Later I found that many employees in the window units and service industry were wearing this cartoon smiling face on their chests. In mid-July 2013, 161 female students from Nanjing colleges and universities received "devil training" for Youth Olympic Games volunteers in Nanjing.

Smile

▓ Wang Xinsheng

When I was working, I asked the office to post two cartoon smiling faces on the large mirror of the bathroom stand. Later I found that many employees in the window units and service industry were wearing this cartoon smiling face on their chests.

In mid-July 2013, 161 female students from Nanjing colleges and universities received "devil training" for volunteers in Youth Olympic Games in Nanjing. The first lesson was to practice with a smile. They gently bit their chopsticks and spread their upper and lower lips to lift their smiley skin. According to the national etiquette trainer , after training time, you can smile sweetly and smile becomes a habit.

In Nanjing in August 2014, the smiles of these girls became a beautiful scenery at the Youth Olympic Games.

Smile seems to be just an expression, but it is actually a natural expression of pleasant emotions. The so-called "appearance is born from the heart". Of course, a sincere smile from the heart is not a skill, nor can it be trained. Happiness is a kind of spiritual pleasure for people and a spiritual satisfaction. Some people even think that "happiness is higher than success." As long as you always maintain a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, happiness is by your side.

Give more and ask less, help others;

Forget unhappy things, forgive those who make you unhappy, learn to forgive and tolerate;

Always be grateful;

Have goals and pursuits;

Be good at sharing happiness with others;

Keep your childlike heart;

Learn to share happiness with all kinds of people, etc. Get along;

maintain a sense of humor;

remain unstable;

have close friends;

maintain self-confidence;

learn to entertain yourself;

understand that suffering losses is a blessing...

People who are good at self-reflection will not complain about the world, and such people will always smile because of happiness. Confucius said: "I examine myself three times a day" to check myself, "Are you unfaithful in your plan for others, and do you not believe in your friendship?" Zhu Xi said; "Do you reflect on yourself every day, and if you have something, you will be encouraged if you don't." Self-reflection is the process of self-consciousness to examine one's own words and deeds, that is, self-evaluation, reflection, regulation and education.

Therefore, self-reflection is a good moral character and a ability to make people happy, showing self-consciousness, self-awareness, self-discipline and self-control.

As a mother, she is the child’s first teacher; as a wife, she is a good book for men. Therefore, smiling is particularly important for women. A smile is the best cosmetic for women, and it will make women more beautiful. People may hate a beautiful woman for various reasons, but they will never hate a sweet-smiling woman.

When interacting with others, women with a smile can effectively shorten the distance between the two parties, leave a beautiful psychological feeling for the other party, and thus create a harmonious atmosphere.

The charm created by a smiling woman can make tough people gentle and make difficulties easier to overcome. A smile is the lubricant for communication and an effective means to resolve conflicts.

While smiling women give warmth to others, they also win the trust, respect and love of others.

Women with a smile will always get help when they encounter setbacks. No one is willing to always help those frowning women, let alone give them opportunities.

As the saying goes, "A good heart means beautiful; a bad heart means ugly." A cold and selfish woman lacks a smile, and even the muscles on her face are stiff, and the more she grows, the more she looks like her heart. Those kind-hearted, cheerful and enthusiastic women always smile on their faces, and there seems to be a smile between their eyebrows, making people feel warm and friendly. Such women will naturally look better and more likeable as they grow older. This is the truth of "Women are beautiful because of their smile".

Different experiences will also give different imprints to a woman's appearance. The mind, connotation, intelligence, emotions, knowledge, personality and temperament will all be condensed on the face.

A woman experiences four roles: daughter, wife, mother, and grandmother (mother-in-law) in her life, which one is not heavy: caring cotton-padded jacket - caring for husband and children - good wife and good mother.Faced with the physiological and psychological pressure brought by family life and social life, as a woman with obvious "emotional" characteristics, since she needs to vent her feelings, she will inevitably be "hysterical". "Unreasonably" is shallow: cursing children and annoying husbands often has strict and fierce words, and the gentleness of women is gone.

They forgot that "there is reason and not the voice" and that "the gentle spring breeze of kindness"; they also forgot that their mother's smile is encouragement to their children, and that their wife's smile is comforting to their husbands.

If the female doctor in the hospital faces each patient with a smile, the patient's illness may be greatly reduced. If the female teacher in the school faces every child with a smile, the students' progress may be greatly accelerated. If the female clerk in the store faces every customer with a smile, the consumer's mood may be greatly improved.

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American psychologists have conducted a survey and concluded that society is easy to accept women who smile and make people feel warm.

A series of experiments released by a cognitive neuroscientist at New York University in the United States reveals the law of "judging people by appearance": a smiling face appears reliable. Analysis shows that people with happy facial expressions are generally considered friendly, reliable and trustworthy; while people with angry facial expressions are not.

Every time I receive my granddaughter from kindergarten or school, the first thing I ask her is: "Are you happy today?" Then I talk about her about "happy". I also often ask her to express her joy, anger, sorrow and happiness in front of the mirror, and feel the sweetness of her smile from comparison.

Smile is an innate physiological function of human beings. If you always maintain a cold, serious, sad and even painful expression, your ability to smile may deteriorate.

makes smiling a woman's habit and makes our society full of warmth.

was changed to November 2022

Wang Xinsheng , graduated from the School of Journalism and Communication, Nan Normal University, and graduated from the Law Graduate Class of the School of Law and Political College of Nan Normal University and graduated from the Graduate School of Business and Management of Nan Normal University and the Graduate Class of the Graduate School of Business and Management of Nan Normal University. Before retirement, he had 8 years of experience as an educated youth, 9 years of worker and 24 years of media person experience.