I stayed in Foshan for 8 days. After the code maintenance was over, I saw that there was no Zhengzhou on the itinerary, and I came to Shenzhen to work hard to get some things.
Shenzhen epidemic prevention is also very accurate. After getting off from Shenzhen Nanping Station, the radio kept reminding passengers from Zhengzhou to report on their own initiative when they left the station.
is so embarrassing, but fortunately, my itinerary code does not bring Zhengzhou.
Hasn’t Guangzhou and Chongqing Shijiazhuang been very high recently? Why is Zhengzhou the only country treated so specially? Or is there any rumor I don't know? After a simple nucleic acid, I can leave the station directly.
A brother A from Zhengzhou who came to start a business came to the station to pick me up. He has been in Shenzhen for more than four years. He talked about his family on the way. He said that your sister-in-law and the girl were here, and he asked them to have dinner together in the evening.
I said yes, and he explained again that my girl is a little severely depressed and may not like to talk. She recently took a leave of absence from school and came here to have fun.
is so familiar. I suddenly remembered that a friend of Zhengzhou, a child from the B family, also suffered from this depression .
A Then he told me that the child is fifteen years old. He is in junior high school and becomes very strange after suffering from depression. He likes to keep himself in the quilt and becomes very lazy. If I hadn't called her downstairs to do nucleic acid every day, how many days would she stay in her room and not come out. She likes to watch anime. She used to be quite good at studying. Don't ask her academic performance when she was having dinner. I understand this. My friend B in Zhengzhou has a very similar symptoms to this girl.
I am a little shocked that this depression accounts for such a large proportion of teenagers?
The son of my friend B in Zhengzhou is also in junior high school and is also severely depressed and often thinks about himself. According to friend B, he used to study well. He suffered from this depression because something happened at home this year. The child’s uncle disappeared because of a traffic accident. The child’s mother was hit and she was in a bad mood this year. In addition, the epidemic is not very good.
My friend B was very busy with work and was not at home for several months. He ignored the company and care for his children. Maybe because of these reasons, his child suffered from severe depression.
After learning about it, my friend took the time to accompany him to see psychological treatment. It was more than 800 in an hour, and the treatment was not very effective many times. I had no choice but to take him off and stay at home.
The symptoms of listening to A are exactly the same as those of friend B's son. There are many similar things, they like to be alone, they all like to watch anime, they all think about themselves, they all take a leave of absence this year, and they are all junior high school students in Zhengzhou.
I haven't paid much attention to this aspect of depression before. I always feel that it's far away from me, but suddenly I feel that many of my friends' children are suffering from it.
We didn’t seem to have heard of it when we were young, but now it has suddenly increased so much. Is it just that children nowadays are too fragile?
I don’t think so, this condition seems to have a cause. The epidemic has been going on for three years, and the direct damage caused by the virus has not taken any effect, but the secondary harm caused by the epidemic is increasing.
Recently, I have been constantly seeing from the news that many adults have also suffered from depression and jumped L. Adults are still like this, and teenagers are more susceptible to the environment.
In the past three years of the epidemic, every adult has lived in this depressing environment, being overwhelmed by various living expenses such as mortgages and car loans. He was blocked at home for several months and could not go out without any income. He would definitely become extremely irritable.
The depression of adults at home subtly affects the children's mood. Children are now too sensitive. I guess a large number of children suffer from depression, which is related to family life.
I was also blocked in Zhengzhou for a month. I feel that I am still very good at adjusting my mood. After all, I have experienced it for so many years in business and no matter how difficult it is, I can hold on when I am in seclusion at home. I just read and write at home to exercise to pass the boring time, but I was still extremely depressed and irritable on the 27th and 8th day. I guess I can't hold on if I don't unblock it for another week or two.
I didn’t know much about this condition before, but once I talked to my wife about this topic. I think a good way is to let the child get more exposure to nature and go hiking and exercise.
I also persuaded my friend B to take his children to climb more mountains on weekends. He also said that the children will be in better condition after climbing the mountains.
My wife also discussed the future education issues of her children with me. I think it is not that important to study well. The most important thing is to grow up healthily and happily. I love exercise. I want to wait for my child to grow up a little older and take her to run. roller skating , swimming, and skating long boards. I have to go climbing every weekend. I hope I can do what I say at that time.
My former colleague and a couple brought their children to the beautiful country in the past two years. Seeing that her father took his children to swim, boating and exercise in the wild every day, I envy their lives. The child has traveled so many places in the world at such a young age. He is in contact with nature every day. I think his child will definitely not have depression.
We don’t have that good condition, but I still have a rural hometown. My wife and I are extremely grateful to think that Zhengzhou is a very wise choice to send children to our hometown for several months.
My daughter was sent back to her grandma's house in her hometown under 3 years old. We often feel ashamed that we didn't stay by her side and watched her grow up slowly. However, every day when we see her playing happily in her hometown, we feel that this is actually good, especially now that the epidemic in the city is so serious.
My daughter has been following her grandfather to fish by the river since she was a child, ran wildly on the road in the village, played excitedly in the square, and pulled radish from the vegetable garden. She would catch a few snails to watch them crawl on the ground, making them look like a rural girl.
She also has a social cow. At noon in the village, every family sat on the street with their bowls and was eating while chatting. She would walk up and grab things from the bowls of grandparents. People on the street spoiled her very much. She grew up eating Hundred Family Meals . I was much more promising than my father when I was a child. Every time I think of this, I will show my old father's gratitude smile.
Suddenly I remembered that the Zhongyuan District of Zhengzhou City, where I was, was not unblocked some time ago. The slogan of protest in the group was: pull the sheep away, pull the sheep away!
The people's demands are correct. Only by pulling the positive test away and the community has no new ones can it be unblocked. However, I felt extremely uncomfortable when I heard it at that time. It was probably the kind of teasing positive test as a sheep, and some people even drew pictures of catching sheep on their backs. The title of
is extremely disrespectful to patients and is prone to secondary harm to discrimination. The stigmatized network environment will cause reputational harm to patients, which will also encourage honest declarations during the epidemic investigation process. It is not scary, but the fear of publishing your itinerary and being subject to greater discrimination.
I really hope that everyone must weaken their attitude towards positive behavior in their lives. There are people around me who have already been caught in it, and it is really nothing. It is recommended not to call a positive person a sheep, which is also a secondary harm of discrimination. Some people may think it is nothing, it is quite cute, but it is really not nice and has a sense of humiliation.
I have written earlier mentioned psychological stress and depression. I saw a netizen saying thank you for expressing the voice of depression. Many people don’t care about our depression.
Many people may still think that children are too fragile nowadays? Everyone will be unhappy. Isn’t this too pretentious? No one cared about us when we were young, so we didn’t suffer from this disease, either?
But you have to believe that this is really a disease, it is not someone pretending to be pretentious. You have never encountered such a complex living environment when you were a child, and you have not encountered a letter for a few months when you were a child, right?
When I was having dinner in the evening, I met A's girl. She was only 15 years old and was probably over 1.7 meters tall. She was graceful and graceful. She held a mobile phone to watch anime while eating, but she was very polite to people. After I learned about her experience, I knew how to chat with her.
I also feel that she is quite lively. At this time, she seems to have completely gotten out of depression. Behind her cheerful smile, she would even joke with her dad. If A hadn't told me, I wouldn't have believed that she suffered from severe depression. Maybe the environment could really alleviate this condition.
My friend said that she came to Shenzhen from her hometown in Zhengzhou. A fresh environment made her feel happy every day. She should be able to get out of the shadow of depression soon. She also wishes her to recover as soon as possible and return to school as soon as possible.
Every parent must pay attention to their children's mental health. It is really difficult for a child to get out of this depression by himself. He needs to overcome inferiority, pain, pessimism, and world-weariness.
Depression is not fragility or pretentious, he is just sick.
Sick people do nothing wrong, so don’t feel sorry,
Please help people who are not sick to solve it.