There is a very honest man in the village, his name is Gou Wa, he is sixty-two years old this year. It turned out that when he was young, he was a mason, and he followed the village contractor to work wherever there was work. As he grew older, his physical condition also declined

There is a very honest man in the village, his name is Gou Wa, he is sixty-two years old this year. It turned out that when he was young, he was a mason, and he followed the village contractor to work wherever there was work. As he grew older, his physical condition also declined sharply. He first suffered from lumbar disc herniation and then prostatitis . There are also varicose veins, and his legs often hurt. Since the problem review continued, the contractor who took care of him did not dare to take him out to work anymore. After working for decades, I have saved hundreds of thousands of yuan. He has raised a pair of children. His daughter is already married, and his son is also getting married a few years ago. He has spent all the hundreds of thousands of yuan he has saved in his life on his son's marriage, and he still owes tens of thousands of yuan to his wife. account. After his health failed, he couldn't do other heavy work, so he worked as a cleaner in the town's cleaning team, earning 500 to 600 yuan a month. With this little money, he could support his family and subsidize their family income.

Since he started working as a cleaner, he has faced huge pressure. The following is a portrayal of his real life:

(1)

Since he has been doing manual labor and his income is not high, his wife has always been cold towards him. They have been living apart for many years. He himself said that having a wife is the same as not having a wife. His wife does not have sex with him. The two of them are physically and mentally repelled.

His wife’s name is Xirong. What’s especially bad is that his wife dislikes him for eating too much. Every time he cooks, he is not full and hungry. Sometimes he would eat two steamed buns and drink a bowl of tap water when he was hungry. He often couldn't eat well, and his body became thinner and thinner. In today's society, he has a family and a family, but he is malnourished.

His monthly salary is handed over to his wife. When he spends money, his wife gives him one hundred yuan. When he gets home, he has to report to his wife where he has spent the money. The money cannot be counted. Two I have to have a big fight personally.

When Gouwa originally built a house, he dug a basement inside his home. He slept in the basement many years ago. To save money, no electric lights were installed inside. He used a rechargeable lamp for lighting, and his only entertainment was lying in bed and listening to the radio.

(2)

Gou Wa spent all her money to marry her only son. The sad thing is that although my son is already in his thirties and works as a lathe in a factory, his son and his wife are both working, so he leaves his granddaughter at home for them to take care of, while his own salary does not support the family at all.

Gouwa also cultivates several acres of land, but his son and daughter-in-law never help him. During the busy farming season, Gou Wa struggled to collect the crops alone in the field. His son never helped. Gou Wa felt that his son was very cold, and he felt that raising his own son was also very cold.

When he wanted to say something about his son, his wife told him to shut up.

The most obvious thing is that my son has a mobility scooter, so he can buy groceries when he comes back from get off work. However, his son never buys groceries. He walks to town, puts the groceries into a big bag, and carries them back on his shoulders. .

During this period, Gouwa kept saying that he was almost exhausted, was under great pressure, and felt that life was meaningless. I comforted him a few words and analyzed the reasons for his suffering: 1* The relationship between husband and wife is indifferent. , his wife does not respect and love him, she just treats him as a tool to make money. 2* The son has not received a good education. He is in his thirties and has no awareness of taking responsibility for the family and does not understand the difficulties of his parents. 3* He will only work hard to make money all his life. If he can't make money, his wife will dislike him. This is why in his later years, he had no sense of presence at home. He was under great pressure and felt that life was hopeless.

Friends, are there people like Gou Wa among you? I think he is quite pitiful. You can comment and I can reply, thank you!