One day in 1993, just before noon, my good friend Zhao Ling invited me to her house for dinner. I saw her neighbor's 50-year-old male teacher rolling noodles in the family yard behind the school. His movements were as skillful as a noodle teacher. I was curious to find out. My friend told me: his wife, Teacher Liu, loves hand-made noodles, Zhao The teacher practiced every day, every day, and finally became an expert at making noodles. After listening, we praised it.
Listening to Zhao Ling’s introduction: “They are the most loving and sweet model couples in our school. They are very sweet and happy, and they always use the last word of each other’s names to nickname each other.” So, Zhao Ling said What I heard about them gave me a whole lot of stories.
Classmate
Teacher Liu and Teacher Zhao are high school classmates, her seat is right in front of him, her cheerful and beautiful is deeply attracted by him, and his handsome and smart makes her love , The mutual admiration of the two is printed on each other's heart.
Love in a foreign country
When they graduated from high school, the students born in their 40s did not have the college entrance examination and could not go to university. The students had to pack their bags and leave the school to find a way out.
Teacher Liu is no exception. When he immediately packed his bags and got ready to go home, he was seen by Teacher Zhao. He ignored the troubles of traditional thinking at that time, and immediately plucked up the courage to ran to her and said embarrassedly: "So far How do you bring such a heavy object home? I will take it to you!" She reached out and took her luggage, unable to restrain her excitement, she didn't evade it.
A few months after graduation, she returned to her hometown A to teach, and he taught in his hometown B, which was about ten kilometers away. Distance makes love have wings. A day is not seen like three autumns, and love lingers in his heart. After a month, he sits and sleeps restlessly, regardless of the distance, walks for more than two hours, and arrives at A. Looking for her, waiting for her far away at the entrance of her home, wanting to see her smile again and explore the situation. Seeing her, the two couldn't help themselves. She told him an unoptimistic message: "Parents know through inquiring that your family has many brothers and sisters, they are very poor, and they are still far away, and they don't agree with us." She doesn't dislike it. They pledged their loyalty to each other.
Regardless of their parents' objections, the two met secretly and complained to each other a few days apart.
became a couple
reached the legal marriage age, and he proposed to marry her, she had to bite the bullet and go home to convince her parents. In the end, the parents had no choice but to accept the marriage and simply organized the wedding.
Never leave
After marriage, she was transferred to his school to continue teaching. Naturally, the three children were born one after another in 7 years. The originally not well-off family was even more vulnerable. They all said: "Poor couples are sad." But the couple never blamed or complained to each other. He knew she was very professional, so For the family, he was willing to give more and more dedication, and naturally took over the housework of cooking and looking after the children, and always hung up on the food and clothing of the four of his mothers first. He would rather endure starvation, suffering and suffering.
He wanted to make his family life better. During summer and winter vacations, he secretly found through relatives the hard work of taking care of the goods on the train that pulled the goods with her back on his back. On the train, there was no place to sleep, so he sat at night. I took a nap in the carriage and fed up my hunger with a few pieces of dry food. It would take as little as a day or two, or as long as four or five days, to earn a little more money to support the family. It made her feel both distressed and happy. The bitterness is sweet, the heart is warm, and the difficulties and blessings have become the basis of their happiness. Let her have the faith that she will never leave him all her life, and her lips and teeth will depend on each other.
They encountered difficulties temporarily. They don't blame themselves, don't blame others, don't give up their confidence, don't evade responsibility, but overcome difficulties together!
are accompanied by each other
After a few years, both of them were transferred from private teachers to public schools, and their salaries gradually increased. Because of her outstanding teaching performance, the principal of the county elementary school will select her, transfer her and her husband into this school together, and settle in a place of residence.
Later, the two daughters got married and started a business. Only the son was going to school. The conditions at the family were getting better and better. Then they built their own new house in the county seat, and the family has had a prosperous life ever since. She devotes more energy to education. He teaches small subjects. Compared to more relaxed, he takes the brunt of eating and drinking at home, taking care of her and his son more carefully. What to do with each meal, always ask her what she likes to eat, and then make meticulously. Not to mention walking with your child, taking your child to see a doctor,He is often alone.
If things go on like this, he silently supports her work behind her and is a strong backing for her family, while she devotes herself to the cause she loves with full enthusiasm. At home, she relies on him very much and allows her to be free.
After they retired, Mr. Zhao still cooked three meals a day for the whole family. Teacher Liu is not in good health and has high blood pressure. She likes to go out and dance. He will send her to where she wants to dance, carry her bags, carry water, and set up dancing speakers. When walking, she always slung his arm, walked and talked, talked and laughed, why isn't she quiet and happy?
Now, they are over 80 years old. Once he was hospitalized with a stroke. She was very worried. She was guarding in the hospital. She asked the doctor about his condition for a while, then leaned on his face and asked him softly: "How do you feel?" She was restless, sleeping and eating. After a few days, her heart was uncomfortable, her blood pressure rose again, and she had to be hospitalized. When he slowly recovered, she was relieved and her blood pressure returned to normal. After the two recovered and were discharged from the hospital, as always, they helped each other.
The so-called sweet marriage is just the result of a couple's appreciation of each other, mutual care, mutual understanding, mutual dedication, mutual accommodation and habit.
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