The "Sister of Earring" Li Shaoli incident has been fermenting online for a while.
A cadre in Inner Mongolia is about to retire. Li Shaoli, who was still obsessed with the people of the whole country before, but a press conference made him popular all over the country.
On the surface, valuable earrings, silk scarves, and those difficult-to-commend point-and-read speeches have made people complain and question her integrity and ability to govern. But I want to explore the deep psychological reasons behind Li Shaoli's high-profile makeup from the perspective of my old professional psychology.
In the psychology community, there is a person who is very famous, and he is Maslow . His greatest contribution to psychological research is the five-level theory of human needs. The initiator behind any human behavior is determined by the needs of the human beings themselves. The 5-level theory of demands well summarizes and explains several major needs pursued by human beings throughout their lives.
Let’s analyze the psychological reasons behind the Li Shaoli incident based on this theory.
Requirements 5-level theory divides demand into five categories: "physiological needs, security needs, social needs, respect needs and self-realization needs", and develops from low-level to high-level in turn.
1, physiological needs.
Physical needs is the most basic need for human beings to maintain their own survival, including food, drinking, pulling, scattering, sexual needs. If all these are satisfied, then the human race will prosper and prosper. Otherwise, the reproduction and survival of human race will become a problem. In this sense, physiology requires the greatest motivation for people to behave. All the inconspicuous and ordinary behaviors we see in daily life can be classified as physiological needs. Today, the physiological needs of the vast majority of ordinary people in Chinese society can basically be met, not to mention Li Shaoli, who is a member of the social elite. Therefore, the psychological reason behind the Li Shaoli incident should not be to meet her physiological needs.
2, security needs.
security needs is the need for human beings to protect their own safety and get rid of external threats. When human physiological needs are met, we must consider ensuring our safety. In ancient times, due to the existence of beasts that are stronger than humans, people need to ensure safety; in ancient times, due to the existence of bandits and bullies, people need to ensure safety; in today's peaceful times, although their lives are not in danger, people need to ensure safety under unemployment and epidemics. As a social management class, Li Shaoli has many social resources that ordinary people cannot reach, so she has a sufficient sense of security. Therefore, the psychological reason behind the Li Shaoli incident should not be to meet her safety needs.
3, love needs.
Fellowship needs are because Humans are social animals, and people need to connect with each other, communicate with each other, and be afraid of loneliness. Therefore, after eating and wearing warm clothes and being safe, there will be further emotional needs. The emotional needs between people can be divided into two types: one is the need for friendship, and the relationships and friendship between friends, colleagues, classmates, and comrades-in-arms belong to this; the other is the need for love. Everyone wants to get the love between men and women, and they also want to get the love of others. There is no report on Li Shaoli's emotional state in the middle of the news, but judging from her delicate appearance and elegant temperament, her emotional life should be lacking. Therefore, the psychological reason behind the Li Shaoli incident should not be to meet her emotional needs.
4, respect the needs.
Respect needs is a social need that accompanies humans enter the class society . People hope to have a stable social status and require their personal abilities and achievements to be recognized by society. Respect needs can be divided into two categories: personal self-esteem and social recognition. Personal self-esteem is a kind of self-recognition that comes from the inside, such as self-confidence and sense of independence. Social recognition refers to a person being respected and believed by other members in social life and being in an important position in society.So how can a person demonstrate his important position in society? That is to show his uniqueness everywhere. Through her valuable earrings, scarves and exquisite makeup, Li Shaoli deliberately shows and reminds her of her unique social status. So I personally think that the psychological reason behind the Li Shaoli incident should be to meet her respectful needs.
5, self-realization needs.
Self-realization needs is the highest spiritual need of human beings. It refers to a need to realize one's lofty ideals and ambitions, exert personal abilities to the limit, and thus fulfill one's inner happiness and joy. This is the highest level of spiritual pursuit. It is completely separated from the category of selfishness, but puts the interests of the whole society and all mankind first in their pursuit. This should be the spiritual goal of every ruler. But Li Shaoli's behavior seems to be still far from this goal. Therefore, the psychological reason behind the Li Shaoli incident should not be to meet her self-realization needs.
The "Sister Earring" Li Shaoli incident proves one thing: behind any behavior, there must be corresponding needs to guide any action.
The charm of psychology lies in pushing away the fog on the surface and reaching the truest heart.
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