The only parent crying and telling: spent millions to raise a daughter, but married to a Phoenix man who washes and cooks for her

Introduction:

Ms. Li and Mr. Li have a 26-year-old daughter. They only have such an only daughter. Since they were young, they have worked hard to cultivate their daughters into particularly outstanding elites. Ms. Li and Mr. Li plan to spend millions of dollars to train their daughters, and when they grow up, let their daughters marry an equally good elite man.

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Ms. Li and Mr. Li's income is very ordinary, only a few thousand yuan a month, they have not bought clothes to wear, they did not buy good things to eat, so they saved up all the money. In cultivating her daughter. It took millions to raise daughters. For others, millions may not be much, but for Ms. Li and Mr. Li, millions are really a lot.

Ms. Li and Mr. Li themselves usually go to the supermarket to see snacks worth more than a dozen dollars. They all think they are expensive and never want to buy them. But in order to raise their daughters, they spend money and they become rich in seconds. After spending millions of money on your daughter, what kind of person did her daughter become when she grows up? Ms. Li and Mr. Li are particularly disappointed. It is not that they hope their daughters will become so accomplished people who can make them feel honorable, but at least their daughters should not let them down like this.

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After her daughter grew up, she gave up the opportunity to work in other places. She did not want to go to a big city. Why did she not want to go? For a Phoenix man. In fact, my daughter's major in the first study would have a better development if she stayed in the big city, but her daughter returned to her hometown in order to fall in love, gave up her major, and chose a clerk job with a monthly salary of 4,000 yuan.

Ms. Li and Mr. Li are going crazy, a 4,000 yuan clerk job, do they need to spend millions of years to train their daughters? Why doesn't my daughter stay in the big city and continue to study her profession? Ms. Li and Mr. Li hope that their daughters can stay in the big cities in the future, find a partner in the big cities, and become city residents in the future. This is what they mean to nurture their daughters. But her daughter has no interest in pursuing a career, nor is she interested in becoming a city dweller. In her eyes, she only sees the Phoenix man who washes and cooks for her.

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This Phoenix man has a particularly bad family background,There is no house in the family, and there are two older brothers. This kind of man, most families will not marry their daughter to him. What's more, Ms. Li and Mr. Li only have such an only daughter. They spent a million to raise her. How could they be willing to marry their daughters? What about such a person? Ms. Li told her daughter that this Phoenix man has a bad family situation, and his monthly salary is only 3800 yuan, which is almost the same as yours. Your two monthly salary adds up to less than 10,000 yuan. If you are married to a family like this, without a house or car, he still has two. Brother, have you thought about the future?

My daughter doesn’t care. My daughter says I can’t find a man who treats me so well. He is willing to wash and cook for me. Even if he has two older brothers, what if he can’t choose his native family, if he can Choosing, he also wants to be an only child, but he can't choose his parents, it's not his fault. My daughter has been talking to this Phoenix man. Ms. Li said what is the use of washing and cooking for you. Can I change a house for you if I wash and cook for you? Can I buy you a car for your laundry and cooking? Can you earn 10,000 yuan per month for washing and cooking for you? People need money to live a good life, not for washing and cooking for you.

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Ms. Li analyzed with her daughter that it would be painful to have a child after marrying this kind of phoenix man. Don't marry him, but the daughter just doesn't believe it. In the end, Ms. Li could only tell her that you are our only daughter. If you marry a Phoenix man, you will not have a good life on your own. Who will support us in the future? In fact, Ms. Li just wanted to use realistic words to wake up her daughter, telling her that it is difficult for them to be parents. They don’t want their daughters to suffer, because their daughters suffer, and they will suffer in the future. Ms. Li hopes that her daughters can be more realistic. For her own good, but also for her parents.

But my daughter doesn't believe in Ms. Li's story. My daughter said I asked you to spend a million to train me? You yourself want to spend 1 million to train me. Now you are to blame me. You spend 1 million to train me, do you want to control my life? I want to be with whomever I want to be with, just because you spent 1 million to train me, so I have to listen to you and give up this man who is good to me? How can it be good for me not to marry a Phoenix guy? I want to marry someone I like. If I can't marry someone I like, how can it be good for me? You don’t want me to marry him,It's for your good, not for me. You feel sorry for the millions of dollars you spent on me. You selfishly worry that I won't be able to support you after I marry the Phoenix man.

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Ms. Li and Mr. Li are very heartbroken. They only gave birth to one daughter. They have been very frugal all their lives. They have been spending money for their daughters and spent millions to raise them. As a result, the daughter blamed them for being selfish for a Phoenix man who was washing and cooking for her. Ms. Li and Mr. Li felt that their entire lives had been wasted. They were disappointed. They didn't want to persuade their daughter anymore. In the end, their daughter really married the Phoenix man who was washing and cooking for her.

Daughter's wedding, Ms. Li and Mr. Li did not attend, because Ms. Li knew that her daughter would not have a good time after marrying into such a family. Ms. Li and Mr. Li decided to go to a nursing home when they were old. If this daughter is not happy in the future, she should not come back to find her parents. The hearts of her parents have been broken by her. She gave birth to only one daughter in this life, and spent a whole life of savings to nurture her. In the end, she was for a man who was washing and cooking for her, completely ignoring her parents. In turn, she blamed her parents for being selfish and never thought about their parents’ old-age care. After working hard to raise her daughter for decades, it was no use in the end. The daughter chose this kind of life by herself. No wonder her parents did not remind her in the future.