When you find that there is no ultimate answer to everything - or the answer is [not necessarily], you don’t know what to say or write.
has been quite shocked these days. First, I learned that a friend had eye surgery, then a classmate's brother had tongue cancer surgery, then an colleague's husband had appendicitis surgery, and then another female colleague had breast cancer surgery.
Of course, my husband's illness has not been cured yet. It's the first anniversary of the year a few days away. He has to go to the hospital every week. The medical insurance limit has been used up long ago. Because I am seeing Chinese medicine, I can't use medical insurance either. A minor shoulder surgery he had 5 years ago still hurts and itchs from time to time.
A serious illness will always change a person.
People change, relationships change, and the people around them look like they change.
New Coronavirus This serious illness on earth will change humans.
As humans change, relationships change, and the relationship between people and others seems to change.
Countless personal cases have given me a lot of thoughts and facts that I have to accept. One of them is that "misdiagnosis" is common, but we still have to choose to believe it.
American psychologist Herbert Simon has coined a modern term called [ Limited Rationality ].
Individuals pursue not the optimal solution, but the similar result under the premise of finite rationality.
The reality is true, because the information we obtain every minute is limited, and what you can know throughout your life is limited. When something happens, we can only make judgments and decisions based on the current limited information and then take action.
I know a boss who likes to hold people accountable afterwards. Whenever there is a situation, I will say why this and that was the case back then. . .
In my opinion, this kind of boss is just not responsible~
Patients are completely novice in terms of professionalism and information compared to doctors. There is no better way to choose to believe in this extreme information asymmetry.
Of course, if the condition allows, we can change places, several hospitals, do more horizontal comparisons, and obtain more information to help us make better decisions. Sometimes, in addition to saving money, it can also save lives.
For example, when my classmate’s brother was in his hometown, he was diagnosed as mid-term and he would need surgery immediately, with the initial cost of more than 200,000 yuan. Later, when I changed to the city's hospital, my illness became milder and my expenses were reduced by half. Finally, I went to Beijing and my illness became even worse, and I spent more than 20,000 yuan in total.
The second is: is chasing the disease, which is putting the cart before the horse.
WHO 2018 new version of " International Disease Classification " 11th edition (referred to as ICD-11), there are 55,000 disease codes, about 40,000 more than the tenth edition (ICD-10) 20 years ago.
That is to say, in 20 years, we have added 40,000 diseases - this is due to the development of medical devices.
If another version is updated this year, how many new diseases will be added?
How many diseases will be related to the new crown and the long-term new crown (the sequelae of the new crown)?
If you don’t chase the disease, what should you chase?
changes its own environment inward.
For example, my urticaria and eczema many years ago have not been good for many years. It has been cured in 2020 and has not recurred so far. The method used is to change my physical environment rather than to eliminate the symptom of urticaria.
The third of them is: Don’t be too ambitious, and to set the lower limit well, you can have an upper limit.
I have a friend who seeks the truth. He doesn’t like anyone because no one is on his truth.
I asked him joked: "In terms of your physical condition, how do you communicate with the world?"
He said: "This is not important, the body is very low-level, and the important thing is to have intentions."
In my opinion, seeking Buddha and seeking Taoism, the body is the same as the body and mind. The body is the foundation and the lower limit. If this part is not done well, the mind will ascend, which is too biased.
Insurance is a very low-level thing, the lower limit, but it determines the upper limit of your life and family.
Looking up at the starry sky, you see decades, hundreds of years, tens of thousands of years, and hundreds of millions of years.
configuration insurance protects the future - this future is less than a moment from the perspective of the universe, but it is very long compared to your and your children's lives.