"How can parents repay their kindness? Be kind as a river and sea, and filial piety is as filial as dust." From the book "Fu of Filial Piety" by Emperor Wu of Liang
In ancient times, Meng's mother moved three times to give her children a better environment for growth. Now Chen's mother lost weight to save her son, just to transplant the liver to her son, creating a miracle of medicine and even life.
The kindness of raising parents, as children, we cannot repay them. "The son wants to raise but the parents are not waiting for him." At that time, all we can do was to do our best to let them enjoy their old age. After all, they have been working hard for their children for most of their lives, and it is time to enjoy a happy life.
, but in August 2020, a horrific and vicious murder case occurred in Nanning, Guangxi. Looking back at the "Nanning Rich Second Generation Killing a Father and Mother Criminal Criminal Crime", this tragedy is worse than what you think.
Huang Liyang's birth conditions are actually much better than most people. My father, Huang, is a well-known local lawyer, and his work is meticulous and rigorous, while his mother is a professor at , Guangxi University for Nationalities. Because of her rich teaching experience, she is deeply loved by students.
But it was just such a pair of intellectual parents who raised a murderer who killed his parents. The tragedy happened beyond imagination.
Regularly speaking, children born in such families, coupled with the restrictions of birth policies, should be a confident and generous teenager. However, his classmates' views on Huang Liyang, the second-generation rich man, are completely opposite to him. They are not only introverted and withdrawn, but also extremely inferior, and even dare not look at others. All this is just because his parents adhere to the concept of "stick education".
Huang has been beaten and scolded by his parents since he was a child. At that time, he did not understand the teachings of his parents. After he achieved success in college, he realized his parents' original intention. So, after his child Huang Liyang was born, Huang automatically applied this concept to his son.
But he had long forgotten that the times are developing and people's concepts are constantly innovating. Regardless of whether this method is applicable to every child, Huang's behavior is obviously too extreme. He thought he had become a talent under the stick of his parents. Therefore, Huang Liyang, who was given great hope, began to show his harshness to him when he was only 3 years old.
"How come you are so stupid, you can't teach you no matter how you teach."
"Your mother and I have a good intelligence, so why did you give birth to a person who is ignorant all day long? It's really a waste of my money."
Removed the above verbal insults, Huang would beat him up in the name of teaching. Sometimes just because he was a little slow in washing dishes, Huang would "educate" Huang Liyang by "dragging and being so arrogant".
But Huang Liyang, who is useless in Huang's eyes, not only has the best grades, but also has a variety of talents. He is still like a god of learning in school. But Huang Liyang has no friends, because he has had psychological problems due to his father's domestic violence for many years. While he is extremely denying himself, his personality also begins to become violent.
And his mother, as a teacher who teaches and educates people, not only did not stop her husband's violent education, but even mocked Huang Liyang when he was beaten and scolded by Huang: "If I had known that I would not have learned well, I shouldn't have given birth to you at the beginning, which is embarrassing."
No one knew that this child, who dared not resist in front of his parents, was distorted because of the long-term depression of negative emotions. Sometimes, the eyes of his parents were full of hatred.
Ironically, when Huang Liyang's resentment became deeper and deeper, Huang's father and mother gradually discovered the disgust in their son's eyes, but they disagreed with it, believing that they would understand their approach when they get older. After all, parents in the world are also thinking about their children's future.
So, when he knew that Huang Liyang had a favorite university, Huang's father and mother forced Huang Liyang to fill in , a college in Suzhou , under the name of being good for him. At the same time, when Huang Liyang wanted to go to the UK to study a major he was interested in in 2020, he forcibly seized Huang Liyang's passport on the grounds that he was worried about his physical safety during the epidemic.
Again and again, all the thoughts in my heart were denied. Huang Liyang, who had no expectations for the future, had become increasingly distorted. He had lived as they asked for more than 20 years. When he thought that as long as they were still in this world, he would always be controlled by them, and his extreme mentality gradually developed evil thoughts.
In August 2020, there was a dispute just because of the temperature of turning on the air conditioner. Huang Liyang, who was out of control, rushed directly to his parents who had raised him for 22 years with a knife. In his parents' fearful expression, he committed the act of killing his father and mother.
In this case, Huang Liyang lost his mind during the collapse due to the long-term suppression of negative emotions, which led to a major disaster. He killed his parents. The purpose of the crime was clear and the victim died was the established result. This move constituted a serious crime of intentional homicide.
After committing the crime, fleeing other countries for fear of crime, which is even more aggravated. According to the provisions of the " Criminal Law ", those who intentionally kill people will be sentenced to death, life imprisonment or fixed-term imprisonment of more than ten years. Although the case is still under further trial, Huang Liyang's killing of his parents is very likely to be sentenced to death by .
Review of the "Nanning rich second generation murder case of murdering father and mother", people couldn't help but begin to reflect on what should education be done to cultivate a successful child? In fact, there is no standard answer to this. Although Huang Liyang's parents' educational behavior is indeed somewhat inappropriate, Huang Liyang's own behavior does have great problems, otherwise he would not have done so.
(Note: "Case: Looking back at the "Nanning Rich Second Generation Killing My Father and My Mother Crime", this tragedy is worse than what you think." The case in the article comes from news reports/judgment documents. The parties are pseudonyms and the plot is slightly polished; the pictures are all (parts) of the online pictures and have nothing to do with the case; original articles, please do not reprint and plagiarize)