The female protagonists in many idol dramas are usually either love-minded, or they are cold and capable strong women who are ignorant of the world and only focus on their work. In the end, they may have a small career success but end up alone and helpless. This new drama refreshes the understanding of beautiful career women.
Qin Shi in " The Twenty-Eight Laws of Love " can be said to be a sober woman in the world. She is outstanding from appearance to work ability. During college, in order to pursue the admired senior Tao Junhui, she worked hard to become a benchmark and set him as a benchmark. Her scores in all subjects surpassed her male idol. In the end, the school girl embraced her senior. Not only did she win excellent results and the debate championship, she also won Tao Junhui's sincerity.
I have been in love with the man I like for seven years. I finally have a stable job and a house, but I am publicly humiliated by my boyfriend’s mother just before getting married. With a high probability, I think many women will choose to settle the matter. After all, it is Tao Junhui who wants to marry, not his mother, and seven years is definitely not a small number. The sunk cost means that they may continue to maintain this relationship even if they compromise.
But the fact is that a moment of patience and humiliation before marriage will intensify and be despised after marriage. Therefore, she decisively chose to leave without leaving any room. After giving up the relationship, she focused all her thoughts on her career, which became capital for herself to meet better men in the future.
Qin Shi’s view on emotions is worth learning from every woman.
A good horse never turns back
There are many lovers who choose to get back together after breaking up. Some people think that it is inevitable for everyone to make childish and impulsive decisions when they are not sensible for the first time. Secondly, the relationship between two people is based on the foundation, and they will be more cherished after separation.
But often the truth is that the vast majority of reunions are repeating the same mistakes.
A person who takes the initiative to eat grass is usually not because he cannot find other grass in the grassland. So to put it bluntly, it is self-interest at work. After weighing the pros and cons, this person is the most suitable.
is just like Tao Junhui. Deep down in his heart, he believes that two people could actually have a better relationship. The most important thing is that compared to Qin Shi's wisdom, the simplicity of his successor Wu Fei is "stupid" to say the least, which makes him even more attached to his predecessor.
Therefore, after meeting his ex-girlfriend later, he sacrificed his life to save her again and again, and showed his infatuated eyes again and again. In the world of ordinary women, such gestures may be moved quickly. After all, there is a foundation of previous feelings, and in addition to feeling warmth, his actions at this moment also have a sense of superiority.
Faced with Tao Junhui's obsession, Qin Shi decisively gave his own opinion, that is, he would never turn back and had no interest in this old fool.
Just imagine that even if she really looks back, Tao Junhui's mother will not change, and the estrangement between the two due to their breakup will not change. Some can only end in a worse way, not to mention that for two equally good and equally competitive people, they are indeed not suitable for being a couple. Regarding this, the mature Qin Shi understands this truth very well, so the saying that Wu Fei is more suitable for Tao Junhui than himself is not an angry comment, but a heartfelt feeling and examination of the relationship.
No matter how much love you love, you can’t marry into a family with poor parents.
Parents are the original documents of their children. In other words, their parents’ Character directly affects children. Regardless of whether they agree that they like the girlfriend brought by their son, as a teacher, as an elder, or as a person, you should know the meaning of respect. However, like a shrew, you verbally humiliate girls, wait until others are humiliated and run away, and then blame others for leaving without saying hello and being unruly.
Let’s take a look at Wu Fei, the second-generation rich man, who was full of flattery at the dinner. When he heard that the woman’s parents had prepared a million-dollar mansion, she said with emotion on the spot that her daughter wanted to be rich. Then I turned around and came home and heard about the prenuptial agreement . I felt that my son was not worth it, and I wanted to go find someone to argue with my son.
Love has a validity period. Once you enter into marriage, no matter how good the relationship between two people is, their parents will always be your best friend. Facing a parent with poor conduct or even twisted thinking, it will be difficult to be treated with respect in the future.
Parents are the ceiling of a child's moral level. Once he encounters a crisis in the future, his instinctive reaction will be exactly the same as that of his parents. Therefore, when faced with a choice, one should learn from Qin Shi's decisiveness and give up some necessary things.
Never give up your career for love under any circumstances
Compared with men, women are more susceptible to emotional distress, because It is no exaggeration to say that relationships are the Achilles heel of women. However, whether it was Tao Junhui, the man he fell in love with for the first time, or Yang Hua later, Qin Shi never gave up on himself and stopped the development of his career because of emotional frustration. On the contrary, he worked harder before and later tried his best to start a business.
No man's love will be because of your attachment and reluctance to yourself. Only if you are good enough can he regret losing you.
Qin Shi did it, making his ex regret and making himself and Yang Hua more suitable. In the end, such lovers can get married naturally.
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(Author: Xiao Yu, psychological counselor, focusing on the emotional field), specializes in the restoration and repair of love relationships, marital conflicts and differences, and the healing of spiritual trauma caused by original ecological families. In the lonely journey of life, we listen to your grievances and pressures, help visitors improve their skills in getting along with each other, win back their lovers, manage their relationships well, and strive to become a happier person.
