To be honest, this kind of psychological counseling is useless at all and cannot solve the problem
Just listened for a while, a 985 child was studying for a graduate student and felt anxious. The classmates around him were also anxious
talked for a long time, and in the end, he just told the child that anxiety is because of comparison. You need to compare appropriately and not to ask yourself too high standards
can only say: nonsense
talk about this matter. Why is he anxious like such an excellent child who can get 985? This requires exploring its essential problem
solves it from the core problem level, which is a real relief for children. Of course, every child is different. For example, the anxiety of the students around them may be different from him
He may be because he has been excellent since childhood and has been recognized by others, so he does not allow himself to fall behind or appear worse.
may also be because the parents at home have high requirements for him and what must be done.
may also be because I have experienced some things since childhood, so that I have a belief that I must make a name for myself...
, etc.
In fact, these have not arrived yet. Every time this consultation reaches this level, it is equivalent to not starting
. There must be a reason behind this, which leads to this anxiety manifestation
. As for further deepening, it may be a thing, or a sentence, or a person's education for him. Everyone has different experiences and individual differences. The answer to "comparison" is too broad and cannot solve the problem at all.
. To talk deeper, it may be a matter, or a person's education. Children may also think that if they don’t study for graduate school well, they may not be able to find a good job, and they will not be able to eat if they can’t find a good job. They will be afraid of starving to death. They may be afraid of being confused about the future. They may help consultants find the core problem level that helps consultants find the direction of solving the problem. Why do many people say that psychological counseling is not useful? It can be seen that the consultant’s energy and cognition are too low.
are not enough to solve other people’s problems, and to cover others’ negative energy
go further. Maybe this consultant has many problems that have not been solved because the cognition is too low.
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-