I was having internal arguments with my daughter until one o'clock in the morning. I really couldn't shake off the frustration and powerlessness of raising a child. I feel that my education cannot keep up with this era, and I don’t know how to adjust. I graduated from a normal co

and my daughter were having internal conflicts until one o'clock in the morning. We really couldn't get rid of the frustration and powerlessness of raising children.

feels that his education cannot keep up with this era, and he doesn’t know how to adjust.

I graduated from a normal college with a bachelor's degree in English and have been teaching for 11 years. I passed the " psychological counselor " exam five years ago. As a key teacher, I have been receiving various studies and trainings. Moreover, I usually like to read, and I have sufficient theoretical knowledge about educating children, at least compared to most parents, it is pretty good. However, when it comes to raising my own children, I still feel like a failure.

It seems that no matter how many educational theories there are, there is no way to deal with all kinds of unexpected and strange behaviors of children!

I have two children. The eldest is 9 and a half years old this year and will enter fourth grade in the fall. The younger one is 4 years old and will start middle school in the fall. Ordinarily, I'm still young, at least not yet in the rebellious stage of youth, but I just feel like I don't know how to raise my children. Deeply confused, severely anxious, not knowing where to go.

I feel like I am on the verge of hysteria