We have all heard the saying "be kind to others and be kind to yourself", but as the saying goes, "a favor comes with a reward, and a fight with hatred", kindness must have a bottom line, because the human heart is like a bottomless ocean that will never be satisfied. "The Tao Te

Everyone has heard the saying "Be kind to others and be kind to oneself", but as the saying goes, "a favor rises, a favor fights with hatred." Kindness must have a bottom line, because the human heart is like a bottomless ocean that will never be satisfied. "The Tao Te Ching" says: "The way of heaven is like a bow and a bow. Those who are high suppress it, those who are low lift it. Those who have more will damage it, and those who have less will make up for it." The best state is to be relaxed and moderate in everything, otherwise only yourself will be injured in the end. This is like the relationship between yin and yang in our body. If the boundary between yin and yang is not properly grasped, the consequences will be that yang damages yin, or yin damages yang. In short, in the end, both sides will lose, and diseases will occur, which is not worth the gain.

There was a patient before who suffered from functional impairment due to damage to yang and yin. The patient was 42 years old and a teacher. His experience well illustrates that one cannot be kind and excessive. According to the teacher's self-report, he believed in the theory of cause and effect in the early days and often talked about doing one good deed every day. He said that he was not a hypocrite and would put this matter into action. But because of his kindness, he lost his original job. Two years ago, he was a high school teacher in a school. The school had ordinary classes and top students' classes. He taught the ordinary class. At that time, he gave some students free tutoring. Later, some students were admitted to the top students' class. Their parents told the top students' class teacher about this. The patient was reported to have paid for tutoring. Although it was later verified that he was innocent, he was deeply shocked.

The patient said that the student's family conditions were not very good, and he helped a lot in private, but he did not expect that he would end up like this. Later, the patient resigned and became a teacher in a private school. Because of his job change, the relationship between the patient's wife and him was not as good as before. They always quarreled. A year ago, the patient discovered that he had impotence and premature ejaculation. He told his wife openly. He thought that although they had many conflicts, but for more than ten years, except for work, he was always obedient to his wife. What he didn't expect was that his wife thought he had contracted the disease outside, and the two divorced six months later.

all say that good people are rewarded. The great changes that have taken place in his life in the past two years have made him feel that kindness is useless. I advise patients not to think this way. There is nothing wrong with being kind. The patient's kindness is just like the patient's body, but they just don't have a good balance. Then I learned that in addition to impotence and premature ejaculation, the patient also suffered from frequent urination, backache, and cold hands and feet. The patient said that he had experienced the symptoms on the Internet and felt that it was caused by yang deficiency and . After taking a lot of yang-tonifying medicines, he found that his body was getting weaker and weaker.

I showed the patient tongue pattern and checked the pulse. I found that the patient had a red tongue, thin coating, and thready pulse. Based on his personal situation, this was a typical series of symptoms caused by deficiency of yin and yang . Therefore, I gave the patient a prescription to replenish yin and yang. The prescription included: turtle plate. , antler powder, cornus meat, wolfberry, wolfberry, actinolite, Cynomorium , Acorus , lotus seeds, Pseudostellariae , Cuscuta , cuttlefish bone , mulberry octopus, etc. can be added or subtracted according to the card. The patient took this prescription for two courses of treatment, and his condition of impotence was greatly improved. After one course of treatment, all symptoms disappeared.

There is nothing wrong with being kind, but you just have to be rational. As the saying goes, "Heaven has no relatives and always associates with kind people." God will not treat kind people badly, but life is short and we meet countless people. We must leave our kindness to the same kind people, so as not to get wet when holding an umbrella for others.

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