After breakfast, Xu Xiao and her husband sent their daughter to the kindergarten. Walking on the road lined with green willows, the little girl told Xu Xiao seriously about things in the kindergarten: My good friend Ningning hit a child and was scolded by the teacher. She cried s

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1 [Stay innocent]

After breakfast, Xu Xiao and her husband sent their daughter to the kindergarten. Walking on the road lined with green willows, the little girl told Xu Xiao seriously about the things in the kindergarten: My good friend Ning Ning The teacher scolded the child for hitting her. She cried so sadly that her eyes were swollen.

Xu Xiao asked: So how did you do it?

The little girl said: I wiped her tears and persuaded her.

Xu Xiao looked at the little person beside him, holding back a smile and asked: How did you persuade her?

The little girl said proudly: I told her that if she makes a mistake, she must accept criticism and correct it, otherwise I will not be with her.

Husband raised his eyebrows at Xu Xiao: learn from our daughter, it’s okay to be kind, but you have to have principles.

came to the company after dropping off the children. It was still half an hour before going to work. No one else in the office had arrived yet, and the room was very stuffy. Xu Xiao opened all the windows for ventilation, and then took a rag and mop to the bathroom for cleaning. .

The corridor was quiet, the marble floor glowed with a faint cold light, a pillar of light shone in from the east window, making the small dust particles suspended in the air visible. People longed to be spotless, but no matter how hard they tried, these tiny things could not be seen. Small particles are always with us.

is just like an enterprise. Although there are all kinds of systems, rules and regulations, there are still people who knowingly commit crimes and repeatedly ban them. If they are all treated leniently, what is the future of the enterprise?

As Xu Xiao walked, he reflected on whether he had handled Xiaoya's matter appropriately. Is there a better way than this?

2[Staying innocent]

When Xu Xiao was halfway through mopping the floor, the manager came in and stood at the door without going inside. Maybe he was afraid of stepping on the dirty floor, so he just leaned against the door and looked through the work group on his phone, etc. After Xu Xiao had mopped the entire floor and wanted to wash the mop, the manager asked her to come over and chat for a while.

The two walked into the house on the dry ground and sat down. The manager looked at Xu Xiao and said: You are one of the few lucky people in the workplace, but you don't seem to realize it.

Xu Xiaoguo looked at the manager with an incredible expression. That expression clearly said how lucky am I?

Manager continued: The boss, Director Lin, Secretary Jia, Deputy County Magistrate Fang, etc., ordinary people are considered lucky if they can meet one of them, but you have caught up with them all, do you think you are lucky or not? How many people must be envious and jealous!

It can be said that you have a good hand now. I am telling you this today because I want to give you a suggestion - noble people should not be used cheaply. To put it bluntly, don't consume them with trivial matters.

Xu Xiao sat up straighter, looked at the manager with sincere eyes, and motioned for him to continue.

Manager twisted his neck from side to side and said: What I’m telling you is, don’t trouble them, don’t use these noble people to meet your low-end needs. There are many people waiting for opportunities to take advantage of these noble people. Anyone with a "hunter" smell will be known to the whole family as soon as they smell it.

The real value of getting to know a noble person is to get an opportunity to show your value in front of them, rather than to harvest them and take advantage of them.

Ask others for help in both big and small matters, and you may get three melons and two dates. If you do it too often, people will look down on you and think you are small and cannot be reused. As a result, the noble people will ignore you if you use them cheaply.

Xu Xiao listened attentively. She thought of the silence of Madam standing on the balcony yesterday, and felt a little panicked. She hoped that she was not disgusting.

3[Stupid Innocent]

The manager’s words made Xu Xiao think. He originally thought that what he did yesterday was quite passionate. But when he thought about it more carefully, it felt more or less like moral kidnapping and forcing others to make things difficult for them!

Thinking of this, she quickly thanked the manager: Leader, thank you, I didn’t think so much at the time, you made me see my shortcomings, you are also my noble person!

Manager Xiaoxiao: There is nothing wrong with being a good person, but it depends on what happens. You will also be in a leadership position in the future, and then you will have to take a closer look. If you blindly have a bodhisattva heart, you will have a greater chance of being exploited or bullied. As a human being, You must have both kindness and means!

Someone came to work from the outer office. The manager stood up and said to Xu Xiao: Your career prospects are very good. You should be cautious in your words and deeds in daily life. Don't act on impulse. Don't let people catch small things at critical moments. Think about it carefully. !

Xu Xiao nodded quickly. The manager looked at Xu Xiao and sighed: Sometimes, no matter what, you are useless! After saying this, he took his notebook and went out.

On this day, Xiaoya did not come to work. The book Xu Xiao brought was lying lonely on the corner of the desk, like a neglected child. Xu Xiao didn't know if he had a chance to give it away.

She flipped through the book and thought about herself. Although she was in her 30s, she had not encountered any ups and downs along the way. She went to school, graduated, worked, got married, and only had a few friends. This environment created her innocence, to be precise, she has no worldly experience and no experience.

What makes a person mature is never years, but experience. Xu Xiao feels that the reason why he is not thorough in doing things may be related to the lack of experience!

4[Stay innocent]

At 10 a.m., it is the time for group exercises in the company. Because the weather is too hot, this activity has been suspended since July, but every time during this time, everyone will get together to chat. It's halftime.

The deputy manager came in from the outer office and asked the manager if he had seen the announcement issued by the provincial branch, saying that XXX from XX city had gone to a company in another city to serve as the disciplinary inspection secretary. The two started chatting on this topic.

Xiao Huang heard this and blinked at Xu Xiao. After the manager and their conversation stopped, she suddenly asked: How long has this been going on? Why hasn’t Sister Xu’s director announcement come out yet? What does the company think? Just make the appointment!

The deputy manager asked her: Why are you so anxious? Are you worried about you, Sister Xu Xiao?

Xiao Huang smiled mischievously: Of course I am anxious. After the announcement is made, I can treat Sister Xu!

Everyone laughed, and Xiao Huang asked Xu Xiao: Sister Xu, do you need to ask the Ministry of Human Resources? You're too embarrassed for me to ask!

said that he was about to make a phone call, but the manager quickly stopped him: The above has the above ideas, so don’t mix them up.

Deputy Manager Xiaoxiao: That’s right, what’s the rush? There may be unexpected surprises!

The manager glanced at the deputy manager, who shut up.

When everyone was talking, Wang Xin did not come over. Sister Sun asked where the child had gone. The manager said that he had gone to the boss's office to report. Xiao Huang interrupted again with a playful smile: What is this kid doing? Mysterious!

The deputy manager said to her: You, if you have nothing to do, learn more from others! Study your business carefully and don’t always be glib and damage your vitality!

Xiao Huang chirped and resisted.

5[Stay innocent]

It started to rain outside at noon, and there were many people going to the canteen. When Xu Xiao finished her meal and looked around to find a seat, the deputy manager waved to her in the seating area, and Xu Xiao left happily past.

Sitting across from the deputy manager was an elder brother from the maintenance department. When Xu Xiao passed by, the elder brother had just finished eating and left the table. After Xu Xiao sat down, the deputy manager looked around and whispered: What news did you hear? No?

Xu Xiao didn’t know what kind of news he was talking about, so she shook her head cautiously. She looked at the other person’s face. Although the deputy manager tried hard to restrain himself, his eyes and eyebrows were very happy: According to unreliable news, the company will have a big event in the near future. Action, I may have to move!

Xu Xiao asked puzzledly while chewing the beef tenderloin: Where to go?

The deputy manager looked around, leaned forward, and said in a lower voice: I may have to go to the branch.

Xu Xiao saw that his expression didn’t look like he was joking, so he asked: Are you going to be promoted? How did you know?

The deputy manager waved his hand and said in an inaudible voice: This is not important! The key is you...

Xu Xiao asked with a puzzled look: What's wrong with me?

The deputy manager was obviously disappointed with Xu Xiao's stubbornness: If I leave, the deputy position in our department will be vacant, and won't you have a chance?

Xu Xiao nodded mentally: Thank you for reminding me, I really didn’t expect it.

The deputy manager moved his body and said anxiously: Without further ado, you have to talk to the leader, otherwise will the opportunity be waiting for you? Many people have started to take action. We have been working together for a year, so I am reminding you!

Xu Xiao thanked him again, and then asked him where he would work. A happy smile appeared on the deputy manager's face: This is not clear yet. Is it possible to go to a branch? Maybe it will be Qing'an or Hunan!

Xu Xiao asked why, and the deputy manager said: The boss is not satisfied with the teams of these two places. He has thoughts on adjustments in the near future. You went to Qing'an last time. You should know the specific situation. I went to Hunan with the manager a few days ago. It's even more exaggerated over there. It's you without me, me without you, and it makes the employees below unable to work.

Xu Xiao recalled the boss's indifferent attitude towards the full-time staff when he was conducting research at Qing'an Branch. Maybe at that time, he had the idea of ​​replacing people?

6[Staying Innocent]

When she came out of the cafeteria, the rain stopped. Xu Xiao did not go back to the office, but walked to the library on the wet road after the rain. She did not want to study, she needed to be alone and quiet.

At noon, there were very few people in the library reading room, and the room was filled with the faint fragrance of ink. Growing up, Xu Xiao liked the smell of books the most. It was soothing and peaceful. Being in it, all the mundane distractions were far away. Far away, I felt an indescribable sense of relief all over my body.

There were some young people sitting at the table studying hard for public and postgraduate entrance exams. Xu Xiaoxiao stood on tiptoe and pulled out a book from the bookshelf, then picked a seat and sat down.

Although she likes to put herself in words, today, she is not in that mood. To be precise, it is because the deputy manager's words made her not have such a leisurely mood.

When he was young, faced with this kind of opportunity for promotion, Xu Xiao felt that it had nothing to do with him and stayed away. Xiao Baiding, who has just started working, how much does this kind of thing have to do with him? My network of contacts is not that broad, my abilities are not that high, and my performance is not convincing enough.

But this year is different. Not only Xu Xiao herself feels that, but leaders of all sizes think that she has done a solid job in basic work and her business ability has been greatly improved. The most important thing is that she has negotiated two big projects. And I have accumulated some network resources. Faced with this opportunity, will I still hide?

Ever since she met Director Lin, Xu Xiao wanted to ask her opinion on everything. This seemed to have become a habit. No matter what problem she had, she could find the best answer in Director Lin. With this idea, Xu Xiao immediately took it Pick up the phone.

After unlocking the gesture password, Xu Xiao immediately found Director Lin's avatar on WeChat. Director Lin was dignified and elegant, smiling warmly. She had the ability and wisdom to understand the world, and she had a close and casual relationship with him. She was herself. the shortest path.

Xu Xiao entered a line of words in the dialog box every minute, and then she was stunned. She didn't press the send button for a long time. A sentence came into her mind: How long are you going to rely on others like this?

She thought of a sentence she read in some book: If a person does not regard himself as a savior from the bottom of his heart, but always wants to grow through the special admission and special favor of the strong, then he will always be worthy of staying in Bottom of the well!

She deleted the edited WeChat message, and this time she wanted to try taking off by herself.

7[Stupid Innocent]

Back to the company, when passing by the big flower bed, Xu Xiao heard two female colleagues from two other departments chatting. The words were very honest. One said:... No matter how high your level is or how capable you are, Qiang, if I don't give you a chance to show off, you can only stare!

Another said: It is always said that promotion depends on performance and ability, but these are not all determined by objective reality. The superiors recognize you and add glory to you, but the superiors deny you. If you have done it, you have not done it. Do you think this is the truth?

The previous person said: Yes, the words of the people above can influence and control many things, especially the work performance of subordinates...

Xu Xiao walked away, and the conversation between the two people could no longer be heard. She admitted that they were right They are all right. In the workplace, you must plan for both things and people, and you must not be paranoid about one side.

When Xu Xiao first went to work, she felt that defending her leaders was too mundane. As she came into contact with her leaders more often, she discovered that leaders are also human beings. If you respect him and protect him, can he treat you badly?

In the workplace, unless you have no desires or demands, don't be aloof, because being aloof is not enough to earn a living!

opened the door of the office, and there was no one in the room. Xiaoya didn't come to work, and no one stayed in the unit at noon. Xu Xiao put down the folding bed, and when he was about to rest, Wang Xin knocked on the door and came in.

Xu Xiao asked him to sit down and poured him water while asking him: What is your situation? I've wanted to ask you since yesterday, but I never got the chance. It's scary.

Wang Xin smiled lightly: Sister, I never told you, I have already told the boss about Xiaoya.

Xu Xiao was very shocked. She suspected that there was something wrong with her hearing, so she asked: After Xiaoya leaked the secret, did you tell the leader?

Wang Xin nodded: Sister, I only do the right things!

Friends, that’s it for today, good night!