Psychology: If you want to arouse female fertility enthusiasm, you need to do this well

Qi Wei husband Lee Seung-hyun During this time, because he participated in the singing and dancing variety show "", his brother is also very involved in the discussion of span9span. Hot.

But what people appreciate most is his dedication to his wife and family. In order to allow his wife Qi Wei to return to her "workplace", Lee Seung-hyun took the initiative to become a dad, because he knew that a woman's career period is shorter than that of a man.

Women of childbearing age have low willingness to give birth, and many of them are inseparable from the demands of personal growth and development. At the same time, contemporary women, especially well-educated women, are constantly looking for a balance between self-loss and self-retention. They are even more afraid of being deprived of their "self" because of childbirth.

I have a friend who is a school teacher. She accidentally told me an interesting phenomenon. If children write essays on the subject of "mother", the content of the children in the class is almost the same. It's mostly something like "My mother is very gentle". But if the topic is "father", children will write a lot of interesting content.

In other words, when you talk about "mother", the names such as Qi Wei, , Tang Yan, , etc. disappear, leaving only the role of "mother".

Since ancient times, women have been too restricted by the role of "mother". It can be seen from the children's composition that the mother has an almost absolute stereotype. This stereotype is too strong and destroys the personality of women.People think that mothers should be, or they must be a certain way. In this way, women's so-called self and individuality are completely suppressed.

For a long time, social culture has placed great emphasis on the positive side of motherhood, and it is difficult to see the negative side of motherhood. So when it comes to "mother", it must be a "good mother", and it must be extremely sacrificial. However, you should know that there are no absolutely good or absolutely bad things in this world. Everything has a good side and a bad side, and the role of "mother" is naturally the same.

Modern women want to break this tradition, not only as "mothers", but also as independent individuals. This makes them have to reject motherhood in some ways. "If I was labeled as a mother, I would die as an individual, and I can't stand it!" This is the true thinking of many women today.

For women, it seems very difficult to be a mother and a woman at the same time. When a woman balances her motherhood and self, men who live together also need to understand this matter and try their best to help her. In this way, women's rejection of motherhood can be reduced, instead of throwing the matter of raising children to the mother and escaping from the family.

Therefore, whether women can increase their willingness to give birth and whether they can accept their motherhood is directly related to the men in the family. I hope that the male compatriots can see the deprivation and sacrifice of women. I remember that Cai Kangyong expressed his deep "sympathy" for women in the last season of Wonderful Flowers, because he knows that the identity of a mother is a life-long shackle for women. You can not be a daughter or a wife, but you can never pick it up. The mother’s identity, title and responsibilities are lost.