Aunt's children are coming to Tianjin from Henan to study high school, and there are no fewer than 20 trips to go through various formalities in the early stage. Every time I come, I treat you warmly and try my best to help. The three of them who came to apply for the entrance exam this time also lived in my house for more than a week. When the school is confirmed, school will officially start tomorrow. The eldest sister suddenly told me that she would go back to her hometown tomorrow (the husband was not at home that day, and later my husband said that his sister did not mention to him that the child would live with my parents), Saying that there are a lot of things waiting for her to deal with at home, I said how is the child's accommodation arranged? She quite rightly said that she would live in my house if she had a child. Her words at the time really subverted my three views. I currently have two children to take care of. There are no elderly people here to help. Both my husband and I take care of them, and both of us need to work to support our family. Both children are very busy. They usually pick up the children, buy groceries and cook to do sanitation, and do a lot of work at home. The children are all busy on holiday on the 6th. If their children live in my house for a long time, I have to cook, wash clothes, take the bus to school in good weather, and have to pick them up if it is cloudy or rainy. How can we come here in a hurry. What's more important is that if something goes wrong with the child, there is no way to explain it to them! How could she be so embarrassed to say such a thing so easily! And I didn't discuss it with us in advance, solicit our opinions, after all, this is our own home! You don’t think of people as people. At that time, I refused. I said that the child can transition here for a while, but it is definitely not possible to live for a long time. You have to find a way. Our home is some distance from the school, we need to take a bus, and after getting off the bus, we have to walk more than 800 meters to get to the school. We are very worried about the safety of our children. I also suggested to her that it would be more convenient to rent a house next to the school. I also told her our actual situation and concerns. She was very unhappy at the time, but said nothing. The eldest sister did leave the next day, but she obviously left with my anger. She also said that she wanted to rent a house near the school and find the grandparents of the children to accompany her. Now the child has been living in my house for a month, eating and drinking Lazard every day, waiting for him. I am afraid that the child will be unhappy. I think the grievances between the adults can't hurt the child. If the child lives in my house for a day, I have to be well. Serve for a day. But during this period, my eldest sister and I didn't even send a polite message, but I heard that the house has been searched, and I may come over in two days. I really don't know what kind of attitude should I treat them when I come? Am I a wicked person?
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