"I have lived a bad life so far, and I won't ask for anything in the second half of my life. As long as the child can be well, I will be content even on the day of my death." Thinking of my eldest son who died unexpectedly, looking at the dull young son in the ward, Zhu Guifen's eyes were tearful. She didn't know why God was so cruel and ruthless to her.
39-year-old Zhu Guifen comes from a small mountain village in Qujing, Yunnan. Seventeen years ago, she entered a new stage of her life full of longing for marriage. She thought everything in the future would be good, but she didn't want to put herself in dire straits. After marriage, her ex-husband gradually showed irritability and laziness and fight made her disappointed, and she failed to recuperate even during pregnancy. Zhu Guifen thought that giving birth to a child would make him better, but she didn't expect that after the eldest son was born, she was not waiting for the enlightenment of his ex-husband, but became more and more serious.
Zhu Guifen, who was really unbearable, decided to divorce and take her son away in the winter of 2007, but her ex-husband refused to give in. Since Zhu Guifen had no job at that time, the custody of the child was awarded to her ex-husband, and she had to visit her every month. Thinking that the child is the biological flesh and blood of his ex-husband, he doesn't even eat the baby, even if he is a bastard, he will definitely take good care of the child.
In order to get his son to his side as soon as possible, Zhu Guifen has been working outside after the divorce. It was also at that time that he met his current husband. He has a good temper and is an honest person who lives a life. The two decided to get married. In 2010, the news that Zhu Guifen was pregnant made her husband very happy. She asked her husband tentatively, "Can you take your eldest son over and live with me in the future?" Her husband agreed repeatedly to make her feel warm.
After becoming pregnant, Zhu Guifen was also unable to rest. She was in the fetal aura while doing farm work in the field. On March 22, 2011, the youngest son Dai Zixiu, who had just turned 38 weeks, came to her side for premature birth. Immersed in the joy of the child's birth. Zhu Guifen fantasized about taking her eldest son over and having a happy life for the family, and always unconsciously raised her mouth.
However, all the longings were crushed by the cruel reality. When Zixiu was three months old, Zhu Guifen found that his head was not straight and always leaned to one side. After discussing, the couple took the child to the hospital for examination. The doctor told them that the child was just a little calcium deficiency and needed to supplement more calcium in daily life. There was no big problem with the rest, so Zhu Guifen finally breathed a sigh of relief.
can be supplemented with calcium for two consecutive years, but Zixiu's condition still did not improve. Zhu Guifen had a bad premonition. She took her child to Kunming. After examinations of all sizes, Zixiu was finally diagnosed with various diseases such as cerebral palsy and movement disorders. The moment she heard the news, Zhu Guifen looked disbelief. She pulled the doctor and asked again and again, kneeling on the ground and begging them to show the child again, but it was useless.
suffered all the hardships in the first half of his life and finally formed a new family. He thought he could reap happiness from now on, but he did not want to never get the mercy of God. Zixiu's illness made Zhu Guifen feel desperate. The birth of the child was a little light in her dark life in the past, and she didn't expect to be shrouded in darkness again now.
Doctor told Zhu Guifen that the child's condition was not too bad, and as long as he insisted on treatment, he still had a chance to recover. These words ignited her confidence. The couple took out all their savings and asked Zixiu to be hospitalized for treatment. In order to allow Zixiu to receive long-term treatment, her husband went to work at a nearby construction site. Zhu Guifen took care of the child in the hospital and ran around various departments with her child in her arms. Every time she returned to the ward after the treatment, she had to massage the child like a doctor. She hoped that her efforts could bring even a little progress for her son.
However, life never seemed to have pity for this mother with a rough life. Just when Zhu Guifen was at a loss for the treatment of Zi Xiu, she received the bad news that her eldest son died unexpectedly, which gave her a fatal blow. Zhu Guifen didn't want to believe this cruel reality, so she kept asking her ex-husband but couldn't get any response.
Zi Xiu cannot live without people in the hospital. She didn't even see the last side of her eldest son. She blamed and regret came to her heart. She even wanted to jump down from the upstairs of the hospital. But looking at the child who was learning to speak, as a mother, she couldn't bear to leave him alone. She had lost her eldest son. Cure the youngest son became the only reason for her to survive.
Not yet emerged from the grief of losing his son, a serious problem was in front of him. Zixiu's condition became even worse and he needed carotid artery dissection surgery. However, such a difficult operation cannot be performed in hospitals in Yunnan, and the cost of hundreds of thousands of yuan was not a small amount. Due to the family situation at that time, the operating expenses could not be afforded. The couple didn't want to give up the hope of curing the child. The husband worked hard on the construction site. The work of homework on the twenty-five floors made people feel trembling, but in order to give the child the chance to survive, the husband did not frown. Zhu Guifen set up street stalls, wash dishes, and pick up waste near the hospital. As long as she can make money, she is willing to do any hard, tiring, or dirty work.
In April 2021, the couple finally saved enough money and took their son to Shanghai for surgery. Although the process was difficult, fortunately the operation was very successful. After the operation, Zixiu made significant improvements in some basic movements and walking. The couple couldn't help but cry out in joy. As long as the child can get better, it is worth it no matter how much hardship or fatigue it is.
But the daily expenses of big cities are unbearable for them. After their children's condition stabilized, they returned to their hometown in Yunnan. Unfortunately, it followed one after another. Because the child's arms were unable to move independently, as Zi Xiu grew up, his symptoms became more and more serious. He came to Kunming in many places. After the examination, the doctor told them that surgery is the best choice at present, and it costs at least 200,000 yuan, which made Zhu Guifen feel desperate.
Over the years, in order to cure my child's illness, I have spent all my family's savings and owed more than 100,000 foreign debts. Now my family is in a barren wall and has a lot of debts and can't afford to let the child undergo surgery. But he has been persisting until now. The child has suffered so much and suffered so much. Zhu Guifen and her husband do not want to give up any opportunity to cure the child.
"It's useless that I was unable to keep my boss. No matter how difficult it is in the future, I will cure Zixiu. Otherwise, even if I die, I will not have the face to see the child underground." Looking back on the past, Zhu Guifen could no longer control her emotions and cried bitterly.
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