Author: Insight Allergy
The spring water is clear and the spring water is turbid.
Recently, an interview video of Malong has been popularly searched.
In an interview, a reporter asked him: "Why is the national table tennis prosperous?" Motivation spurs you. Such team strength is an important reason for the prosperity of Guoping."
I have to say, what kind of environment are you in and who you are with, really. important.
As the business philosopher Jimmy Ron said: "You are the average of the five people you contact most often."
circle is good or bad. Human development prospects and quality of life.
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There is a very interesting saying on the Internet: "Player players will only urge you to play cards.Drinkers will only urge you to drink. "
After a person stays in a low-level circle for a long time, his knowledge and vision will stop growing.
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Once, her cousin came to ask her to borrow money.
An eight-meter man, sitting on her sofa with his head down, his face flushed with embarrassment.
It turned out that after graduating from university, my cousin worked as a technician in a company and made a bunch of brothers who were very good at playing. Others are practicing their skills, they close the door to play cards and smoke rings. A few years later, the company was reorganized. Most of the brothers who had fun together were eliminated in the selection examination and were forced to be laid off or dropped. Although my cousin has kept his job, he has been wandering at the grassroots level for many years, holding a meager salary.Making ends meet. The same group of people who joined the company with their cousins, some became technical backbones, and some had already taken leadership positions. Du Fu once said: " is clear in the spring, but the spring water is turbid. means that the spring of is clear, and the spring is clear from the spring. It's muddy. People are the same, entering different circles will lead to different lives. High-level circles will have a positive impact on you; low-level circles will make you deep in the mud and lose sight of the vastness of the world. If the circle around you has been consuming you, you must stop the loss in time.
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The Stanford Research Center once published a survey report that made people make money, and the conclusion was shocking:12.5% came from knowledge and 87.5% came from personal connections.
Carnegie training area person in charge also said: " circle is a ticket to wealth and success for one person. _ppan2ppan5 _span5 psp I like a caddie named Eddie Bennett.
The caddie is just to help the players take the cue and do chores without any technical content.
But the great thing about Eddie is that he does a job similar to others, but with a salary much higher than others.
The most powerful one, Eddie made 700 US dollars in only 4 days, which is equivalent to the income of other caddies in one year.
How did he do it?
because he only chooses the champion team to serve the players of the champion team.
at the beginning, in 1919,Eddie works for the Chicago White Sox.
Wait until the second year, Eddie will switch to the more promising Brooklyn Dodgers .
This year, the Brooklyn Dodgers won the league championship.
Later, Eddie discovered that although the Dodgers won the championship, their successors were weak.
Eddie, who was not optimistic about the prospects of the Dodgers, found a chance to enter the Yankees in 1921.
Soon, the Yankees won the first championship in team history.
Eddie has been a caddie for the Yankees for seven years, and the Yankees have won five American League titles.
Eddie knows very well: "How he handles the bat is not important at all. The important thing is that he can work for the popular star on the court."
hit the world in 1927. League finals.
legendary players in baseball back then, Babe Ruth and Lou Gerich are also listed.
Buffett learned the essence of investment and the secret of success from this caddie:
_strong6 and you must win a 5span8span strong6 to win together.
If Eddie does not enter the high-quality circle, he may be like other caddies, with a meager income day in and day out.
Sometimes a circle is a platform. Without a high-quality circle, you will be left far behind.
Staying away from low-level circles and joining a better group is a shortcut to becoming a master.
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In psychology, there is a law of attraction of a person who encounters a person and "span8span".
The circle is very important, but if you are not good enough, it is difficult to squeeze into the circle you yearn for.
Just like the reason why Eddie can keep close to high-level circles,It is because he has studied each team for many years and has a good knowledge of the strength and development potential of each team.
Want to change the circle, the most important thing is- practice oneself .
Self-media person @稻佐罗 When I first entered the industry, I caught up with a project, so I asked for help from the big guys who had added to WeChat before.
He wrote the request seriously, sent the message, and looked forward to the reply from the big coffee.
As a result, the big guys ignored him at all.
Afterwards, he wanted to understand the matter:
"I am an anonymous editor. It is too normal for him to return to me. Why is it not so important to him? , It’s just important to me. Here, I don’t have what the other party wants."
After that, he desperately wrote articles, dismantled the hot money, studied and studied.
is now an industry leader,No longer encounter the embarrassment that others are too lazy to respond to him when he first enters the industry.
Even those big guys who he didn't even dare to think about before will want to take the initiative to meet him.
Only by being the best self can you meet better people.
When you are strong, your circle will naturally become strong.
Some people say: "Circle and ability are two complementary things, and no one is more important than either."
will become a high-quality circle; Stronger, the circle will become more and more high-quality.
If you want to become a learned person, you have to cultivate knowledge in order to be qualified to talk with knowledgeable people;
If you want to become an elite in the workplace, you need to spend more time to improve your ability in the workplace. Only then has the opportunity to be recognized by the company.
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Jia Pingwa wrote in "The World of Games": _span8pspan _span5 you are in the world of your life.Represents your aesthetic and life level.
People who don't want to jump out of this comfort zone, your life will be in comfort, and the gap with others will become wider and wider. "
The biggest self-discipline of adults is not to be in low-level circles and self-consumption.
Please give me a thumbs up strong, strong strong_span8 strong_strong_span8. Growth.
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