"Parents' Love " tells the story of the 50-year love life in which Navy officer Jiang Defu and capitalist Miss An Jie met, knew each other, fell in love and stayed with each other. As soon as this TV series was broadcast, it was loved by the audience and lasted forever.
The whole drama does not have exciting ups and downs, but it only tells some trivial matters in ordinary life, but it is such a simple plot that gives us the most real and simplest emotional comfort.
newly married couple
They actually respect each other, contribute together, and protect the family together.
respect, it is obtained from there.
Jiang Defu respects An Jie's living habits and respects her for the rest of her life.
An Jie is a lady from a noble family, who acts generously and properly. Although a young lady has a cold temper and spends money, is not good at doing housework at first, and often finds it troublesome, because her husband lives with her with all her heart, she assumes her responsibilities in the family.
When I first met Jiang Defu, I thought he was okay and had a sense of justice. In the situation at that time, it was rare that there was such a man who bravely pursued her.
The family has been helped by Jiang Defu repeatedly. An Jie gradually discovered that Jiang Defu, who seemed rough, was actually a witty and cute man. She gradually accepted Jiang Defu's emotions and the two became husband and wife.
With the eldest and second brother
Jiang Defu did his best to make her live a more comfortable life. On the island, Jiang Defu built a toilet in his yard for the convenience of Anjie's toilet, which attracted the envy of the families of other officers. Anjie likes to drink coffee. Although Jiang Defu criticized her, he still asked someone to exchange foreign exchange coupon and buy the coffee for his wife. In front of the children, he defends the children's mother.
Jiang Defu has a tolerant heart. No matter how unreasonable An Jie makes, Jiang Defu can understand his wife, endure it himself and let his wife calm down. An Jie, who was originally very angry, could also smile in the end. Two people face difficulties and solve problems together, so that the two hearts can be closer.
The sense of security that women care about the most is what Anjie himself strives for. Anjie has an independent consciousness and strives for work. I didn’t think about relying on my husband to support me, but instead worked hard to get work and assumed family responsibilities. For some bad habits in Jiang Defu's life, which he could not accept, such as being a "three-washing husband", he would change Jiang Defu with righteous words.
Development together
There are also many people when the two conflict in their lives. Although An Jie mostly loses his temper, when Jiang Defu is really angry, she is tolerant and understands that a man’s self-esteem needs to be maintained. I will no longer anger my husband and give him a window to vent.
Jiang Defu spoiled her, but An Jie would also put down his figure and understand him, coax him, and help him. Good love is that both of us are willing to compromise for each other and put down our posture to coax each other.
Especially after An Jie knew that Jiang Defu's future was delayed because of her identity, she knew clearly what Jiang Defu had sacrificed for her and gave up, so she would quickly recover and reconcile after every time she was angry.
Whether a family can be happy depends on whether both husband and wife have behaviors that can tolerate each other, and also silently change themselves for the family, rather than just making demands to each other.
An Jie knew that his sister's family was renovated in Xiaoheishan, but he never dared to visit his sister's family and did not mention this to Jiang Defu.But when Jiang Defu went to the island to see Ouyang Yi and knew what was going on, he could put himself in his shoes and think about the other party. After returning, he advised An Jie to go and take a look, and he helped his sister's family through the difficult period. Later, he helped his two daughters in his family become soldiers.
Twins
Jiang Defu is indeed the name of him. He insists on the principles he should stick to, but he should give him no less sympathy. He is kind to his wife and family, and others respect him. If he has a happy and stable family, he will be blessed.
Bai Yang once said: "For the sake of the continuation of love and the happiness of marriage, the wife must please her husband, and the husband must also please her wife. As for how to please it, it is a high-level art."
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Jiang Defu got love from Anjie. Jiang Defu has a low education, but he is good at acting properly. He is real, bold and meticulous, and has a thick-skinned attitude towards love, but he also has his own rules.
After all, she has been divorced for many years and wants to be a home. When she sees the beautiful Miss An, she cannot do without her eyes. "Where sincerity comes, gold and stone are open", she dares to face An Jie, a capitalist family, gradually makes her feel good about herself. An Jie was moved, and Jiang Defu finally got the beauty back.
Although Jiang Defu was born in the countryside, he knew how to deal with people and provided family material life guarantees after marriage, and did not let too many people and things disturb their lives. Moreover, except for the matter of principle, Jiang Defu basically followed An Jie's thoughts. With Jiang Defu's sister helping, the five children of the family did not make An Jie worry.
Only when you give up can you gain. An Jie was pregnant four times and gave birth to five children, which is also a dedication for urban women with rich family life and knowledgeable and culture. Let’s not talk about the fact that children are the crystallization of love here, this is not the result she wants subjectively.
If a woman is moved, she will be sincere. If she is extremely disappointed, she will give up her marriage. A woman’s attitude towards men comes from her behavior towards women. A woman’s unyielding relationship is moved by men. An Jie’s heart is peaceful and peaceful, and he can feel his own luck.
family photo
two in-laws "the father-in-law will not leave the mother-in-law, the scale will not leave the horn", face the future development together. Whether it is active or passive, An Jie also made a contribution. When he arrived at the island, he lived a trivial life.
"It is better to know that it is wrong to lose your horse", good fortune and misfortune depend on each other. Anjie was forced to go to the island. Although neither material nor spiritual life was compared with the city, and there was no prosperity and liveliness of big cities, the sky was high and the emperor was far away objectively, and it also became a safe haven for political life. Anjie avoided the hurt environment.
It is the common dedication that makes this lover face the ups and downs together and protects love. They all have the simplest feelings to treat their families and can do their best to maintain what they should do.
They can all give to each other, recognize the other party's efforts, understand the other party's situation, and follow the requirements of life, be able to do their own things, assume their own responsibilities, and play their role in the family well.
Guardians, in love, are mutual.
Although the two of them were quarreling all their lives on the surface, Jiang Defu and An Jie were protecting their homes and each other, so they protected this love. They spent their whole lives protecting their lovers, perfectly interpreting mutual support and long-lasting growth.
The children grew up
After retirement, An Jie learned to trade stocks and finally paid Jiang Defu's salary for nearly a year.Jiang Defu symbolically regained his "financial power", but he took care of the housework of buying groceries and cooking, which made An Jie easier.
From this perspective, Jiang Defu has never been distracted by his family and is wholeheartedly good to An Jie, saying that he knows how to cherish his divorce, and is honest and self-disciplined as the leader of the island's troops. It is true, but in fact, he loves his family and his family. He uses a man's mind and responsibility to take the initiative to protect his family. Such a man is trustworthy and relied on.
An Jie is also the guardian of Jiang Defu, and what she did is also touching. An Jie gradually adapted to the role of an officer's wife. When Jiang Defu was having a big banquet for guests, he showed an obedient little woman, giving Jiang Defu a lot of face.
She protects her family, treats Dehua sincerely, and helps Dehua deal with the bullies, helps Dehua solve problems, whether it is relatives, Lao Ding, or An Jie stands up and speaks for her without fear.
Marriage life is to feel admiration and gratitude in the process of getting along with the two. An Jie was moved by Jiang Defu constantly solving difficult problems in the big family for her; Jiang Defu is becoming more and more adaptable to his wife An Jie's exquisite life, and the love between the two is becoming more and more harmonious.
Jiang Defu and Anjie couple worked together to get along with the differences in their background, the huge gap in their educational level, the harsh living environment and the survival difficulties of special periods, and jointly raised five children, and went through 50 years of ups and downs.
Happy family
Chernishevsky once said: "What does loving someone mean? It means being happy for his happiness, doing everything that needs to be done to make him happier, and getting happiness from it."
Happy life is created by couples. Only when the couple are doing the same thing can they make their families happy, make themselves happy, make their families happy, and everyone happy! This is the truest way of love.
Nowadays, more people divorce, and more young people are unwilling to get married. In fact, they are still afraid of not getting happiness. In fact, people are very envious of the story of finding someone to grow old, and they will be moved by the unswerving love until death.
Because love is the theme of human society.