"He directly put his hand into Momo's clothes and unbuttoned her underwear. His hand stayed inside for a long time." "It seems that Momo took the initiative. A girl doesn't know how to be reserved at all." "Then he If my girlfriend finds out, wouldn’t Momo be miserable? “These wo

"He directly put his hand into Momo's clothes and unbuttoned her underwear. His hand stayed inside for a long time."

"It seems that Momo took the initiative. A girl doesn't know how to be reserved at all."

"Then if his girlfriend finds out, wouldn't Momo be miserable?"

one

These words all came from a female colleague who works in the same unit as me.

And I am the woman they call Momo who was unbuttoned by a man and didn’t know how to be reserved.

That day, I was going to the toilet when I heard voices coming from the sink outside.

After a moment, I immediately recognized several female colleagues from the same work unit as me.

They spoke very quietly, but I still heard them, and they were gossiping about other colleagues.

The reason why I want to say this again is because I have seen them gathering in the bathroom, tea room, balcony and other places to gossip.

So I am already familiar with the scene at this moment.

I have never been interested in eavesdropping on other people’s gossip, and I don’t like to gossip.

So when I finished going to the toilet and was about to press the flush button and leave this nosy place, I heard my name.

Human nature seems to be like this. One thing may not be that important, but as long as it has something to do with yourself, you will attach great importance to that thing.

Driven by curiosity, I stopped flushing.

I silently sat back on the toilet and began to "snoop" on the incident where my name appeared.

two

"He put his hand into Momo's clothes and pulled open the button of her underwear. It was very dishonest that his hand was still inside. After staying there for a long time, I didn’t know what they were trying to do. "

" I also saw them coming back from the bathroom together. Do boys and girls go to the bathroom together? "

" She specially put on makeup and put on super bright lipstick, as if she was afraid that others wouldn’t be able to tell that she was wearing lipstick. Tell me, why? ”

Everyone’s unspoken laughter stimulated my eardrums and made me feel special. Satire.

Come back from going to the toilet together?

The men's and women's bathrooms in our company are next to each other. Sometimes it just happens that we go to the bathroom together and there is nothing to gossip about.

Isn’t it normal for girls to touch up their makeup in the toilet?

It is difficult for me to explain clearly the fact that my male colleague reached into my clothes and unbuttoned my underwear.

After a long time, I suddenly remembered. I remember that when I was making coffee in the tea room that day, a male colleague who had a good relationship with me also came in to make coffee;

saw a thread on the back of my newly bought clothes, Just take the nail scissors and cut them for me.

I can’t believe that everyone can imagine so many pictures just by seeing the scene at a glance.

can’t believe it even more, why people say things that are uncertain as if they are true.

This is my first time experiencing such a thing, and I don’t know how to solve it for a while. Should

pretend that she didn’t hear anything and continue playing with her phone with her head down, or should she rush out without hesitation and choose to protect her innocence?

I chose the latter.

So I flushed the toilet and threw the door open.

The people in front turned back when they heard the noise and saw me staring at them with a dark face. They were so frightened that their faces turned pale.

"Why are you so shocked? You can talk and I can't listen?"

Several colleagues across from me huddled together with fear in their eyes, probably because they were afraid that I would rush up and hit them.

"First, let me explain."

I looked at them calmly and tried to make my words full of deterrence. After finally telling them all the facts, I still warned them.

"If I find you chewing my tongue behind my back again, I will report it to the boss."

"You spend working time gathering in the bathroom, tea room, balcony and other places to gossip, which seriously affects the company's working environment. ."

three

This incident spread widely and everyone in the company knew about it.

A sister who takes good care of me at work said that she envied me for being so brave and dared to confront people who said bad things about me behind my back.

If it were her, she would definitely stay in the toilet silently and not dare to say anything. She wouldn't dare to come out until everyone left.

"What are you afraid of? What they say is not true."

Faced with my question, the sister admitted that she does not dare to offend people easily in the workplace;

Even if she knows that others are talking bad about her behind her back, she will Treat them all as inaudible.

I have thought about this too, but the more I think about it, the angrier I get. I was not willing to cover my ears when he was slandering me.

After this incident ended, many seniors in the same company said that I, a post-2000s generation, was so fierce and did things that they would never dare to do.

There are also many records on the Internet of post-00s generation taking up legal weapons to rectify their workplaces.

But I feel that facing slander and bullying in the workplace, having the courage to resist is not exclusive to those born in 2000, and choosing to endure is not necessarily the best solution.

Because once you choose to tolerate it once, you may do it countless times later.

I don’t know why my colleagues in the same workplace as me would slander me like this.

But one sentence I have always known and firmly believed is:

"Anyone with a correct outlook on life will not slander a person through vague information."

If you are upright, you are not afraid of slanted shadows. Sometimes you need more than just To do so, you also need to be brave enough to speak out and resist.