Xiaohan
text/Dream Chasing Chanting/Beauty in the Heart (Chen Hong)
Xiaohan is the 23rd solar term among the twenty-four solar terms and the fifth solar term in winter. At this time, the bucket finger is in the Gui position and the sun reaches yellow longitude 285 degrees.
Xiaohan means that the weather is cold but not extremely cold, hence the name Xiaohan. During the minor cold season, cold air frequently moves southward, and the temperature continues to drop. Sometimes the coldness is close to the major cold.
Xiaohan seasons: In the first period of Yanbei Township, the wild geese migrate according to the yin and yang. At this time, the yang energy has moved, and the geese begin to migrate north; in the second period, the magpies start their nests. At this time, you can see magpies , sensing the yang energy and starting to build their nests; in the third period, the pheasants begin to sing (qú), sensing the growth of yang energy and chirping.
Thousands of miles of ice and snow cover the road, blocking the port with thousands of ports.
I cut peaches and pruned some trees yesterday, and suddenly plum blossoms bloomed overnight.
Mr. Zuo Heshui used only four short sentences and 28 words to vividly depict the scene in the north during the Xiaohan solar term, when the earth is covered with snow and ice. In the early morning, what catches people's eyes is the ice and snow on the tops of peach branches, as if the plum trees are blooming, thus expressing the climate, weather and farming conditions of Xiaohan solar term.
Thirty years ago during the Xiaohan season, my son was born. The arrival of our son has given our whole family a reassurance that we no longer have to fearfully avoid family planning . Because the rural areas at that time were bound by traditional concepts. If a family did not have a son, that family would be looked down upon and would lose the source of motivation to strive for progress. The birth of our son has given us the motivation to work hard, the courage to start a business, and the hope of achieving a better future.
The son is an auspicious omen for the family. He brings good luck and good luck to the family. In the second year after his birth, the family had a bumper harvest of grain and oil, and the family income also improved significantly. When our son turned one year old, we demolished the dilapidated old house that had been occupied by three generations of our family and built a large tile-roofed house with three exposed and dark roofs. This turned the dream that generations of people had wanted to build but failed to realize into a reality.
My son has been smart, well-behaved and obedient since he was a child. My chubby son is very curious about everything around him. Every time I go home to visit relatives, my son keeps asking me: Where does the water in the river come from? Why are the trees on the mountain green? Why does the moon sometimes look like a disk and sometimes like a sickle? Why does the sun always rise in the east? I am often asked by my three-year-old son that I am speechless and speechless. I can only say: Son, study hard and the book will tell you all the answers.
My son has lived up to our expectations. He has been an outstanding student from elementary school to university. The walls of his hometown are covered with his various certificates.
Later, my son was admitted to the university of his choice, found the girl he liked, and formed a happy family. After the granddaughter was born, my wife retired early and came to the provincial capital to take care of her grandson, shouldering the responsibility of being a full-time grandma. I stayed at my hometown and continued to work. From then on, my family and I lived in separate places, spending less time together and more time apart.
The son is shy by nature and not good at talking. Since he got married and started a business, our father and son communicate less and less. I can only know about my son's current situation from my wife's mouth. He almost never calls when he has nothing to do. Sometimes when I send messages, he only replies: Yes, okay.
At the beginning of this month, I was admitted to the Provincial People's Hospital due to illness. After my daughter settled me in, she hurried home to take care of the child. My son Zezi stayed at the hospital and stayed with me 24 hours a day, buying meals, bringing water, getting medicine, asking for consultations, etc. He was meticulous and caring.
In the past two days, our whole family was infected with COVID-19.My wife is the worst, falling asleep in bed and unable to get up. My son has to take care of our children and his wife, as well as our old couple. My son has to get up several times every night to deliver medicine, bring water, and take our temperatures.
My son can not only buy groceries, but he can also cook. The meals he cooks are delicious and delicious, especially the meat stewed with vermicelli, which is unique and has endless aftertaste.
Although he pretended to be nonchalant on the surface, we actually knew in our hearts that he had already had Yang, even worse than us. He just didn't want us to worry, so he worked hard to take care of us and his wife and children.
In the past, I always thought that my son would never grow up. I often complained that my son did not understand what my parents were thinking. Sometimes I even thought that my son did not understand the ways of the world. While I was recuperating at my son's home for more than a month, I carefully observed his every move and gradually realized his good intentions. It turned out that I had wrongly blamed my son.
Although his son is not good at words, he is cautious in doing things and takes the overall situation into consideration; he treats his parents meticulously, sincerely and filially; he treats his lover sincerely and caringly; she treats her children with affection and reason; he treats his friends with dedication and sincerity.
He always leaves his best side to others and devotes his best mood to his family. He never loses his temper and never complains about others without reason. He is rational, sincere, wise and serious in his work. The son never scolds or physically punishes his children without reason. He not only washes and cooks for his daughter, but also bathes and combs her hair.
In short, my son not only inherited my pitiful few advantages, but also his own principles of life and dealing with things. The most important thing is that he turned all my shortcomings and shortcomings into his own advantages and strengths, especially in dealing with others, doing things for others, honoring parents, caring for family members, and caring for children. He is ten times or even a hundred times better than me.
He tolerated the shortcomings and ignorance of his parents with filial piety, he cared for his wife with sincerity and consideration, he nurtured his children with love, and he supported his work and career with perseverance and perseverance. It's because I'm old-sighted and have overlooked my son's strengths; it's me who's stubborn and has underestimated my son's genius. It’s not that my son hasn’t grown up, and it’s not that he doesn’t understand the hearts of his parents, but that I am too old and confused. I haven’t realized my son’s maturity and steadiness, my son’s intelligence and concentration, my son’s filial piety and kindness...
In daily life, we tend to only focus on our own thoughts and feelings, but ignore the emotions and thinking of others. I don’t know how to think from other people’s perspective, and I don’t know how to think from the other person’s perspective. This is my fatal weakness in this life.
’s son interprets responsibility and responsibility with every detail of life, demonstrates maturity and stability with practical actions, highlights the generosity and wisdom of a man with kindness and tolerance, and fulfills his original intention and dream with ordinary and simple practice.
Mao Sai suddenly wakes up, you have deep roots and hundreds of flowers are blooming;
Don’t waste your time to work hard and write a new chapter on the road of entrepreneurship.
Author: Zhuimeng.2022.12.30
About the author: Zhuimeng, formerly known as Ruan Zhongping, is an ordinary old mine employee who has been working in the mine for more than 30 years. He loves reading, likes poetry, has a cheerful personality, and is close to nature.
Anchor introduction: Chen Hong, a reading enthusiast, is intoxicated by the words in poems and uses his voice to convey sincere emotions and love.
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