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I realized it, not because I figured it out, but because I experienced it.
enlightenment comes from experience, and it is not achieved by just living in a corner.
Some people understand, some people let go, some people see through the world, some people are transcendent, some people are bitter, spicy, sour, and sweet, behind the "thinking" is all about experience.
Why are the symptoms not "listening" good? Because the other person is talking about experience, and hearing this becomes the truth. Only by doing it yourself can the truth be transformed into your own experience, that is, the path you have taken.
is just like " Pony Crossing the River ". The depth of the water is what anyone says is based on their own experience. If you want to cross the river, you must go into the water yourself and wade through it. Only then will it become your successful experience (experience).
Speaking of this, some friends should be able to find the reason why they can't get out.
"I have listened to the teacher's lecture several times. After listening, I really got better for a few days, but then I couldn't do it again."
That's the feeling of empathizing with and the power of companionship and support.
"I listened repeatedly, but the symptoms still didn't get better."
Because the symptoms are not good for listening, they are good for doing (action).
"I thought I could get better after listening to it and watching enough rehabilitation experience..."
is like boxing. No matter how memorized the key points of the movements the coach talks about, I can't say that I can beat them anymore. Only by personally wielding a fist to do every move, only by fighting in the ring, experiencing the pleasure of punching and the pain of being hit, will it become your experience. You will also know the accuracy of punching and the strength of dodging in subsequent games.
So, it is useless to even get into the book, and memorizing the content of the lecture will not help you. The only thing that can help you is spontaneous and conscious actions!
I can guide you in the direction of action and hold you in time when you are about to fall into a pit. I can accompany you through the darkness, but I can't take this path for you alone. It’s not that I don’t want to, it’s that I don’t have this ability, the fact is that no one can take action on your behalf.
It is the same as being sick. The doctor can help you develop treatment plans, can surgery for you, prescribe medicine for you, and even have the same experience. You can feel your suffering, but you can't bear it for you. The pain of surgery and the pain of taking medicine can only be recovered if you experience it yourself.
I have guided many friends who have come out. They have one thing in common: they can act firmly under my guidance - act with gritted teeth, act with tears, act with hard work, and do not turn back and get addicted to it.
Of course, from forced to breakthrough cannot be effective with one guidance. It is completed in a long time of companionship, mixed with the joy of success and the regret of failure.
Do you understand what your misunderstanding is?
The most common answer is "I understand but can't do it". It's still not clear about the symptoms and yourself. In the previous article, I specifically talked about this. I believe that after reading it, you will be clear about the issue of "not being able to do it"!
cannot do it, but it just cannot do it. How can I break it?
breaks through the forced force, what should I do if I can't do it? Can't
do it? It doesn’t matter, there is a way to break through the forced force!
can’t help but cannot do it. How can I get out of obsessive-compulsive disorder ?
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