A piece of news hit the Internet two days ago. A doctor from a tertiary hospital in Guangdong knelt back to his patient. I have some time today to write down some thoughts. In the
short video, a kneeling parent took his child to see a doctor. Unexpectedly, he called the wrong number and queued in the wrong line. However, he did not want to wait in line for several hours again, so he begged the doctor to see the child. In excitement, he knelt down directly.
We can easily understand the patient’s kneeling, his helpless emotional breakdown and helpless pleading. This helplessness of the weak arouses the passion of many “Internet heroes”.
As a result, a lot of accusations were directed at doctors.
There were many comments such as "If you have time to kneel, you might as well see a doctor quickly"; "How can you wait for a child with a high fever?"
Let’s first talk about why doctors kneel down?
Analyzing the reasons, there are only three reasons:
First, when seeing the patient kneeling, he feels that it is unbearable, so he kneels down to answer the question.
Secondly, the patient knelt down, which made the doctor feel very helpless and a little depressed.
Third, in the Internet era, it is very convenient for individuals to express their opinions, and doctors are worried about causing negative public opinion on the doctor-patient relationship. Because not everyone can understand the truth from beginning to end, he is worried that the kneeling posture of the patient's family may cause some people to misunderstand.
If we analyze it from these perspectives, we will find that the doctor is actually the more helpless one.
can speak standing up, who wants to speak on his knees? After the epidemic is released, there will be a large number of patients in the hospital, and under the huge work pressure in the medical system, is it really not easier for doctors than for patients?
Have you noticed that in the three years that everyone has been tortured by the new coronavirus epidemic, the people who have been criticized the most are often the busiest and most tired.
Before the COVID-19 epidemic was relaxed, the public sentiment was often directed at community cadres responsible for blocking and organizing nucleic acid tests;
After the epidemic was relaxed, kneeling doctors also became the outlet for everyone's emotions.
If you have relatives or friends who work in a hospital, and if you know the hard work of doctors and nurses, I believe you will not speak out to accuse the doctor who kneels down.
We always talk about empathy. The premise of empathy is to be more tolerant and less hostile. Otherwise, there is no way to truly change positions.
shared a sentence to encourage us! "Repuke yourself with the heart of blaming others, forgive others with the heart of forgiveness."
