I told my mother-in-law this news and my guess, thinking she would be as happy as me - no need to take care of the children at home every day. Unexpectedly, she hesitated for a long time and said to me: "Can we let the children go to school after the Spring Festival? It's too dan

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A new ten items came out, and the first reaction I saw the tenth item was: the children should resume classes next week!

I told my mother-in-law this news and my guess, thinking she would be as happy as me - she didn't have to take care of the child at home every day. Unexpectedly, she hesitated for a long time and said to me: "Can we let the child go to school after the Spring Festival? It's too dangerous!"

I know she is worried that the child will be infected, so she can delay it for one more day.

However, I have different ideas from her. I would rather him go out and increase the risk of getting infected with the virus than he would be blocked at home for a long time and live in a single and unchanging environment.

In the past few days, I have asked several parents one after another, and they all have the same mentality as my mother-in-law: dare not send it, as it would be too irresponsible to the children.

I found that many parents on the Internet have the same idea: even if the school notifies the school to resume classes recently, they will not send their children to the school.

Compared with these parents, it seems that I am a stepmother, and I don’t act like my own child.

I am indeed a carefree person, but in fact I have seriously considered these two issues.

. Children have not socialized for a long time, which will cause more serious invisible damage to their intelligence and the body.

I have to go to work during the day, and my son can only follow his grandmother at home. Grandma has limited abilities and energy, so he is not only watching TV but also playing alone. Invisible negative effects such as brain development and physical fitness will definitely be, and the direct impact will be the decline in vision.

After my son was born, I have long felt personally and deeply: how much impact does " see the world " have on the development of the child's brain, movement and cognitive ability? The opportunity for rapid growth in the early stages is over, and I really regret it.

Moreover, some people have studied the "secondary harm" suffered by this generation of children born during The initial conclusion is that The new crown children are nearly two standard deviations lower than those of the pre-epidemic children in a series of developmental tests similar to IQ tests.

Professor Peng Kaiping from Tsinghua University conducted a certain scale of research on the status of primary school students in recent years of the epidemic. They surveyed 300,000 elementary school students and found that children after the epidemic had 4 worrying manifestations:

No motivation to learn . In fact, it is normal to reason according to logic: a child who does not have to worry about food and clothing and is seriously lacking in exercise will find it difficult to have the motivation to learn.

has no interest in the real world . Children spend most of their time communicating with the screen and living in a virtual world. These are potentially hidden in their neural memory, or have formed normal living habits.

social inability. There are too few opportunities to communicate with peers.

has no feeling of the value of life . Because people in the virtual world can be resurrected constantly.

In short, face-to-face communication and communication with peers are very important for the development of children's brain, the enhancement of social ability, and the perception of real life!

So, at this stage, it seems that letting children stay at home and not go out to reduce the infection of the new coronavirus is to protect children. From a long-term and comprehensive measurement, it is really not necessarily protecting them.

There are many diseases in the world, some are explicit and some are implicit. If you only avoid explicit and turn a blind eye to implicit, I personally think it is unwise.

. Humans cannot escape the rules of nature.The

virus is obviously unable to be removed, and it is not a way for us to hide.

I think those thoughts that they can get through the limelight by just one or two months are still a bit naive. The virus may not disappear for several years, and even our lives will coexist with it. Then can you make your children never go to school?

When a child is young, you are willing to shelter him from the wind and rain. When the child becomes an adult, you may become disgusted with him when he is used to sheltering him from the wind and rain and unable to go out of the door.

Anyway, one day I have to face it, so it’s better to face it openly.

Panic is also a day, and optimism is also a day, so it is better to be optimistic .

My child is not a princess and princess, so there is no need to focus on protection. Other people's children can fight the virus, so he can definitely resist it.

Actually, I have enough confidence in my child’s immunity . Even if something really bad happens, then the soldiers will block the water and the soil.

The survival of the fittest in nature, I cannot block it for him for the rest of my life. And I don’t have the ability to block my mother, so he must sprint when it’s time to block it by himself.

virus can continue to evolve with the changes in the host and surrounding environment. The same is true for our human bodies. Our bodies will produce antibodies for survival to fight similar viruses and upgrade their strength in repeated battles.

If we never let the body enable this part of our ability, then it will never get exercise. Just like the flowers in the greenhouse we usually talk about, they cannot withstand the wind and rain.

School is a collective place. The school leaders are more afraid of the risk of gathering infection than us, and they also have to bear more responsibilities. The teachers in the school face dozens of children from various families every day, and they are the people with the highest risk.

I believe the school will take certain measures to try its best to ensure the safety of the children.

As long as they are not afraid, I am not afraid.

As long as the school dares to open, I will dare to give it away.

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