Recently, knows almost ’s last article titled "Non-existent classmates (Pan Bowen incident)" was widely disseminated. In the article, the respondent entered with a classmate and Pan Bowen The abandoned dormitory building picked up badminton, but Pan Bowen never came out. What is even more bizarre is that, except for the respondent and the fellow student, everyone does not remember Pan Bowen , and his name is not even on the student list.
Is there a bug in the world we live in? Or is there parallel space-time on our planet? "Where did Pan Bowen go?"
Parallel space-time is currently just a hypothesis
Parallel space-time and multiverse have always been hypotheses in the scientific community, these two actually refer to the same concept, but they also refer to the same concept. There is a difference between them.
Stephen Hawking proposed a multiverse in sports in "Universe in a Nutshell" (2001), and declared that there is a parallel universe, where the Olympic gold medals are all taken by Belize, a small country in Central America. To Hawking, the universe is like a "space casino". Rolling dice will lead to many different forks, and we can only see one of them; however, all roads are real.
The multiple theory also challenges our most cherished belief.That is uniqueness. Cosmologist Alexander Vilenkin believes that our world will be copied, even in the smallest details. Since this process can continue to infinity, there will eventually be countless copies of us, not just this one.
Some scientists even believe that different laws of physics govern other universes. As long as 's laws of physics are slightly different, then life will not be born in this universe. Therefore, in the multiverse, some universes are lifeless, such as different gravitational constants, and atoms will not exist stably.
However, whether it is parallel space-time or multiverse, it is a hypothesis in physics, which has not been confirmed yet.
In fact, there has never been a "Pan Bowen" in our world, nor a parallel world. "Pan Bowen" only exists in the mind of the respondent. He also explained that "Pan Bowen" is his "fantasy partner" created by to relieve loneliness , also known as Tulpa.
What exactly is Tulpa?
On psychology , the "imaginary companion" (Imaginary Companion) is is named by , is a role that can be mentioned in daily conversations or can be directly communicatedBut this partner does not exist to outsiders. The population with this situation is mainly children aged 3-11. Imaginary partners can even be said to be a common phenomenon in children’s lives. Researchers have found that children with imaginary partners account for about 52% to 65%. A study published in the International Journal of Psychology also showed that about 40% of Chinese children aged 5-6 have "imaginary partners" .
1926 In the year, the developmental psychologist Piaget began to pay attention to the phenomenon of imaginary partners. In 1934, Svendson published a real study on 's imaginary partner, and gave an operational definition of "imaginary partner": a certain "invisible person" mentioned by a child when talking with others. And think that he has played with him for a period of time, this person is real to children, children even named this person, but in fact this person does not exist. According to this definition, imaginary partners refer to imaginary characters who are not seen by others other than children, but children often play with them in games. It seems that has an independent personality.
Today, the definition of imaginary partners has been expanded to include two other types: one is anthropomorphic objects based on real , such as dolls, puppets, etc. The other is the role-playing partner. In the activities of being a partner with the character, the children showed different modes of speaking, behavior and interaction, and even treated themselves as a different character.
In Pan Bowen’s story,The respondent said that he experienced interpersonal exclusion during junior high school and was very lonely inside, so Pan Bowen appeared in the spiritual world of the respondent. But we have to point out that having an imaginary partner does not mean that it is related to psychological trauma. Some parents even rudely believe that such a child is not normal , is sick and has mental illness. this is not right.
Many times, the imaginary partners are children 's desire for interpersonal relationships. Some studies have found that children with imaginary partners have a better understanding of the interlocutor’s information needs when communicating with others, and believe that imaginary games play an important role in the development of children’s communication skills. However, some studies have found that although there is no difference in vocabulary skills between children with and without imaginary partners, children with imaginary partners show richer narrative techniques when narrating stories and personal experiences in storybooks.
Like this respondent, when he narrated "Pan Bowen", he even made readers feel that this is a real character, which makes people's back cool. The article has detailed details Rich, creepy, and even make doubt the world, suspect that the world has a bug, eliminate a living person from the world, or exist parallel time and space, "Pan Bowen" has passed through.
How to treat your child's "imaginary partners"
When your child introduces his "imaginary partners" to you, don't think they are abnormal , they are pathological and mentally ill.
This is a normal phenomenon for children. Some scientists even think that "imaginary partners" are a phenomenon in the process of children's thinking and cognitive development. He also believes that the play of the imaginary partner is an important way for children to obtain external images, knowledge and information.
Parents can use imaginary partners to guide their children to resolve negative emotions and overcome difficulties in life. , if you find that this "imaginary partner" has brought adverse effects, such as an excuse for 's bad behavior, or if this phenomenon is related to the child's traumatic events, you must promptly intervene and guide.
What does the "Pan Bowen" incident show?
In fact, everyone has a "Pan Bowen" in their hearts, just like the respondent. He always feels that he has failed and is unable to be immersed in the illusory world. Self-extrication has caused me to be afraid of social interaction until now, and the appearance of "Pan Bowen" has become a light for the respondent. Where did he go to play with him, and use the game to solve the troubles. In "Pan Bowen", Answer The Lord got social satisfaction and regained expectations for life.
We will also encounter many setbacks. We also have a "fantasy me" and a "Pan Bowen" in our minds. This is our imaginary version of real characters, on the "Pan Bowen". , We can relieve ourselves of bad feelings of grievance, fear, anxiety, loneliness or helplessness. Sometimes these help is not available to us from other ways.
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