As the saying goes, if the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds; if the world is big, there are all kinds of people. I once met such a weirdo. It was about ten years ago. Suddenly my cell phone rang, but it was a strange caller. When I picked it up, it was an aunt and cous

As the saying goes, if the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds; if the world is big, there are all kinds of people. I once met such a weirdo.

It was about ten years ago. Suddenly my cell phone rang, but it was a strange caller. When I picked it up, it was an aunt and cousin of mine. To be honest, there has been no contact between the two parties for at least ten years, and he has never contacted me, so I was surprised at first.

It turned out that his son was graduating the following year, and he asked me to help his son find a job. Maybe he was worried that I wouldn't want to help, so he proactively told me, I know it costs money to move around, so if I have money, don't worry, or I'll send you 20,000 yuan first. Although

didn't move around, I heard from my mother that he and his wife had been working as a pork stall in the city next to me for more than ten years and made a lot of money. But it is said that he has always been a petty person.

It was really hard to find a job at that time. After asking about it, I learned that his son, my cousin, only had a bachelor's degree from a private school that was not top-notch, and it was even harder to find a job. No wonder he took the initiative to come to me in advance and proactively said that he had money.

During the phone call, he even boasted about how outstanding his son was, how he was a class leader, and how handsome he was. In fact, as a father, there is nothing wrong with praising his son appropriately on appropriate occasions. But to be honest, it would have been almost impossible for a low-level private undergraduate to join the same industry as me without referrals from acquaintances.

I was born in a rural area. I studied hard on my own and was admitted to a relatively good undergraduate university. Only then did I escape the fate of "facing the earth with my back turned to the sky". So I know how difficult it is for a rural family to raise a college student, and I have always been a warm-hearted person, let alone my cousin? So I agreed to try my best to help him.

He may still be worried that I am not doing my best. At the end of the phone call, he once again said that he would remit 20,000 yuan to me first. I said no, I will remember the expenses clearly and tell him together when the time comes. He hung up the phone gratefully.

Then I will try my best to trust reliable people. But to be honest, no matter how familiar the relationship is, you have to give gifts to those who deserve it, and eat to those who deserve to eat. I found several connections and successfully interviewed with three of them. During the interview, I took the initiative to let his son stay at my house to avoid spending extra money on staying in a hotel.

My son was also young at that time, and my wife happened to be away from work and taking care of the children at home. I especially asked my wife to buy some good food to entertain his son. His son came to my house without any souvenirs, including fruits, and I didn't mind either.

But my wife later told me that after the first interview, when his son left, my wife still gave him a 100-yuan laissez-faire (because I was still at work when his son left, so I didn’t come back). The money was actually not much, but according to our rural customs, it was still a relatively heavy profit at that time. Everyone in Guangdong knows the profit.

Including when there is an interview, I always inform him and ask him to come and stay at my house one night in advance, because the interviews are all in the morning. During the first interview, his son even said that he only came here in the morning on the day of the interview. Firstly, I was worried about the inconvenience of rushing from a neighboring city in the morning, and secondly, I was worried that something bad would happen if I was late due to traffic jam or something. So he asked his son to come over early. Later I learned that his son had a girlfriend and wanted to immerse himself in the gentle land for a while longer.

In fact, in all of this, I stand entirely from their perspective and truly treat him as a relative, rather than helping him from my personal perspective. After all, how many people in the city are not afraid of the trouble and inconvenience of letting unfamiliar people live in their homes? At least the food must be extra grand! I also have to thank my wife for her reasonableness in this regard.

Including his son looking for an internship with an employer before graduation, and the internship report needing to be stamped by the internship employer, I helped him with everything. To be honest, the internship report of his so-called outstanding son was very superficial. In order to show that he studied seriously and learned a lot of knowledge, he wrote a lot of work that our industry would not let interns do.Maybe his son copied it online!

helped his son arrange his travels. For every expense, first of all, I told him and spent it with his consent. Secondly, I completely considered the principle that it is not easy for them to make money in rural areas, so I spent it from the perspective of saving as much as possible. The total cost was only a few thousand dollars. I don’t have much money either, otherwise it would be no problem for me to help them out.

One of them, who is also in the same company as me and is a relatively good company, has finally made it clear that he will admit his son. But it still costs about 20,000 yuan. These are industry practices.

It was really not easy to find a job at that time, and his son’s school was not good enough, so he walked on many legs and found another person who I also knew and was looking for a relationship at the same time. As a result, it was settled over there. I learned that it also costs the same as mine.

chose one of the two, and finally his son chose the unit there. This is actually normal, but a little embarrassing to me. Because the person I was entrusting here was a senior brother of mine, I had no choice but to quickly explain to him that in order to maintain the relationship, I specially invited him to dinner. But I didn’t include these expenses in my cousin’s calculation.

After his son went to work, neither he nor his son called me again, so the expense I spent on helping him move around had nothing to do with them in his mind.

I happened to be renovating the gatehouse at that time, and money was tight. I had no choice but to call him, but he never answered the phone. Later, it was his daughter who answered the phone. In terms of seniority, she must be my niece. But what is surprising and infuriating is that this cousin’s phone call not only lacked the courtesy of a younger generation, but also said very rudely, “What have you done to help my brother find a job? How much money did you spend? How dare you say this?” ?

It is true that like father, like children. It makes you vomit blood! I told her the expenses one by one. She asked me to give her my bank account number, but what they transferred was only half of the total amount spent!

What's even more weird and disgusting is that when he went back, he still complained about me among his relatives, meaning that I cheated him of his money or something. But fortunately, my relatives all know who I am and who he is, so no one believes him.

also shamelessly told my parents that I used to take the initiative to call him, but now I never even called him to greet him during the New Year or anything else. It pissed my parents off half to death.

In this world, we can only say that some people are really shameless. First, I worked hard and took the initiative to do so many things for him before and after running. I have a clear conscience and sincerely treat him as a relative without any evil intentions. Second, before his son came to me a year before graduation, I had never approached him at all, and he had never approached me before. He came to me for an obvious purpose - to help his son find a job, and During this period, especially during the Chinese New Year, I never looked for him. All I did was to inform him about his son’s interview and other matters. As for what he said, I originally called him to greet him, but then I stopped calling him. It was completely a shameless fabrication. To be honest, now that I think about it, I can’t help but want to greet him in my heart! Third, after his son went to work, including staying at my house during the interview, he did not show the qualities that a contemporary college student should have. He never expressed gratitude to our family, including for more than ten years, and his family has not even called us. , text messages, WeChat, etc. have never been given to me.

During the whole process, he only came to my house once when his son had not graduated. I was on a business trip at that time, and he only brought about three kilograms of lychees to my house, which my wife accepted. Other than that, We didn't get any benefit from him. In fact, I never cared about these things, but when combined with all the circumstances that happened afterwards, what they did as a family made people feel really weird.

People often say that there are many wonders in the world. It really makes sense. Friends, have you ever met such a weird family?

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