I haven't listened to some night talk for a long time. In the past, whether it was a local radio station or a provincial radio station, there would be night talk. This kind of night talk was interactive. People were confused, emotional, and had trivial family questions. Many of t

I haven't listened to some night talk for a long time. In the past, whether it was a local radio station or a provincial radio station, there would be night talk. This kind of night talk was interactive. People were confused, emotional, and had trivial family questions. Many of them would turn to the host for help. Then, the host would ask about the situation briefly and use his own experience to answer questions for the listeners who called.

I remember there was a host of a program who heard someone’s emotional problem and said, go for divorce, hurry up and get divorced. It is biased to make such a conclusion after hearing a single word like this. There is a saying: It is difficult for a clean official to make a decision on family matters. Many things need to be understood thoroughly before you can draw conclusions.

There is also a radio host who asked a very detailed question. When they saw that they went to bed, they said seriously, "I'll think of a way for you." Then, I made a lot of sense of what I said.

In fact, it is understandable to chat with the audience and explain the depression in your heart for the sake of the show, but some hosts, based on the other party's words, brief introductions on the phone, immediately came up with an idea, which is really shameful.

Mencius said: "The trouble of people is to be a teacher." What you know is that you receive too little information. Just rely on the opinions of one family, you will immediately come up with a solution. This is biased.

I feel like a host is like a superman and will come up with many tricks in one night, but his ideas may not apply.

Recently, Cai Ming talked about the topic of "Do your parents support the career you chose?" in a program.

She said: "I often ask me to give some advice to young people. Why do I give them advice? My advice is all my experience, and my experience may not be helpful to children."

"My advice is not to give advice to young people." This is very self-aware.

There is a saying that goes: It’s not that I don’t understand, the world changes quickly. Some things are pushed forward ten years, twenty years, and even further apart. Some values ​​are different.

The era is different, people's cognition and rules will also change. Everyone's background, education, and ideas are different. Some of your ideas are only derived from your own environment, not combined with reality.

Don’t give others your ideas easily, others may not be practical.

Teacher Cai Ming is really lively and thorough this time.

The so-called "nothing can bring about wisdom without doing anything." Only when you have seen and experienced it can you have personal experience and understand it.

People's life is a process of constantly moving forward and correcting mistakes.

Someone questioned that after drinking so much chicken soup, I still can’t live a good life. In fact, I am too superstitious about those chicken soups. Some things can be learned from, but they are by no means the norm of life.

The great man once said that if you want to know the taste of pears, you must try them in person. Practice is the only criterion for testing truth.

The rules of the world are not conventional, and there are no fixed laws. Everything is changing, and the only thing that remains unchanged in the world is change itself. There is nothing absolute in many things. We are talking about some so-called success learning . Some people are showing off their useless nonsense in the high temple.

For universal value , you still need to listen to sincere concern. As for whether to accept it or not, that is your business.

There are many things in this world that you need to practice. During the long days, we need to be the leader of our own lives.

People with good cultivation, high knowledge, noble character, hidden and humble; he understands that giving advice to others is the greatest stupidity.

people are like that, trekking, sedimenting, and reflecting on themselves, and then they will become stronger.

Wait for you to travel all over the world, you will realize that perhaps imperfection is also a kind of beauty, and the so-called success and failure are also a matter of opinion. The world changes, the night rains in the world, maybe there will be an answer in the end.

Maturity is never time, but experience. In the real world, there is always too much rain, snow, ice and frost to train your muscles and temper your mind.

We need to learn, but don’t be blind, be calm and calm about reality and need to be in the future.

Know yourself, find your positioning, and for the world, clear away the fog, let go, let go, and be persistent. Keep your calmness and calmness in your heart.

The years are turning, and it is another new autumn day. It cares for everyone in the world, and everyone has gone through the world of reincarnation with their own lives.