Female college students frequently post photos, netizens: Struggling in aesthetics and morality
Opening social platform does easily gain more attention, but it is also easy to attract some controversy. If you do not grasp the size well, and people sit at home, controversy will come.
A female college student, that's it. She did nothing, just likes to take selfies with beauty and then post to an open social platform.
can be seen that this girl is very confident. If she is not confident enough, she doesn’t have so much courage to take selfies.
Netizens are generally very friendly. At first, everyone comforted the girl: Sister, be confident!
may be that everyone misunderstood this girl, so they comforted her carefully and said that she was already very beautiful. But when they found that the style was wrong, the young lady showed great confidence in taking selfies and posting photos, and replied to netizens: "I am the most beautiful!"
It seems that this girl is not lacking in self-confidence, and seems to be a little too confident.
Let alone netizens, probably all onlookers have a feeling, that is to wander on the edge of aesthetics and morality, doesn’t know whether to praise her beauty or remind her that you may not be that beautiful, you must recognize your face.
is precisely because of such a strong contrast that some people question: Could be a hype? Are there really people who are so blindly confident?
Self-confidence is a good thing, the premise is that you have self-knowledge
We often pay attention to children's sense of self-confidence. We hope that children are confident and clear, and do not want children to be inferior and sensitive, but in the end they may get an over-confident child.
Confidence is a good thing, but overconfidence can easily lead to "disaster scene". Compared with children who are a little unconfident, I think the latter is more reliable.
A child is overconfident, which may be because he has really not realized his shortcomings, or no one has told him (her) the truth. The child has lived in a world woven by "beautiful lies" since he was a child, so someone needs to tell them the truth friendly so that they can have self-knowledge and restrain their self-confidence.
People who lack self-confidence will not lack friends, but people who are overconfidence will find it difficult to make real friends .
Tell the truth to your children appropriately and let them realize their shortcomings. This is much more friendly than entering an open environment and hearing the truth from others.
If the child is addicted to "beauty", the mother will still stop the child
beautification in time. It is really the most influential thing in this era, but the most useless thing.
Beauty will increase a person's confidence, because beauty can really make a person become much more beautiful based on his own appearance, and then make some people who are addicted to it unable to extricate themselves, thinking that this is his true state.
If the child reaches puberty and is addicted to this function, parents should not be merciful. They have reached this age group. Sprinkle cold water on their children in time to make them sober, which is a good thing for the child. Otherwise, if the child’s excessive confidence comes to others, they may be disgusted, ridiculed, and hurt by reality.
The best way is not to stimulate language, but to turn off the beauty when the child takes a selfie, so that the child can truly realize his face and look in a real state. This is not enough. You also need to tell the child: The self in your eyes is actually better than you in others' eyes, so don't waste time on this matter .
The excessive entertainment of this era has had a significant impact on many children. Beauty cameras came into being, making some children think that they are capable and beautiful, and have the confidence to compete with those celebrity Internet celebrities. This is not a good sign. Urge children to put away their beauty cameras, recognize the truth, work hard, and return to reality.
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