Understanding psychology may make us see more, see more thoroughly, and see farther.
【1】The most poignant love in the tombstone
Shen Congwen and Zhang Zhao and are a scenery in the Republic of China!
However, after Zhang Zhaohe died, he wrote two sentences on Shen Congwen's tombstone, "Love you is true, and if you don't forgive me, you are true."
This is what Zhang Zhaohe described his own state of mind after Shen Congwen died. What do you think?
【2】A landscape in the Republic of China
How to view the marriage of Shen Congwen and Zhang Zhaohe?
The love between Shen Congwen and Zhang Zhaohe was praised as a good story in the Republic of China, and there are two meanings here. First, Shen Congwen, as a poor boy, was in class at Peking University . He met Zhang Zhaohe and fell in love with this student. When he was pursuing it hard, he turned to Hu Shi . As the president of Peking University at that time, Hu Shi helped Shen Congwen with help. This is where a phoenix man, a poor boy married Zhang Zhaohe, a rich girl from Suzhou, at that time. This incident has been rumored to be a good story.
【3】How come you cheated on
This couple is very loving and happy! Many people are optimistic, but later, Shen Congwen cheated on him. It is said that he cheated on his sister-in-law.
It didn't matter if he cheated, so Zhang Zhaohe became cold to him and separated for a while. There was no divorce later. But later on, because of this, the relationship became weak. Shen Congwen later stopped writing novels and went from Peking University to , the Chinese History Museum, , to study textual studies. It seems that I was hospitalized for a while, saying that I was mentally ill.
Later, Shen Congwen always wanted to restore his relationship with Zhang Zhaohe, so he had no choice but to do it, and in the end Shen Congwen died.
【4】Strange inscription
Shen Congwen is dead. What’s strange is this passage on the tombstone. It’s true that I love you, and it’s true that I don’t forgive you. These two sentences were written by Zhang Zhaohe. How do you view these two sentences in
?
Although it was said by Zhang Zhaohe, I think Zhang Zhaohe’s own description of himself may not be accurate. What she expressed was her mood. But behind the mood, the logic of inner thinking is not what she said to outsiders.
First of all, their marriage was initially wishful thinking from Shen Congwen, and finally he was slowly accepted by Zhang Zhaohe and the Zhang family. I think this should be precisely because Zhang Zhaohe and the Zhang family accepted that Shen Congwen was true. Did Zhang Zhaohe really love Shen Congwen? From a psychology perspective, I don’t know.
Because during the interaction between Zhang Zhaohe and Shen Congwen, Shen Congwen always seemed to take the initiative. This kind of initiative becomes a kind of repression, which may be one of the reasons for later cheating.
Second, Zhang Zhaohe said that he would not forgive you is true. I think it is more appropriate to not forgive you if you don’t forgive me. I just don’t accept it. This is true.
Originally you were willing to ask me to pursue me, and I accept you. Now that you are against me and cheating, I certainly can't accept you anymore. The more you think after
is that you don’t accept Shen Congwen. Shen Congwen's countless apology could not be exchanged for Zhang Zhaohe.
【5】Ending
But what is strange is that after Shen Congwen's death, Zhang Zhaohe began to do something, sort out Shen Congwen's collection of essays, and then recalled the articles he wrote.
I think this is a complicated relationship between two people. The final conclusion I wanted to draw was that it was accepted in the early stage and that it was not accepted in the later stage. In the end, it is inseparable. Their real relationship is from body to spirit.
I think a rich girl like Zhang Zhaohe has never understood what her own is. Such a rich girl may not be able to understand what she really wants.
It is a fact that many beautiful rich girls are pursued, but it may be difficult to know what they want in their lifetime. This may be a tragedy caused by wealth, beauty and high family status.
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