As the saying goes: "The son is not the godfather." A child's words and deeds are deeply influenced by his parents. Often a good child has a pair of parents who are acquainted with affair. The reason why the Confucian and Mencius can be learned, and His mother's babbling teachings are inextricably linked, so it is not fake at all that one can see the virtues of his parents from the behavior of his children.
In the 1990s, a 14-year-old genius girl, , under the strict education of her father, became a very famous genius girl of 9strong . During the interview, I also received the award in the Great Hall of the People in . It is also because of its talent that many people call it among the girls. Han Han _span3 _strong12 Its has great expectations.
But in a recent interview, she has been reduced to , the unmarried mother of three children mother,What kind of experience made him change from a well-known writer to an unmarried mother, let’s take a look.
The 14-year-old genius girl is regrettable. She was once a famous "prodigy", but was influenced by her father for a lifetime. Strong
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She grew up in a family of ordinary workers , different from most ordinary families, her father likes to read books, _strong12 kinds of strong spans in the home to enlarge 1 span. Father’s reading dream can’t be realized ,In order to make up for his regrets, the father can only pin his hopes on his daughter, so as soon as she remembered, was made many plans.
Since I was a child After the four books and the five classics, I have learned so much in the environment of span3span _strong3span _strong12 every day. has made significant progress in her writing , not only won the rankings, but also published some publications and essays, and her literature was praised by and Ba Jin. She has made great achievements at a young age. Give the title of genius girl .
was supposed to continue nurturing the father of the child, but was overwhelmed by the fame and fortune in front of him , wanting to gain more benefits, it is precisely because of this decision that has affected span3span daughter is developing in a better direction .
Because his father is too strict,In order to make her father happy, can only bury her head in writing . Only when she writes excellent works, can father have a smiling face , which makes her character gradually distorted. Let her work sell , and her father also made her literature into a collection of , which was sold under major media packaging.
's short-term fame and fortune made her go to her head , at the peak of her life, she was even like her father, was poor and conceited, even though _span12strong was a life span1 _strong Downfall, she was unwilling to find a job to do it. It can be seen that her father's attitude has made her character very deformed and even a little scary. Of course, this is not the most influential.
After she dropped out of school, 's writing also reached a bottleneck period, _strong12 took her daughter from the front door, and it was difficult for her father to escape from home. In order to survive she can only work as a waiter in a restaurant ,At this time, she met a man who was 16 years older than herself.
This man not only can talk sweetly, also promised to fulfill her literary dream , she was deeply stuck in this relationship strong9_strong , and later had three children , strong9_strong , But when she was abandoned and asked to pay for the support, she knew that she was married. belongs to a third party , and can only continue to wander. Basically, her sorrow originates from her father, is the father’s actions that have affected his life. It can be seen how much family education affects a child.
Analysis: What aspects will family education affect children?
parents are their children the best teacher , if the character is better parents, then the child will be very well-behaved character, domineering personality is contrary if the parents, then the child personality will inevitably be affected, it is As in the text ,Personality is affected by the father, gradually becomes deformed , family education will affect the child's personality.
Nowadays people often say that should three views positive , the most important thing is that 9strong must not be too short when looking at things too shallow. , , otherwise the development will not be long-term, looks at things can’t just look at the immediate benefits That's correct.
Most excellent family parents Most know the general _ _strong9span _strong9span _ _Definitely not like the father in the article, regardless of the future of his daughter, pursues immediate interests , most of them will think about the future of children.
will not be unfavorable because of their own conceit, will pin their hopes on the child , will not be interrupted by strict requirements such as _spanstrong. Caring for children , only families that truly plan for their children can be called excellent families.
Conclusion: In summary, in the process of children’s growth, parents and children will inevitably play a very important role in education. Influence.
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