As the end of the year approaches and the Chinese New Year approaches, some single men must have been urged to get married by their elders in the family. At this time, they will invariably explain the reason why they are single: It’s not that they don’t want to find a partner, but that the current standards for women to choose a mate are too high, and they are discouraged. So is this really the case?
Recently, a video interviewing a single lady on a street in Meizhou, Guangdong became popular on the Internet. In the past, people generally had the impression that girls who are more beautiful and better at dressing up are always surrounded by suitors. Their single status has always been a mystery, and it is rare to be like this beautiful woman in front of the camera. The video shot by
shows that this beautiful woman with a ponytail and slanted bangs is in front of her. Who can believe that she is a solo mother of ? She is seen wearing a cross V-neck crop top, which perfectly shows off her slender swan neck, small collarbone and small waist. The lower body is paired with loose trousers of the same color, showing a charming figure curve and full of charm.
When our reporter asked her: "What is your ideal boy like?" The girl
said shyly: "The character is OK, the three views are upright, both parties get along well, and the finances are similar, as long as he is not a scumbag."
At first glance, it sounds like this girl’s mate selection standards are not very high, which makes people very curious as to why she has always been single?
The girl said helplessly: "Maybe my circle is too small and I don't have any friends of the opposite sex."
reporter asked again: "Then if I marry you, how much gift will I need?"
The girl said frankly: "Our local custom seems to be a little more than tens of thousands of yuan. As for the amount of dowry, I have to go home and ask my parents."
After watching this video, I believe many netizens have a new view on love: "Since such a beautiful girl does not have high requirements for choosing a mate, then ordinary girls must not be that high"! Netizens discussed this a lot.
Netizen’s opinion:
Some netizens commented that in the current social phenomenon, too many women want to cross class through marriage and change their destiny in the name of marriage! That’s why there are so many older leftover girls! And the phenomenon of late marriage!
Some netizens commented that reality will slap you in the face. As you grow older, the advantages of being single will gradually decrease. It doesn’t matter whether you are beautiful or not. If there was such a market, there wouldn’t be so many people single.
Some netizens also commented that women cannot get married because they are selective and what they want cannot always be implemented in reality. Men cannot get married because they really cannot get married. They also know in their hearts that they cannot satisfy women and can only suppress their desires. ...
The author thinks that love between men and women will consider each other. Although this seems very utilitarian, it is actually just ordinary. What's more, choosing a person is directly related to the quality of one's life in the next few years, so everyone should pay more attention to improving themselves. Flowers and butterflies come naturally.
