Some recent celebrity prostitution incidents have caused a stir online.
Many people don’t understand, is it necessary to have that according to their own conditions? Some people also wonder, if single men want to solve their physiological needs, can they really only find a partner? If the objective situation does not allow you to do this for the time being, such as if you cannot meet the right person and you are in an environment with very few opposite sex, then will this physiological need be suppressed? In your heart?
Sex is such a thing. Therefore, "suppressing sexual desire" is a control to a certain extent. Of course, not everyone can control it.
This raises the question: Does it really make it difficult for men to control their sexual desire? Men and women express sexual desire differently.
Psychologist Roy Baumeister found in a study comparing sexual arousals in men and women that men spontaneously have more sexual arousals and more frequent and diverse fantasies. A large-scale intercultural internet survey was conducted in the UK, which included self-reported sexual impulses and social sex. The results show that in all cultures, men have higher sexual arousal and unrestricted sexual attitudes than women, while women's sexual desire is always more variable than men.
Women's desires are "more situational, subjective and hierarchical. Women want to speak first, contact first, and then do ai. Men don't need that much imagination, because "sex" is simpler and more direct for them.
As long as there is a beautiful girl who acts a little sexy, it will inspire men's sexual desire.
That is, women's bodies are only ready to arouse their true desires when they start doing and enjoying sex. Before starting, men's bodies are ready for their desires.
These studies are based on birth Physical. The blood levels of testosterone in men are seven to eight times higher than those in women on average. Testosterone is related to sexual desire in men and women. Studies have shown that women taking high doses of testosterone report improved sexual activity, sexual arousal and desire.
Because of this, women's brains are connected in a way that limits sexual desire. As women age, their physiological instinct is to seize the last child, so the older women are, the higher their sexual desire.
In a related study found abroad, psychologists ask hundreds of people to be aged 18 to 52 People between the ages create a comprehensive list of why people have sex.
survey results show that men and women have different desires for sex. On some sexual motivations, there are more women than men, such as “I want to express my love to that person” Under this desire, sex naturally occurs.
These findings are consistent with previous studies that show that women are more likely to have sex in a persistent commitment relationship than men, and that the feeling or expression of love provides a signal of commitment.
For example, men prefer things related to pure physical pleasure than women, such as wanting to climax because it feels good. However, it is worth noting that more and more studies have shown that both men and women sometimes desire intimate and emotional connections through sexual activities.
Because If you just want to get pleasure, you can actually solve your physical needs at home, why do you still have to go out to find someone to solve it?
The pleasure you get from this kind of sex is not only because of the sex itself, but also because of the combined effect of a series of factors in the social interaction process such as the release of emotional value.
However, when your sexual desire needs to establish social connections with others and obtain physical and mental satisfaction, it is difficult to solve it by one person whether it is a one-night stand, looking for a mistress or out of that. In fact, when having sex with a partner, it releases certain brain chemicals instead of having sex alone, which makes people addicted.
Ultimately, what is really pleasant is that it transcends the loneliness of the brain and establishes physical and mental connection with another person. To get this social connection, you only need to spend a certain amount of money and get great results without having to invest emotions. You don't have to worry about too many things like dating and marriage, just stay in touch with the same person.This need can be controlled by improving personal moral cultivation, but if you don’t do it, you will naturally become the target of criticism.
This need can be controlled by improving personal moral cultivation, but if you don’t do it, you will naturally become the target of criticism.