A few days ago, a mother shared a video of her son's childhood online. In this video, the son was very excited to see his mother and reached out to hug her. In order to cooperate with his son, the mother lifted her legs up. A blooming flower, the scene is warm and happy. I believe many people have experienced such scenarios as
. It is normal for a son to hug his mother when he was a child, especially when he meets again after a long time, or is very happy, he will express his joy through hugs. When my mother saw her son, I had the strength to embrace myself and could feel her growth.
Unfortunately, there are a lot of unhealthy remarks in the comment section of this video.
In addition to teasing the relationship between mother and son, there are also people who think that "the son avoids the mother" and that the child is ignorant. Mothers should know how to keep a distance from their son, and should not let their son be willful and enjoy inappropriate contact.
Some pediatrician pointed out that it is not recommended for mother and son to hug each other like this. Don't think your child doesn't care. When enjoying happiness, children's cognition will be hindered. It would be fine if it was just an ordinary hug, but the way my mother raised her legs would be inappropriate. This kind of scene is only suitable for couples.
However, many people think that the picture of mother and son embracing each other is warm and loving, full of positive energy. Don't understand why some people swear? If this is true, after giving birth to a son, wouldn’t the mother find a way to say goodbye to her son forever?
In the face of netizens' criticism, the mother explained that when the assistant filmed this video, her son was only 9 years old. At that time, my son attended a senior executive training meeting for the family business. The training content is "Expressing gratitude and love". After the training session, my son was very excited to see his mother appear in the venue, so he stepped forward and hugged her. Perhaps the son just wanted to express his love for his mother.
It is worthy of affirmation that the mother tried to delete the video after seeing the criticism, but the son stopped it. He believes that hugging his mother is a way to express love, and there is no need to pay attention to unreasonable criticism from strangers.
The saying that children avoid mother and daughter avoid father has a long history. Under certain conditions, you can guide family education . When a child grows up, of course, some aspects need to be avoided, but what does the real "child avoid mother" mean?
With the development of the times, in modern families, the expression of love tends to be diversified. The understanding of "son avoids mother" should fully consider the differences in family relationships. Some family members have received higher education, and even in Western education, it is normal for mothers and sons to hug and kiss.
should be given a new educational connotation to the real "children avoid mothers". When his son grows up, let him learn to take a bath, sleep by himself, do what he can, learn to grow, learn to be independent, and no longer rely entirely on his mother.
In the guidelines for family education, we encourage children to express love and gratitude bravely, and give parents a hug and a kiss. This way of expression of love is missing from many families.
