#人世故事#You grow up with me, and I grow old with you. Children have been the darlings of our parents since childhood and have raised us up. However, what parents need is the company and care of their children. A couple does not necessarily have to be the first couple to be happy. M

Couples do not necessarily have to be happy with their first marriage. My father has been married to my mother for 54 years. He has not lived a happy life. He has been scolded by my mother all his life. Although he has a retirement salary, he cannot even buy food. No, it’s really not worth it for my dad.

Ever since my younger brother broke his leg, I have never been away from my parents. I chose to get married very close to them. It takes about ten minutes to walk to my parents' home. Even if I buy a house now, it is only ten minutes away from them.

My father got Alzheimer's disease after being stimulated in his 50s. A person does not blame himself for getting sick, sometimes it is forced by his family.

My father was a very good person when he was young. He knew how to be grateful, and he was also a man who was dedicated to his work and family. In addition to keeping some living expenses for himself, almost all of the salary he found was given to his mother, because she was doing farm work alone in the countryside. , because my mother has to support three children, many couples have experienced separation in two places, and they have to live apart for the sake of their family.

Speaking of my mother, many people admire her, both before and now.

My mother is a very capable strong woman. She always does things well. She is also a very calculating woman and the woman who runs the house. It is precisely because of the admiration of many people and her strong personality that my mother has such a violent personality and is particularly noisy.

Whenever I go to my mother's house, I rarely hear her not making noise when she is free. I almost always hear her scolding her dad, but her voice is very loud, and she never stops talking about dad.

Ever since I was sensible, my mother would always talk about it whether my dad was at home or not. It seemed that she felt particularly comfortable after talking about it. She had never felt the mood of others.

Sometimes I feel really pitiful when I see my father. He hasn’t said a word to my mother for so many years. As children, we feel really sad when we see our father being scolded by our mother. What can

do now? Dad ignored him, and he was seriously ill, so he couldn't help at all. Mom would inevitably feel uncomfortable when doing things alone, and she had no choice but to vent her anger on Dad.

My father has been sick for decades and my mother has been quarreling for decades. The more she quarrels, the stupider she becomes, and the more she quarrels, the more stupid she becomes.

No matter how noisy my mother is, her heart is still really good. That's the kind of person who, after things are done and people are offended, doesn't care what other people's hearts are like. When my father first suffered from dementia , my mother wouldn't let him do anything. She even said he couldn't even sweep the floor, and he would be scolded by her. Whenever I have free time, I go to my dad's house. I ask him to sweep the floor and let him use his brain and hands, so that his condition will not increase. Whenever I hear my mother scolding or chanting, I tell my mother, let me do something and move, and the dementia will be alleviated. How can

be alleviated? There is a noisy person at home, and my father cannot say anything. In fact, sometimes my father is really pitiful and dare not say anything. Dad used to really want to talk to mom, but she kept pushing him down again and again, and he became a person who couldn't say anything. In other words, he didn't use his brain for a long time and no longer used his brain.

My father's dementia is getting worse and worse. He now calls his grandson his own son. He is 82 years old and only remembers he was 68 years old. Now he doesn't even know how to use the toilet and urinates all day long. .

Actually, I really want to say to my mother, who is to blame? Isn’t it because you are so noisy that your father dare not say what is in his heart? It is so noisy that he is afraid of my mother.

Seeing that my father is getting older and his illness is getting more and more serious, we as children can do nothing to help except accompany him.

In the life of a couple, there is really no need for one person to be too dominant. It is better to listen to each other's opinions more, so that the family can be happy.

The family of origin I have experienced is that mom and dad can't discuss it. After all, mom is stronger and everything dad says is wrong. If he doesn't accept or take action, he will still be scolded. It's really tiring for such a couple to live together.

I have always thought that my father’s marriage is not happy and he cannot be the head of the family or the master. Now he is suffering from a disease that he doesn’t even recognize himself.

Husbands and wives still need to be tolerant of each other, and neither party should be too dominant. A home belongs to two people, and only a normal couple can discuss matters.