Yesterday I bought toothpaste and a toothbrush for the hospitalized bar girl, but I didn’t buy a cup. So how is she going to get water and brush her teeth? How to store toothbrushes? This little thing kept popping up in my mind inadvertently throughout the day, and it was as uncomfortable as having a vegetable leaf stuck between my teeth. She is a friend of my friend. I don’t even know her name. I just happened to meet her yesterday. A little girl from out of town was hospitalized in Wuhan alone. She had no one to rely on. I would like to help if I can.
In line with the principle of perfectionism and the spirit of helping others, I went there again in the morning and bought her a new cup, a new washbasin, as well as snacks, toilet paper, sanitary napkins, facial cream, etc. supplies. After going to the hospital, I took a few test reports for her and escorted her to the hospital for surgery. During the break between
, I had a good chat with her. Since I have decided not to go to a large bar in Wuhan from July 1st, I decided to act as a conscientious social person and a former porn critic. (and still am), I wanted to talk to her about my understanding of the dark side of large bars. The so-called support of
is a functional department, which is generally only found in large bars. Simply put, it is the atmosphere group , which is essentially similar to the staff dressed as cartoon characters in Disneyland , which makes you feel lively and integrated. Theme atmosphere. The support department in a large bar is staffed by pretty little girls, mostly female students who work part-time at nearby universities. Dressing up brightly, sexy and cool every day makes the guests feel that they have arrived in a colorful world filled with beauties. These girls are, in the lingo, support.
Generally speaking, in addition to creating atmosphere, they are also responsible for selling gifts to guests. This gift is usually a salute, which is a common firework-like cylinder at weddings. With a twist, it can shoot out paper pieces all over the sky. , quite a festive atmosphere.
A large bar with a support department is essentially a lobby version of a nightclub, in addition to acousto-optical music and performances, which is fundamentally different from the male and female friends' drinking den in Helens. It combines the nightclub system with the foreign gogobar girl model, removes some obviously illegal and heavily pornographic parts, and builds a business model within the margins of Chinese law. Its main function is to provide male customers with lightweight escort services of a large number of young and beautiful girls, including playing games, drinking, dancing, holding hands, hugging waist and other light physical touches. Occasionally, some customers will do more outrageous things. .
's so-called sales salute and champagne. Essentially selling the girls themselves. The reason why such an item exists is because Chinese law does not allow the provision of paid escorts, salutes and champagne. Just like in Japan, where gambling is prohibited, a pachinko shop sells rice cookers to guests and then goes to the store next door to recycle them at a high price. It is a compliance operation. Based on this set of rules,
gets girls drunk and takes them away to make some kind of deal, or to defraud them of money, sex, or keep them. They are all naturally derived from the extension line. Although the store explicitly prohibits them in the system, it cannot actually prevent them. Because the core of everything that supports girls’ work is centered around sexual attraction. In essence, this is sexual exploitation. It is inherently anti-human (girls’) and anti-human ethics.
From this perspective, a large bar is a hunting ground. The shop owner uses high salary as bait to gather all the young and beautiful girls around for hunting by guests with ill intentions. Why does marketing focus on men? Because men understand men's needs, male marketers, as homosexuals, can conspire with customers, understand their preferences for girls, and search for and target girls on their behalf.
I can clearly say that the executives of large bars do not treat girls as human beings. To them, girls are not human beings. Not to mention taking advantage, but even a slap in the face, the store is not allowed to fight back. They are just consumption bait provided to customers, or they are the goods themselves.
No matter what the regulations and systems say, under the unspoken rules, the store encourages customers to violate the girls as much as possible within the scope of the law, and to spend more money for this.Of course you can say that the store system does not support such a thing, but in fact, as long as you pay high enough, not to mention male marketers, even executives and bosses can personally take action and win girls for you.
Under this system, supporting girls will encounter a lot of sexual harassment almost every day. It has also cultivated a large number of customers who specialize in hunting and supporting girls. The elite and thoughtful people among these successful customers will also sum up the rules and methods, and even record videos to teach them.
When a girl enters a large bar as a supporter, under the influence of performance pressure and the surrounding environment, you will either quit, or it will be easy to integrate into that set of rules and environment. And reverse rationalize it, accept it yourself, and become one of them. You will soon be able to let go of your psychological burden and learn to constantly please your guests and coax them to buy more gifts. This is the innate instinct of women, but this instinct is not prepared for hundreds of customers, but for their only boyfriends and husbands.
supports that what a girl would do to a customer is to be as friendly, kind and gentle as if she met a boyfriend who fell in love with her at first sight. In fact, in most cases, their obedience and flattery to male guests exceeds the standards they treat their boyfriends, because their boyfriends always play with them and hold them in the palm of their hands, but the opposite is true when facing guests. . I can bluntly say that none of the girls’ boyfriends have ever seen their girlfriends be so docile, well-behaved, attentive and man-pleasing.
And if customers in large bars do things to support girls, they will be jailed in society. Article 237 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China stipulates that anyone who molests a woman or insults a woman shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than five years or criminal detention. Whoever gathers a crowd or commits a crime in public in a public place shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than five years. I would like to ask, does the bar lobby count as a public place?
How many strange men who are not her boyfriend will a supportive girl touch in one night? I would say ten is not too much. In a year, that would be thousands of people. Most of them have malicious intentions, that is, they have a mentality of taking advantage. In society, let alone a few people, if your girlfriend is touched by a strange man with this mentality, it will be a violent incident that will definitely involve blood.
I summarized to her several reasons why this job is not worth doing:
Support is not a decent job, it is not respected in society, and its reputation is negative. This is something you never want to do with your boyfriend, husband, and Things parents know.
support is a job that seriously harms the body. Staying up late for a long time, drinking alcohol, and intense and long-lasting light stimulation will have a serious impact on a girl's health, including rapid aging and organ deterioration. The so-called high salary is compared with these long-term injuries. , not worth mentioning at all.
support is a temporary job with no future. Any girl does not need to be talented, she only needs to be young and beautiful, and put down her dignity and certain natural human rights and human rights. And being young and beautiful is the shortest period in a woman's life, which will never come again.
support is an insecure job, with no social security, no contract, and no future.
support is a job that will distort values, ethics, and consumption concepts. Girls who have been in this kind of environment for a long time can't help but twist their hearts. They are different from ordinary women in society and develop bad habits that are difficult to detect.
support is a job that seriously affects the normal relationship between men and women. Interaction with men will also cause serious problems, because in the world of love, it is selfish, exclusive, and the absolute possession of each other. There are some acts of tenderness and intimacy that you cannot provide to others.
Finally, what I want to say is that as a man who has consumed supportive girls, hooked up with supportive girls, hated supportive girls, and also liked supportive girls from the bottom of his heart. I completely understand their original intention of doing this job. Some just like to have fun, and some just want to make some money. After all, we all live in a real world, and it is difficult to make it without money.But after solving your short-term needs, I sincerely suggest that you leave this job forever and never look back. There is no need to be attached to this life of luxury and luxury, and there is no need to miss this colorful and wonderful life, it has nothing to do with you. It is just an illusion that is gorgeous on the surface but stinky inside. The further away from this world, the happier your long life will be.
And I am just a guest, please remember this.
