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folk tales (62)

1. Bai Xue got married, but she still doesn’t understand how to live a good life.

Bai Xue lived with her husband’s family after getting married, but there was just one more person in Zhao Hai’s room. There was no big red wedding as imagined. The house only had four new sets of bedding, and a pair of large leather books proved that they were a newly married couple. Were girls of that era so stupid? Bai Xue believes in the ancient principle that "a good man does not live in separate families, and a good woman does not live in the clothes of the bride". Looking at the things in the house, none of them were bought by her husband's family, and there was no dowry for the nobles. Everything was the result of her own efforts. For the first time, Bai Xue felt that I was a woman of the new era!

This form of marriage is really a different kind of marriage. It doesn't have the structure of a big family in the past, nor does it have the feeling of a small newlywed family. It's like living in a muddle with the four members of your husband's family. Zhao Hai still gives every penny of his salary to his mother-in-law, because he still has to support a family of five! Bai Xue doesn't have too many thoughts, and wants nothing more than a happy life. How to build a family, what kind of life to live, etc., everything is unknown. She only sticks to one thing, her salary must be her own, and everything in the future must be controlled by her own salary.

2. When she returned home for the first time after marriage, her parents-in-law exempted her from one year’s pension.

Bai Xue and Zhao Hai have been immersed in the happiness of their newlywed life. Although their lives are poor, there are many people in the family and Zhao Hai’s two children are often around. The nephew's commotion did not affect their happiness as a newlywed, so they used their Sunday off to visit Bai Xue's parents' house. They had to walk five kilometers before taking a car back to her parents' home at four kilometers. They talked and laughed along the way. When they got in the car at four kilometers, they discovered that Bai Xue's newly bought watch was missing. Bai Xue covered her face with heartbroken hands, and tears flowed from her fingers. This watch cost her four months' salary! It just disappeared quietly.

After arriving at her parents' house, Bai Xue still couldn't help crying. Her aunt and uncle were also very heartbroken when they saw it. In order to make Bai Xue feel better, her uncle said: "Don't take money from home this year, save the money and buy another piece!" She didn’t need to give her 40 yuan a month, which would be 480 yuan a year. She could almost buy two watches. At that time, Bai Xue didn’t think about whether she would be able to support her in old age. She just felt that her parents’ family gave her an incomparable amount of warmth. When he was raising money, Bai Xue still gave money to his family. He thought that it was necessary to support him in old age. Without the hard work of the old man, how could he be there? She sees a doctor

Her mother-in-law is in poor health as she gets older and her stomach always hurts when she can't eat. Zhao Hai proposed that his mother go to Songjianghe Hospital for medical treatment. He looked at his wife and said, "If you don't want to see a doctor, you don't have the money to see a doctor." Zhao Hai and Bai Xue What should we do if we discuss it? In fact, Bai Xue didn't care. They received a lot of money when they got married, and it was all in the hands of her mother-in-law. The family's life has always been spent on Zhao Hai's salary. But Bai Xue couldn't say clearly: "The old man is sick, so he should hurry up." Go and see. This money should come from your salary. We must keep my money. Let's all go out and borrow it. You can't get a wife to help you support your family, right? "

Bai Xue has never borrowed money in her whole life. In order to treat the old lady, she really went out to borrow money. It was the first time she experienced the difficulty of borrowing money from others. Fortunately, her husband lent the money. , the old woman was sent to the local hospital for a systematic examination without hospitalization. The old woman kept the money in her hands and did not spend it, but asked the young couple to find a way. No matter what the situation was, they were playing tricks on Bai Xue when she returned to her parents' home. , the old woman told Zhao Hai: "Lushuihe, the children of your fifth uncle's family are getting married. They took 50 yuan with you when you got married. We can only give more or less in return." Zhao Hai had to go out to borrow money again.

4. When the daughter-in-law returned to her parents' home, her mother-in-law asked her son to take out the wife's money and use it.

It had been a long time since I saw my aunt and uncle. Bai Xue went back to her parents' home on Sunday. When she came back, she found that the suitcase was The lock is broken, which is very distressing! I hurriedly opened the suitcase and took a look. It turned out that the money was 50 yuan less, and nearly a month's salary was gone. I asked Zhao Hai and found out that the old woman was in a hurry to use money to return the gift. Her husband had not borrowed the money when he went out, so there was no way to get the suitcase after it was damaged. money to use. Bai Xue suppressed her anger because her mother-in-law was not at home and there was no point in fighting! Does her husband know nothing, or is he working with his mother to bully her? There is only one way to manage your money well from now on!

Bai Xue felt more and more that she could no longer live with their family. It was difficult for her to live a good life in such a family. Every winter and summer vacation, the two daughters of Zhao Hai’s eldest brother’s family had to Going back to grandma's house for vacation. Although the second brother lives alone, he brings the child back every three days. It is appropriate for him to eat and drink from his grandma. However, have you ever thought that grandma is also supported by his third uncle? Bai Xue felt that she was at a disadvantage, and sometimes she wondered, does his family have regulations that require him to support a whole family if he lives together? Why can't we go out and be alone?

For the first time, Bai Xue had the idea of going out to live alone. But what kind of reason is good? Can Zhao Hai agree to leave his mother and siblings behind and come out to live with Bai Xue? Friends, what do you think? I took medical care all morning and read books in a Beijing hotel in order to keep updating.