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From a certain perspective, if a person cannot learn to let go, he will not be able to get it. This is a kind of balance. After all, there is a limit to what a person can bear, and one cannot move on if he is under a load.
With the increasing age, young people entering the society often envy newborn babies.
I envy them that they can cry as much as they want when they want to cry, and drink milk when they are hungry. If they want to get something, they just need to act coquettishly and cry.
Baby's request and acquisition are not bound by any external rules, everything is only governed by their own needs and emotions.
This is the biggest reason we envy children, because they have the most real freedom.
Why can children live so freely? From a psychological point of view, this is related to our stereotyped thinking.
A certain philosopher once said: People always think habitually and effectively, and ignore the necessity. This means that we always first consider whether something is useful, not whether we need it or not.
Children’s ideas are simple and straightforward, and they often only consider whether they need it or not, so when they realize that they no longer like or need something, they can quickly make judgments and act accordingly.
and we, as adults,Due to social rules, ethics, money and wealth, etc., we have to control the desire and time of excretion. We can't do what we want. We can only live fearfully under various restrictions.
However, human living space and energy are limited. If we do not discard the useless things in the past, we will not be able to make room for new content, including new knowledge, information, material, and even social circles.
If the surrounding environment cannot be updated in time, our lives cannot be further gained.
Miss Xing’s story is a typical one. She is a competent housewife, and the most indispensable thing in their home is tableware.
Whether it is celebrations, celebrations, holidays, or Spring Festival gifts, mother-in-law always likes to give her tableware. Even the tableware given to her by others, the mother-in-law will also bring them to Miss Xing.
These forced kindnesses have been kept in the cupboard for many years. Miss Xing has never used them before, and she doesn't even like these tableware at all.
Finally one day, Miss Xing began to attack these tableware, she decided to get rid of this heart disease.
When cleaning, Miss Xing suddenly wanted to understand a truth-for so many years, she has always been too concerned about what her mother-in-law thinks, but ignores her own inner voice, always taking others as her own Value standards, and let myself sacrifice a lot.
After throwing away these tiring tableware,Miss Xing's life finally opened a new page. She can finally buy and use the tableware she likes without worry and guilt.
Like Miss Xing, there are many things that we should give up in our lives.
In addition to the visible things, there are those hoarded and unused people, things, and things. They are like knowledge that has not been practiced. Only by letting go, knowledge can truly be transformed into wisdom.
Sooner or later, we will all understand that the simpler a person lives, the happier it is.
The simpler you live, the easier it is to have pure happiness
Those who live simply, not only don’t hoard things that are useless to them, they also choose to put them down and discard them in time .
Let go of those useless social relationships and discard some unnecessary desires and emotions. Only by making your life simple and relaxing can you get closer and closer to pure happiness.
In life, many people often can afford it easily, but it is difficult to put it down completely.
In terms of material things, some people like to buy things. Regardless of whether they really need them or not, as long as they like them and the price is reasonable, they will place the order directly. And it wastes space.
In fact, what these people really like is the feeling when they place the order, not the item. If you don't want to be kidnapped by this impulsive consumption desire, you must make your life simpler and have less desire.
People become blessed,Start with making yourself simple
People who live simple not only have extremely low material needs, but also have extremely high spiritual needs. The more a person cares about the spiritual world, the more enriched it is. My heart and soul.
For them, the material aspect can provide for their daily life, but the spiritual aspect must be constantly enriched.
When you know how to care about your soul and know how to pursue a spiritual life, your life will become a lot easier. At this time, it is precisely the beginning of becoming blessed.
To put it simply, a person becoming blessed starts with making himself simple.
Your life is simpler, your desires are reduced, your circle is purified, and you will naturally reach a state where your heart feels like water. At this time you will be yourself unswervingly and will not be easily swayed by others.
No matter what others say or do, it is difficult to easily influence you, because you have your own persistence in your heart.
In life, you must make your life simpler. Don't buy things you shouldn't buy, don't make friends with people you shouldn't, and don't have desires you shouldn't have.
Only in this way can we have pure happiness and let ourselves live easily and ourselves.
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