Although we have repaired the damage caused by war at the material level and achieved great achievements, there are still many Western legacies left at the spiritual and cultural level, especially our disagreement or even derogation of our own culture, which is still very serious

When it comes to the "Three Bonds and Five Constant Virtues", many people may have the first idea of feudal dregs, because our traditional culture has been splashed with too much dirty water, so most people will not understand the true meaning of it at all.

Western Capitalism Bombs' aggression against China is on two levels. One is the material level, occupying our land, plundering our wealth and resources, and killing our people; the other level is the aggression of culture and spirit, through brainwashing and cultivating agents to deny, smear, slander and slander Chinese culture, and then beautify and promote Western culture, thus occupying the dove's nest. Although we have repaired the damage caused by war at the material level and achieved great achievements, there are still many Western legacies left at the spiritual and cultural level, especially our disagreement or even derogation of our own culture, which is still very serious. Therefore, the central government has now proposed "cultural confidence", which is to revive the excellent traditional culture of the Chinese nation, reshape the spirit and soul of the Chinese people, realize the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation, lead the world, build a community with a shared future for mankind, and create a harmonious world.

Three Bonds refer to the ruler as the minister, the father as the son, and the husband as the wife; the five constants refer to benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and trustworthiness. The Three Bonds and Five Constant Virtues are important ideas of Confucian culture .

Specific contents of the Three Bonds:

The king is the subject of the minister. If the king is not upright, the minister will join other countries; if the country is the foundation of the people, the country is not upright, the people will attack it.

The father is the leader of the son. If the father is not kind, the son will go to a foreign land. If the son is the father's wish, the son will not be upright, and the relative will be destroyed for justice.

The husband is the leader of the wife. If the husband is not upright, the wife can remarry; if the wife is helping the husband, the wife is not virtuous, the husband will settle it.

Specific contents of the Five Constant Persons:

"Father and son have relatives, monarch and minister have righteousness, couples are different, old and young are orderly, friends have faith,"

Let's take a closer look at the content of the "Three Bonds and Five Constant Persons". Which sentence is the dregs? This is obviously the principle of interpersonal relationships, and when it comes to it, it is a psychology of interpersonal relationships. The reason why it is labeled as "feudal dregs" is purely the result of Western cultural invasion.

Human beings are group, so they are called human society. Since they are groups, there must be rules. The so-called state-owned national laws and family rules. Without rules, no order can be achieved. Every individual living depends on the satisfaction of various "needs" to maintain the survival and growth of life. However, as a group human being, individuals must balance themselves with other individuals to meet their own needs, and it is impossible to do whatever they want, so the so-called "interpersonal relationships" are produced. Let’s take a look at the definition of interpersonal relationships: Interpersonal relationships refer to the interaction between people, such as attraction, rejection, cooperation, competition, leadership, and obedience expressed by each other through thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. In a broad sense, it also includes cultural system models and social relations. It is mainly manifested in people's psychological distance, individual psychological tendencies towards others and corresponding behaviors. Interpersonal relationships reflect the degree of satisfaction of the needs of both parties involved. If both parties can meet each other's needs, they will easily form intimate interpersonal relationships; otherwise, they will easily cause interpersonal rejection.

The Chinese nation is a highly civilized nation. Chinese society is a civilization-type society with a long history. The watershed between civilization and barbarism is "whether to go out of the self-centeredness", whether individuals in this society can balance with other individuals, and this balance requires rules, specifically various ethics, morals, etiquettes, and customs. Of course, the biggest rule today is the law. The legal society we advocate today belongs to a civilized society, but in fact, the ethical and moral society is more civilized than the legal society, because the law is compulsory, and morality depends more on education and consciousness.

The reason why humans are more advanced than animals is that humans have consciousness and have completed socialization, and that individuals can consciously abide by these social rules, and that social rules are internalized into rule consciousness. Therefore, the "Three Bonds and Five Constant Virtues" are social rules that guide and regulate interpersonal relationships. People use this to maintain the harmony of various interpersonal relationships, maintain the normal operation of society, and tell people how leaders and subordinates get along with their subordinates, how parents and children get along with their children, how husband and wife get along with each other, and how brothers and friends get along with each other, there is no oppression here, it is completely balanced.

From the perspective of interpersonal relationship psychology, in Western psychology, those psychologists have developed many interpersonal relationship models to observe and study how people get along with each other, but they ignore that interpersonal relationships need to be learned, educated, and establish such a sense of rules from an early age, rather than developing freely like animals, which will eventually be animals.

The reason why the West slanders and derogates Chinese culture is that they have evolved for a short time. They believe in social Darwinism , that is, survival of the fittest, agree with the survival of the weak, and advocate zero-sum game . The freedom they pursue is to do whatever they want, and no one cares about it. In fact, it is self-centered and selfish. In order to satisfy their own selfish interests, they can harm the interests of others and even their lives at will.

In fact, let’s observe today’s society. We don’t believe in our own culture anymore and criticize our own culture as dregs. What is the result of today’s interpersonal relationships? Are parents qualified? How about being a child? How many parent-child relationship issues are there? What is the relationship between leaders and subordinates? Look at today's marriage problems, how high are the divorce rate and cheating rate? Brothers and friends deceive each other and do not trust...

It can be said that there are too many interpersonal relationships today that violate ethical principles, so everyone feels that they are not happy because there are big problems with various relationships. Therefore, we must study our culture seriously again, establish the stigmatized "Three Bonds and Five Constant Virtues" again, and make it our interpersonal relationship norms, so that the relationship will be harmonious and people can learn how to get along correctly.