taking care of the baby for!
I have always been suspicious: When my mother-in-law contributes money and effort, my daughter-in-law is picky and dissatisfied with others. Will she take care of her when her mother-in-law is old and has no money or energy?
Many women are like this nowadays. They don’t have any skills, but they also want to save face and dignity. In the end, they lose both face and dignity. Your mother-in-law is really raising your children and she doesn't even want to say nice things about her.
I think that if you want something from someone, no matter what you think in your heart, you have to say something nice.
If you are raising children here, even if you don’t think well, you should at least not say stupid things.
In the end, the mother-in-law left, so it is not clear at a glance who the mother-in-law is in this gang?
It is not easy for the elderly to raise children
Some people are just selfish. The basic logic of saying and doing anything is self-interest.
does not understand the hard work of the elderly.
My mother-in-law came to take care of our children. I said in front of my wife and mother-in-law: Mom, it’s lucky that you came to help us take care of the children. If my own mother had taken care of the children, your daughter and I might have divorced long ago!
The mother-in-law was extremely happy.
Once, my wife and my mother-in-law had a quarrel over the issue of taking care of the baby. My mother-in-law said, if you treat me like this now, I will still count on you to support me in the future!
My wife said casually, I didn’t say that I will support you from now on, which made my mother-in-law cry.
At that time, when I was sick and lying in bed, I heard them arguing. I had no choice but to drag myself out and apologize to my mother-in-law.
Therefore, it is not easy for the elderly, and we must understand.
The author has something to say
It is very rare for a mother-in-law to lend a hand in raising children. Doesn’t this make the couple much easier?
Are you still confused about who your mother-in-law is raising the child for?
Why do some people always ignore other people’s work and efforts? Anyone who has taken care of a child knows how difficult and naughty children can be. If you don’t want to take care of a child, just don’t have one...
Some women feel that having a child is not for themselves, but for a man.
Nowadays, if your mother-in-law is angry, your family will suffer. The poor will not dare to anger a free labor force!
I think that whether the child is taken care of by your mother-in-law or your own parents, they are just helping you. They are not obligated to take care of the child for you. Helping you is purely a matter of love. And this heroine is a bit ungrateful.
Also, every mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may have conflicts, but if they are humble to each other, it is not a big problem at all.
We all know that raising children is not easy, so why bother making things difficult for each other.
