Some time ago, I watched the TV series " is good " and saw that Su Mingyu's father got amnesia and got lost accidentally, but I only remember one thing in my heart - the exercise book that Su Mingyu needed to buy when he was in middle school. It was a hurdle that he could never overcome in his heart, no matter how long it took.
When Su Mingyu found him, he remembered nothing, but he just held Su Mingyu's exercise book when he was in school. When Su Mingyu wanted to figure out what was in his father's arms, he accidentally tore the exercise book while pulling. Su Mingyu's father was so angry that he jumped up. While picking the exercise book with heartache, he shouted that Su Mingyu would compensate for the exercise book. Then, in the process of picking the exercise book one by one, he said the reasons and answers that had been hidden in his heart for many years.
When Su Mingyu was in middle school, her mother did not give her money to buy exercise books, and her classmates did not lend them to her. Her decent look at her and anxiously felt it, but the money was all on her mother, and her father had no choice but to save money by himself. Thinking that if he had saved enough 30 yuan, he would have to buy exercise books for Su Mingyu, but in the end he didn't save enough money. Later, Su Mingyu had a conflict with her family during college and left home to go out to work and school. This matter was gradually forgotten without realizing it.
But Su Mingyu's father did not forget it and kept it in his heart, so he didn't want to live with Su Mingyu. It was not the family conflict in the past, but the insurmountable hurdle in his heart that kept reminding him, making him feel a deep sense of guilt and self-blame about this matter, so he did not face the cowardice and failure he had lived again.
Perfect
Everyone has its own personality characteristics, and these characteristics are that due to some failure in the process of growth, they constantly prove it again and again and again to make it perfect for something in their hearts. This emotional crux is like a giant pushing a stone, repeating it every day, but it has never been perfect. This pursuit of perfection for something or something is a person's personality and characteristics.
A person will have various failures in life, and a failure that pours a lot of emotions often forms a part of his personality. This part is unforgettable. It will constantly demand itself to strive for perfection in its heart, forming a hysterical obsessive-compulsive disorder , constantly verifying and constantly proving the perfect self of the scene at that time.
But the incident has long passed, and the emotions left by the incident have always remained in the hearts of the person involved, and have always existed and never left. Just like yesterday, it reminds the embarrassment and failure at that time; people's success comes from this, and failure comes from this, all of which are caused by the inner complex, and they are constantly fully reproduced the scenes and feelings at that time.
Psychiatric and Nervous
A long time ago, I read the book "Psychoanalysis Outline" by Freud , and I saw the causes of neuropathy and psychosis in it, and I also saw the development process of everyone's personality. In fact, each of us has different degrees of neuroticism, but it has not developed to the point where we cannot take care of ourselves. It is just a slight deficiency affecting the frequent occurrence of life, which reduces anxiety and relieves pain in life and work.
The manifestation of neuroticism is not a bad thing, as long as it does not affect life and work. Those who are overly neurotic are either geniuses or madmen. There is only a line between geniuses and madmen. These people usually have extremely longing and chasing things in their hearts. Apart from that, everything is not important, and it is a state that transcends the secular life.
Summary
So, we must learn to face neurosis and mental illness positively. It is a spiritual transcendence that accompany people. It can make a person surpass it and will also make a person feel comfortable to satisfy all the little happiness in life.
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