November 10, Hangzhou, Zhejiang. A 41-year-old woman showed off her daily life in a solitary life, she was not married or had children, and lived in a house she bought 10 years ago, and her parents had passed away. She refused many relatives and friends' introductions because she felt that it was very tiring to get to know someone again, and she didn't want to make do with it. She feels that marriage is not about taking, but about mutual achievement, and living a life alone is fulfilling. If you get older in the future, you will still consider living a life of life. The woman's optimistic and casual attitude towards living alone has caused heated discussion. (Source: China.com Information)
Judging from the pictures she posted, she is a beautiful woman. Her life is leisurely and comfortable, and her current appearance is not even changed compared to 10 years ago. In 2012, she bought her first house. Based on time calculations, she owned her own house at the age of 31, and now she has at least two real estate units. If you have such financial resources, there is certainly no problem living alone. Even if you marry a husband, if your financial income is not high, you may still be renting a house now.
Some netizens sighed that those who are not married and infertile may be more selfish and do not want to give in and just want to play. She thinks it's better to have children. He said that his relative unfortunately had a car accident when he was old, and he ended up having multiple fractures all over his body. When I was in the hospital, my son was accompanied by him until he was discharged from the hospital. After being discharged from the hospital, his daughter and son-in-law took him to the home and took care of him meticulously. If he had not given birth to children when he was young and had no hard work to raise them, then would he have the care and care today?
Some netizens believe that if their financial strength allows, they are willing to live alone. She thinks that although she is getting married soon, she feels really tired. Getting married and having children is not a path that women must take. If conditions permit, they can take another path. There is no need for women to make things difficult for themselves or to compromise themselves, and to try the hardships of being a wife, a mother, and a daughter-in-law. Everyone has their own choices, and there is no need to blindly follow others. From birth to aging alone, you have always been walking alone on this road.
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. Some netizens also expressed their opinions with great sincerity. She believes that if she is not married yet, her life should be free and younger than she looks now. No matter how happy a marriage is, having children is a huge consumption for women. There are two aunts who have never married and have children throughout their lives who feel lonely when they are old, especially when they are unwell or during festivals. Of course, society is fair. If you enjoy the unrestrained first half of your life, you must face the second half of your life of being alone and helpless. Women who have experienced hard raising will have a happy old age, provided that their children are filial.
Many people have expressed great concern about the increasing number of people who are not married and infertile. Some people believe that getting married and having children is not only a matter of personal affairs, but also a matter of the country and society. If everyone learns to live alone, who will complete the reproduction and continuation of society? Some people also believe that we should learn from Japan's compulsory marriage to enhance the social responsibility of older young people. Some people also believe that reducing the proportion of people who do not marry requires encouragement rather than compulsory, and you can have the right to have children without getting married.
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So, how do you view the above issues from a legal perspective?
1. Free marriage, no one can force others to get married or not.
According to Article 1046 of the " Civil Code ", marriage shall be fully voluntarily, and either party shall be prohibited from coercing the other party, and any organization or individual shall be prohibited from interfering. So, if a girl is unwilling to get married, no one can force her. Marriage is the fate of both men and women. When fate comes, marriage will naturally be accomplished. Taking marriage as a priority is also irresponsible to oneself. Moreover, if a woman doesn’t get married now, it does not mean she won’t get married in the future. So, don't worry. picture-accessible, please do not check the
From the perspective of real life, on the one hand, more and more young men cannot find a spouse, and they are hurt because of this but find it difficult to realize their dreams. On the other hand, with the improvement of women's economic status, more women have joined the army of never getting married. Someone quipped, "If there is no child, there will be no one who will decide whether to deduct the tube when lying in the hospital bed in the future." What do you think and suggest about the phenomenon that women do not agree to get married and do not have children?
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